My GF = my life

[SmallPNis Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SmallPNis]

That's great news! Now go ahead and fall in love again.

Also, don't feel bad about bringing it up with her or asking her to do that for you. You may feel like you were worried about nothing, that you asked her to do that and it wasn't necessary.

And, she knew exactly why you were asking for it. And she did it anyways, because she wanted to build that trust with you, and she knew she wasn't lying.

If you have insecurities and need reassurance, don't be afraid to ask for it. Or maybe I should state it as, don't let your fear keep you from asking for it.

😊👍👏🙏

[SmallPNis Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SmallPNis]

is it like a hand written thing or just a pic with a caption on it?

Handwritten on a paper & showing her beautiful face like always 😝

[SmallPNis Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SmallPNis]

😊👍👏🙏

She said she was glad that I asked her this

[Qarzan Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Qarzan]

is it like a hand written thing or just a pic with a caption on it?

This is a great question!

Handwritten on a paper & showing her beautiful face like always 

And this is a great answer. Congrats!

She said she was glad that I asked her this

Yes, because otherwise there is suspicion between you two. The suspicion creates distance, and then the relationship has no chance. She's glad you asked her because, by asking this and getting your answer, you created closeness, trust, and honesty. At the risk of revealing deceit, lying, and mistrust.

A risk that was totally worth it, no matter how it turned out.

[longerlastingnoob Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close longerlastingnoob]

1 day to receive the picture? That was very fast.

[Tamora Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Aug 2015 PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Tamora]

Gosh...young and in love...makes me feel very old!

[Tamora Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Aug 2015 PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Tamora]

I tried long distance internet dating once (once was enough) and the anticipation of having sex (or making love...whatever you want to call it) meant that when it did happen it was blooming marvelous!

[Tamora Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Aug 2015 PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Tamora]

And I ended up going to Portland, Oregon for a while all the way from the UK...something I wouldn't have ever done otherwise.

Grab those opportunities son while you're still young and experience life...the good and the bad.

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AND...Did the effort live up to the expectations?

[Tamora Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Aug 2015 PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Tamora]

AND...Did the effort live up to the expectations?

Thanks for your interest.

I had just come out of a long marriage and a bitter divorce so the adventure was great for my soul...I felt like being a bit risque and taking a few chances.

The relationship didn't last but I don't regret it one bit...made me feel alive again and realise that there's a big wide world out there and sometimes taking a risk is worth it...even if it is just for the experience.

P.S. Do you want more details? I don't mind being asked.

[Qarzan Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Qarzan]

Thanks for your interest.

I had just come out of a long marriage and a bitter divorce so the adventure was great for my soul...I felt like being a bit risque and taking a few chances.

The relationship didn't last but I don't regret it one bit...made me feel alive again and realise that there's a big wide world out there and sometimes taking a risk is worth it...even if it is just for the experience.

P.S. Do you want more details? I don't mind being asked.

Long marriage, bitter divorce, sounds like my life. Although my divorce was amicable.

Have you considered polyamory? I'm exploring that right now, have been for 2 years, and it's just freaking amazing. You mentioned Portland, OR. There's lots of poly people up there. Have you heard of it, have you explored it?

Also, I understand this is not the intent of the thread. ta53ora, if you want to start a new thread instead of hijack this one, we can fully discuss this over there. Just post here where we can find it.

[Tamora Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Aug 2015 PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Tamora]

I was mindful of not wanting to hijack this thread from this besotted young man...but it is an interesting subject.

I might just take your advice and start a new thread shortly...just chasing a flying friggin' beetle around the room with my fly swatter at the mo after leaving the windows open after a hot day.

I would say that the OP has mentioned crying a few times in this thread...my advice would be try to not let your emotions get the better of you...but hey ho...such is love!

[Tamora Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Aug 2015 PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Tamora]

P.S. I love you too Wishful10x8...he "likes" just about every post I make!

[closed224 Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2014, Feb 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close closed224]

Nice butt. I like butts.

[Tamora Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Aug 2015 PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Tamora]

See what I mean!!!