Anal sex?

[jayjefferson33 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jayjefferson33]

I have never tried anal sex but i heard it can hurt my penis coz i have a foreskin? since ass is tight?

Would really like to hear experiences and advice from other people

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

I'm going to move this to the relationship forum, for a more appropriate audience JJ33.

Foreskin isn't an issue if proper steps are taken. For both yours and the others benefit, going slow and lots of lube is highly recommended. Preferable something that will stay around (like gel, or a thicker consistency).

Apply to both yourself, and the other. And take time to warm them up first too, not just rush right in.

[cockcrazy Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close cockcrazy]

Ass won't hurt your penis when you use lots of lube and your penis will be hard. Instead the one on the bottom will hurt a little bit when you first penetrate your penis inside his or her ass.

[longerlastingnoob Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close longerlastingnoob]

Enter SLOW.

[Dangler Senior Administrator☼ Wizard ☼ White Tiger Award 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Dangler]

Experiment with a dildo to see if you or the other party involved likes it.

[Joint-Expansion Senior Member Member of the Month August 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close Joint-Expansion]

Lube, lube, and more lube. Also, gently use a finger or two, prior to entry, to help loosen up things. It's all about breaking in VERY slow, to condition both her AND you.

[TPW Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close TPW]

Hey JJ,

There are some really great anal sex threads already available that you may want to check out:

Anal

Getting the girlfriend to do anal sex?

Anal questions

Anal: it's all in the mood

You may also want to give the following article from my blog a quick read as well:

Anal Sex: A Road Map to Back Door Pleasure

[Ivor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Ivor]

If anything I'd have thought having a foreskin would make it easier, as it provides an extra bit of 'glide' going in. Although it probably doesn't make a lot of difference either way.

[TPW Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close TPW]

If anything I'd have thought having a foreskin would make it easier, as it provides an extra bit of 'glide' going in. Although it probably doesn't make a lot of difference either way.

No Ivor...it doesn't make much difference at all.

[closed224 Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2014, Feb 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close closed224]

This is probably counter intuitive but anal feels less tight on my penis than vaginal. She has to relax so much and she basically trys to stay still to remain relaxed that it doesn't feel as much for me from a feed back point. Vaginally she kegels moves, bends all sorts of things that enhance the tightness. Simply my opinion and experience.

[TPW Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close TPW]

This is probably counter intuitive but anal feels less tight on my penis than vaginal. She has to relax so much and she basically trys to stay still to remain relaxed that it doesn't feel as much for me from a feed back point. Vaginally she kegels moves, bends all sorts of things that enhance the tightness. Simply my opinion and experience.

Not really Wishful when you consider that the anatomy and initial purpose of both the vaginal and anal canals. That does not mean of course, that anal sex cannot be as pleasurable only that sensation will be different.

[HealthyMeat Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close HealthyMeat]

Hey JJ,

There are some really great anal sex threads already available that you may want to check out:

Anal

Getting the girlfriend to do anal sex?

Anal questions

Anal: it's all in the mood

You may also want to give the following article from my blog a quick read as well:

Anal Sex: A Road Map to Back Door Pleasure

Thanks TPW! My wife and I want to try Anal sex and im excited about seeing what it is like. I hope she enjoys it! We will definitely take our time by using toys first and gradually increase size till she can take me, and ofcourse lots of lube! Her friends mention to her that it feels great so shes curious and so am I. When I think of sex I always just think Vagina but never really considered anal in the past, hope its as great as a lot of people make it seem

[TheGreatDivider Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close TheGreatDivider]

Won't that kill the mood, taking forever playing with butt toys? I mean it's a lot of pressure on the both of you to try something new which can be awkward and uncomfortable for her. It's always been my experience that anal sex is one of those things you suggest in the heat of the moment after giving her a really good orgasm and while she's still excited, and maybe a little drunk. It's more fun and naughty that way.

Something that is best attempted after you've knuckled her anus until working a lubed up finger in there during cunnilingus, taking things slow and gentle of course, and when she's ready only performing anal with just the head or even just the tip. You can't go wrong with just putting the head in, however going all in too fast and causing pain (or going past the second sphincter) could make this your one and only chance.

What I've found works best for the first time is after getting her excited putting in the head just a little and freezing there for awhile letting her decide how much cock she wants to take and then working with that. Don't be shocked if it isn't deep, it's usually only a couple of inches.

Again it's been my experience that anal sex is one of those naughty fantasies women want to try with someone they feel safe with, so while you're attempting it keep that in mind those two things. It's naughty and exciting but safe with you. Anal sex can also make a woman feel more emotionally vulnerable, so make sure you hold her and make her feel loved afterwards.

[Ivor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Ivor]

Won't that kill the mood, taking forever playing with butt toys? I mean it's a lot of pressure on the both of you to try something new which can be awkward and uncomfortable for her. It's always been my experience that anal sex is one of those things you suggest in the heat of the moment after giving her a really good orgasm and while she's still excited, and maybe a little drunk. It's more fun and naughty that way.

I think it probably depends on how experience you are at it. If you haven't done it before, or have only done it once or twice, you've got the thrill of trying something unfamiliar. On the other hand, if you do it semi-regularly, you've got the anticipation of the wonderful intense sensations.

I've never used toys with a girl for this purpose, always found fingers to be perfectly adequate, but for couples who already know they like it, I can see that they could be useful. And yes, having *a few* drinks first is good, but I think trying it while actually drunk could potentially be a pretty bad idea.

Excellent advice in the rest of your post about the emotional side of things, which I've found is often lacking in advice about anal.