My girlfriend found out about my account here....what should I do?

[TheGreatDivider Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close TheGreatDivider]

Well if she's that insecure... maybe you do deserve each other.

Either drop off of PEgym and apologize to her, or have her set up an account so she can write about this you. In any outcome, outlook not so good.

Your best bet is to be totally transparent with her, apologize like a man without trying to kiss up to her or buying her anything, and then give her plenty of space without contacting her for any reason. If she loves you she'll come back, but realistically..... Since this is your first girlfriend and you're both very insecure I doubt things are going to work out in the long run.

[Phoenix7672 Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Phoenix7672]

Not sure what to say. End of day, I don't hugely care if anyone was able to connect the dots of me. I guess it is because I'm not insecure with my size...I just want to be bigger if not huge (if I can get there). Worst thing that can happen imo is either it makes things a little awkward with the finder-outer, or scares them when they see my end goals. lol

[Dangler Senior Administrator☼ Wizard ☼ White Tiger Award 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Dangler]

If you find that your girl, is in any way attempting to manipulate or control you, by using your activity on this site, then red flags get thrown up.
|My opinion, that is crossing the line. Supporting the other, not controlling the other, is optimum.

[Uk_sceptic Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Uk_sceptic]

To put a spin on things, if it does go pear shaped at least you've either got a big dick or your on your way to a big dick so at least you wont be out of action for long!!! Just trying to cheer you up, don't mean anything bad about it

[Big Al AdministratorPEGym EditorMale Enhancement Coach Rep.PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Big Al]

I know its an anonymous safe place...not so safe though since she was able to find this account.

If you don't mind my asking, how exactly did she find out that you had an account here?

[jcwhs7 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jcwhs7]

If you don't mind my asking, how exactly did she find out that you had an account here?

I ask myself that same question... is there a way to check? because I keep this pretty private.

[jcwhs7 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jcwhs7]

To put a spin on things, if it does go pear shaped at least you've either got a big dick or your on your way to a big dick so at least you wont be out of action for long!!! Just trying to cheer you up, don't mean anything bad about it

well my measurements are 7.1 bpel and 5.6 mid eg .... I am a bit insecure, but more than anything I just want it bigger.

[jcwhs7 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jcwhs7]

If you find that your girl, is in any way attempting to manipulate or control you, by using your activity on this site, then red flags get thrown up.
|My opinion, that is crossing the line. Supporting the other, not controlling the other, is optimum.

Yeah, thats what I thought to myself because I have no idea how she managed to find this site and my account in particular.

[longerlastingnoob Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close longerlastingnoob]

She must of went through your laptop or phone, your account was probably logged in, unkless you posted names and specific details and she came across this site but I doubt it.

[Big Al AdministratorPEGym EditorMale Enhancement Coach Rep.PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Big Al]

I ask myself that same question... is there a way to check? because I keep this pretty private.

We sincerely do not wish to stir up any trouble in your relationship, but unless you've posted sensitive information here where it can be found in search engines, then it's likely that your device itself was accessed for the information.

PEGym wouldn't have given any of your personal details away.

[Lezoteli Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Lezoteli]

btw, if she remember the name of this site and your nick name, she still can read you.

[5_in_model Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 5_in_model]

don't sweat it. whether they say it out loud or not, women know us men are all about our cocks.

I just don't see the harm of her finding out that you are on a site to improve and strengthen your fuck-pole. if anything, she should be complimented that you want to put your 'best-cock' into her cunnie. if, on the other hand, your gal uses her finding out about your 'dick-improvement' hobby to pussy-whip or emasculate you, that's not such a happy story.

I've been married and divorced 4 times, and during my bachelor phases, I get my fair share of snatch. I've see how a lot of women operate from instinct and their woman's intuition. if a lot of women didn't have the urge to pussy-whip men, the term wouldn't exist.

if your woman is going to the dark side about you wanting to stiffen or lengthen your crank, ya gotta convince her it is all for her. otherwise, she'll think you wanna sleep around on her.

when it comes to men, women generally don't always think the best.

good luck, dude

[Uk_sceptic Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Uk_sceptic]

well my measurements are 7.1 bpel and 5.6 mid eg .... I am a bit insecure, but more than anything I just want it bigger.

Whats to be insecure about? That's a good sized cock pal. Im 7.25" and im happy with that but im doing it because ive finally found a way to make it bigger cos at the end of the day which bloke doesn't want more than what hes got??

[Cb1997 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Cb1997]

Damn dude I would just tell her how it is. At this point trying to weasel out or use any excuses might look bad. Times like these it pays to be honest, and again unless you are here to somehow cheat or talk crap on her, she should be taking it as a compliment and supporting you. If you tell her straight up and honestly and she reacts negatively, that may be a sign that other ends need to be worked out, not this one.

[closed224 Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2014, Feb 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close closed224]

Just invite her on. That's what I did with my wife, and my daughter. And sons, and sons in !aws, and friends, and coworkers, and shoot anybody else I think might want to come over. What the hell.