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[cre8ted Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close cre8ted]

Hey guys, and gals,

So I'm a closet pe guy, only been going about 2 weeks, asked my wife today if she could change anything about my penis what would it be, and she replied with nothing. Now I know she can take more, she has a toy that proved it and her only complaint was it is too cold, but today she says that it was to big... I doubt that.. Its like 7.5 by 5.5 and I am 5.5 by 4.5 erect.. I think just over 6 bone pressed. And my goal is to get to 7 by 5.5.. Anyway she said she wouldn't change anything. I said I'd make it longer and wider.. But anyway should I continue peing or believe her and just tell myself she's never had a good one before or whatever.

Thanks

[THOTbreaker Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close THOTbreaker]

If you are doing it for yourself I would continue. I asked my partner the same question and got the same answer you did.

[cre8ted Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close cre8ted]

I am doing it more for myself. The thought in my head after our conversation was if it's so perfect then why do have sex maybe once in two or three weeks

[TheGreatDivider Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close TheGreatDivider]

Sounds to me like you're PEing to be something you hope your wife will like, instead of working on the man she already loves. You know PE is more than just making your penis bigger.... It's also working on you. If you can't love you, you can't love her for loving you.

I say take a break from PE and have a good long talk with your wife about everything, and not just PE because there is something else going on here. Take her out on a romantic date, take her to dinner, do all the little things you did to win her heart in the first place, make love to her. Come back to PE in a few weeks after you have done all of this when better about yourself.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Ah women; yeah talk to them that will do it.

[Sean Jacobs Retired Moderator Member of the Month Dec 2012PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Sean Jacobs]

Hey guys, and gals,

So I'm a closet pe guy, only been going about 2 weeks, asked my wife today if she could change anything about my penis what would it be, and she replied with nothing. Now I know she can take more, she has a toy that proved it and her only complaint was it is too cold, but today she says that it was to big... I doubt that.. Its like 7.5 by 5.5 and I am 5.5 by 4.5 erect.. I think just over 6 bone pressed. And my goal is to get to 7 by 5.5.. Anyway she said she wouldn't change anything. I said I'd make it longer and wider.. But anyway should I continue peing or believe her and just tell myself she's never had a good one before or whatever.

Thanks

What's the first rule of Fight Club? Never talk about Fight Club!

What's the first rule about women and your penis? Never ask women about your penis!

Hi cre8ted! Just a joke, but with a strong message. If you ask your wife if there is anything she would change about your penis do you think you are going to get clear and accurate answer? Honestly, most women barely spend any time thinking about their man's penis unless it is during sex. On top of that, if she is even slightly caring she is never going to respond with "I wish it was bigger!" because she doesn't want to hurt your feeling and because she believes it is impossible to change the size of your penis. Imagine for a moment that your wife came to you and asked, "Is there anything you would change about my vagina?" How would you answer, even if you felt she was too loose? Anytime a man asks questions about his penis; about his size; about his woman's past lover's size, about her opinion of what is a good size; about the size of a guy in a porn movie you are watching; etc, etc, etc....this sends a very clear message of insecurity and low self confidence. For women, their man showing insecurity and low self confidence is a huge turn off. So, don't EVER ask her any penis related questions or start any penis related conversations. Now, if she starts the discussion by all means engage but never stay anything that demonstrates lack of confidence or insecurity.

As for PE, as others have said if you want to increase your size you should find a good routine and get started. PE is a slow process, so as you grow she will become accustom to your slowly increasing size and who knows, she may love it. If it starts to get uncomfortable for her, you can stop.

Good luck with what ever you decide. Personally, I would go for it.

[Obsidian Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Obsidian]

I was a 'closet' PE-er and all I can say it was not fun because you always try not to be seen and keep it a secret for yourself and always thinking what would be reaction if she caught you doing it right ?!

After I 'opened' up to my wife about doing PE and explaining it why do I do it she was all for it, she said that I really don't need to increase the size of the penis and when I explained that I can also increase the head size it was only thing she said 'yeah you can do that' main thing I have explained was that it keeps your donger healthy for her and the side effect could be a longer and thicker penis.

We made PE our thing, now she is the one that is always commenting and looking and asking if something have changed about my penis and wants to measure :P and every time she is still fascinated that you can actually increase size of your penis by just ''massaging'' it

So my suggestion is to tell I don't believe she will have some really negative reaction, worst reaction I got was ' I'm just scared that you will do something bad to him'

[cre8ted Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close cre8ted]

Thanks for the advice guys

[Dick Whammy Retired Moderator Member of the month Jan 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Dick Whammy]

Tired of doing shit for THEM!!! Time to look at it like I'm doing stuff for me!!!

It's not selfish. Look at it like this. Doesn't (almost) everything we do benefit someone else in a way??

Get a better job? You spend more and someone benefits, or your Family gets more.

Go to school or college,,,once again better job,,,,,and better skills.


Well, bigger dick??? Someones gonna love it, it comes with you! What if you had it to begin with?? Better or worse, richer or poorer, in Thickness and Length! LOL


I say go for it! You've got your health and your dick,,,no one can take them away!! ;-)

[PanBird Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close PanBird]

Once every two or three weeks is not due to size. There are many factors including that.
Maybe challenge both of you to have sex for 7 days straight? 60 days straight?

Check out theoneextraordinarymarriage (001 - 60 Days of Sex)
They talk about sex in a relationship, and point out how important sex is for a relationship.

Remember again, the amount of sex has nothing to do with the size of a penis.