OK, so here's a question which I don't need an answer for, but seeing as the crux of this thread is about how men get laid, I'm gonna flip it round.
I'm "sort of" dating a woman at the moment who's lovely, and attractive, but I'm not fucking her because reasons:
1) just before we met I had a weekend long first date with someone else with the filthiest sex and that was distracting throughout meeting this new one. Sadly, that first one's going nowhere for a whole load of reasons.
2) she's just really nice and the subject's never come up. I've enjoyed her company and want that to continue.
It's a bit like I'm "friend zoning" her because I am holding on to her as a friend, she's lovely, but the question is still open as sex hasn't come up and it's not something I've wanted to bring up as that would be opening a door I'm not getting the sense she's ready for. Could be wrong, I don't know, maybe one day it'll come up, I'll tell her I want to tie her up, spank her arse pink and fuck her up the arse while she has a vibrator and benwa balls in and she'll go straight into overdrive.
But I don't know, and I'm a little scared that if we go there, then it could destroy the lovely friendship we're starting to have.
So, in a way, she's friend zoned. But not in a "let you down gently" way, it's certainly not a no, and I don't want to shut her down. Maybe we're not sexually compatible? I don't know. Ultimately, I'm not the one chasing her, she chased me, and I like her, but not in a "fuck yes, give me that" way. For all I know, once the door's open she'll blossom and surprise me, but until that happens, we're in traditional dinner and a movie, three dates to second base world.
I'm not going to be hurt if it stops, I can take it or leave it, and I'll carry on dating other people, I'm just a little unsure about turning the corner because she's charmed me and I don't know if I want to scare her off.
Dunno if that's a place that women who friend zone you find themselves, but it is where I am right now, and she's kind of half friend zoned by not moving quickly enough.
I'm rambling. Ignore me, Dunno if that's interesting.
I'm "sort of" dating a woman at the moment who's lovely, and attractive, but I'm not fucking her because reasons:
1) just before we met I had a weekend long first date with someone else with the filthiest sex and that was distracting throughout meeting this new one. Sadly, that first one's going nowhere for a whole load of reasons.
2) she's just really nice and the subject's never come up. I've enjoyed her company and want that to continue.
It's a bit like I'm "friend zoning" her because I am holding on to her as a friend, she's lovely, but the question is still open as sex hasn't come up and it's not something I've wanted to bring up as that would be opening a door I'm not getting the sense she's ready for. Could be wrong, I don't know, maybe one day it'll come up, I'll tell her I want to tie her up, spank her arse pink and fuck her up the arse while she has a vibrator and benwa balls in and she'll go straight into overdrive.
But I don't know, and I'm a little scared that if we go there, then it could destroy the lovely friendship we're starting to have.
So, in a way, she's friend zoned. But not in a "let you down gently" way, it's certainly not a no, and I don't want to shut her down. Maybe we're not sexually compatible? I don't know. Ultimately, I'm not the one chasing her, she chased me, and I like her, but not in a "fuck yes, give me that" way. For all I know, once the door's open she'll blossom and surprise me, but until that happens, we're in traditional dinner and a movie, three dates to second base world.
I'm not going to be hurt if it stops, I can take it or leave it, and I'll carry on dating other people, I'm just a little unsure about turning the corner because she's charmed me and I don't know if I want to scare her off.
Dunno if that's a place that women who friend zone you find themselves, but it is where I am right now, and she's kind of half friend zoned by not moving quickly enough.
I'm rambling. Ignore me, Dunno if that's interesting.
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