How do I last longer in the DOGGY position?

[ANDZ Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ANDZ]

Hi guys!

As you know the doggy style is very intense, for both men and women. Almost men come faster when doing doggy style. Me either, I couldn't last long more than 2 minutes when doing this position. No matter i do it fast or slow, shallow or deep. I still blow my load anyway. But my GF extremely love that position, that's the problem . She've never had orgasm in other position before.

So, any idea what i can do during doggy style to make it last longer? or some exercise to improve it?

Okay, I tried not to look at the girl's ass and think about something else. It still didn't work. And besides, what fun is it to be thinking about something else. I love looking at her ass haha. any help guys? Thanks

[ANDZ Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ANDZ]

Oh! and She told me that she can't have orgasm if i stop thrusting. So i have to continuously thrust it in 5 minutes @@ that's imposible man

[akaTrex Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close akaTrex]

IMHO there are two ways to enable you to last longer.

1. Mind Games. In my youth I too would occationally suffer from premature Lift Off. I use mind games of things I hated and played them in my mind to prolong the event.

2. Another is to "Carefully" apply desensitizing cream to your unit and then strap on a Condom. Hopefully you and your GF are using protection.

Both work, but the mind is the Most Powerful SEX Organ in the human body. Be Smart and Use It Wisely!

I hate to use Porn Actors as an example. That being said How do you think they can thrust for eternity and climax on command? Mind Control!

Besides when I make love to my gal I love the idea of pleasing HER and I can cut lose when she is on Final Approach and the Point of No Return.

[aBone2pick Senior Member Member of the Month July 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close aBone2pick]

If all else fails, just keep a rubiks cube next to your bed. When you start pounding her from behind, grab the cube and try to solve it as fast as you can.

I have actually done this. It works amazingly well.

[MrB8 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close MrB8]

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[Bigdaddy55 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Bigdaddy55]

You should be able to last longer in doggy. Typically missionary is the one that makes you cum faster because you tense up in supporting your weight. What might be doing you in is the anticipation and your mind. Try to remain relaxed. Make sure you have your balance, breath deeply and keep your pelvic region relaxed.

[MrsLooking4more Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2013PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrsLooking4more]

ANDZ I love doggy too and the Mr used to have the same problem, his was due to sensitivity. I will have him post.

[Mrs. workin_4_it Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Mrs. workin_4_it]

You may want to try edging. That is supposed to help with control. Once you know how to control yourself, you should have no problems.

Good luck.

[HammerTime89 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close HammerTime89]

Deep squats and leg stretching

[Looking4more Retired Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2013PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Looking4more]

Like the Mrs said, I did have that problem before. I found that through many hours of PE, my sensitivity decreased over time. Also concentrating on her enjoyment rather than worrying about shooting too fast helped tremendously. I would always focus on myself and worry about it but once I was able to refocus, everything started getting better.

Now just remember it won't happen overnight but it can be overcome. In fact, now I have found that now I must turn to doggy style sometimes to get myself to finally hit PONR. It is a very erotic position so don't be surprised if it takes a while to overcome. Just remember that it can be overcome.

[DaddyDick Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close DaddyDick]

Edging helped me. I stopped just before ejaculation and counted my timer when I had to stop the first time. I increased my time incrementally. I just kept going and if I accidentally ejaculated. I wiped it off and continued. It did not take much time for me to be able to ejaculate and keep going during sex.

My tickle that sent me over the edge actually moved as time progressed. Initially it was all over my glans. Then it moved to the underside of my glans. So, when i edge I purposely tease that spot to get it use to the sensation. Now that it is use to the sensation I can control when I ejaculate. Also, when I first started I did not last long until I reached the point of ejaculation, so I tracked how many times I had to stop and the time it took. Eventually I developed the ability to just keep going.

Remember the goal is not to orgasm because PE is not about ejaculation. It is about becoming a better man not masturbation. There is a difference.

[jstane45 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jstane45]

I would think you can slow it down while still maintaining the intensity for her. Perhaps slow down the thrusting, and add in other things.

Many girls really seem to like doggy style for the mental aspect, more than how it physically feels, and it generally seems to be that it either makes them feel more naughty, or more submissive. You'll be able to tell which by her signals. My wife typically likes it because it extends the feeling of me be being aggressive and dominant over her, so if I basically manhandle her into doggy position, or bend over the bed, and just take her, that along with things like a firm hand on her shoulder, back of neck, or back of head and hair grabbing really get her wild no matter how hard or fast I'm thrusting.

The same seemed to go for any other girl I've been with, so maybe the same could work for you. Good luck!

[somebodyelse Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close somebodyelse]

one thing that has always plagued me is the desire to make the woman feel the absolute best. if she's not feeling good, I'm not feeling good.

If she IS feeling good, I want to always figure out how to keep that going, so my penis becomes desensitized because it just becomes a tool... a part of my body I'm using to try to make her feel better. I use the "feeling" on my penis to search for spots inside of her. Maybe lumps or bulges... I touch places inside with my tip and see what makes her go crazy.

This means you do not pay attention to how nice her body feels, but pay attention to how to make her feel good. This can delay your orgasm indefinitely, but you can still stay hard as a brick because at any point in time, if you're becoming a little discouraged, you can flip back to the feeling of your penis getting stroked by softness. that'll bring the erection right back, then go back to looking for fun places.

When you want to cum, just stop focusing on her pleasure, and focus on everything you're feeling. You'll orgasm as fast as you used to when you focus on your own pleasure again.

[endowmeplz Member Find all posts View Profile Close endowmeplz]

This helps me out when i'm in your situation:
(1) During your stride of Doggy Style, I check if i'm tensing my PC muscle, one thing you don't want flexed unless you want to go right away.
(2) If I don't feel like going right away too fast as well, I pause for a second and try to relubricate myself. it may calm them down a bit but it could help you most of all. If friction is your enemy, lube lube lube. (there is some guys who like it semi lubbed and gets off from it too quickly)
(3) before the position, try to give your tool time to rest as you get down and give your partner some love with your lips and tongue. Play well with your tongue they won't ask for your tool back as quickly.
(4) if your doing the moving, try stop and ask her to move her butt and give you a nice show with what she got in the trunk, this can either play towards your favor or against you so tread while doing this one.
(5) if all fail, edge and kegel on your free time is most remedy of this.

[DirtyNerd Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close DirtyNerd]

You are in full control in doggy you set the speed if you feel your getting close just do long deep stokes or just put it all the way in grind in deep it's all in the hips its all in the hips

even if you need to pull out reach your hands around her legs and rub that clit and finger bang away tell her how honey she makes you keep the pussy wet hold your finger under the head of your penis head till your ready to go again it helps me good luck practice makes perfect