Clearly the author was looking to employ some shock-and-awe as he packaged what I feel is pretty good advice; "If you're not really (sincerely) into another person or they are not really (sincerely) into you; look for someone who fits that bill."
When both parties are really into each other they are more willing to forgive slights, work with each other, and do thing to please the other. Good, open communication maintains that willingness.
But if you don't have that willingness because you or she feels you are "settling" for someone to "make it work" then it is an up-hill battle from the start.
When both parties are really into each other they are more willing to forgive slights, work with each other, and do thing to please the other. Good, open communication maintains that willingness.
But if you don't have that willingness because you or she feels you are "settling" for someone to "make it work" then it is an up-hill battle from the start.
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