Would women cheat for a bigger dick?

[spanky Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close spanky]

I'm passing this on from fetlife again, as that site has as many women as men, if not more. From a forum "ask a woman a question" ... so the answers are from women.

Here if you're a fetlife member - https://fetlife.com/groups/35778/group_posts/7614005

Page 1 of 3 is enough. The other two are the same. Food for thought.

cheat?
genuine question,would u cheat with a guy that had a bigger dick than the guy u were with?

EllaMcBamBam: 4 days ago | report
No. I wouldn't hurt my SO like that. I love him and don't want to lose him. Not to mention, he has a big thick cock and knows what to do with it. So the idea of someone with a bigger dick doesn't appeal to me anyways. Why look for what I already have? Just saying.

Maleficent77: 4 days ago
No. Like, not even consider it for a moment. I am a bona-fide size queen, but dick is only so important in my life. My partner who loves, respects, and trusts me is way too valuable.

butterflyball: 4 days ago
You have very skewed ideas of what's important in a relationship. Also you've posted this in four different groups, and I get the impression that you're hoping people will say yes because it ties into your SPH kink.

Leliana: 4 days ago
Good one. That's a funny joke.

CheerioXX: 4 days ago
nope

I only cheat if my partner starts it first. An eye for an eye would make the world blind if the fucker could ever see in the first place... as it stands, this is how lessons are learned.

and if not, fuck em, at least I feel better.

anniesub47: 4 days ago
No, you need to give respect to others to get respect from others. IF a bigger cock were all that important, then I would clear it with my guy first. Reality is I'd probably just do without the bigger cock because it matters less than a relationship.

Naughty_sub9: 4 days ago
Hell no, I'd never cheat on my SO but even if I would it wouldn't be for such a dumb reason.

LittleRara: 4 days ago
Absolutely not. Would never hurt my SO that way.

Boo-xox: 4 days ago
Lol I wouldn't want to fuck a bigger dick than my partner has. It's the max I an willing to take.

coral_reef: 4 days ago
Lmfao, is this for real? No, for chrissakes. Even if I was going to cheat, it wouldn't be because of cock size!

Sjofn1977: 4 days ago
No as I respect my partner and value honesty. Plus I really don't give a rats ass about what size a guy is.

SeregLoth: 4 days ago
No, for a start finding out how big the other guy is would already be cheating and no, te size of some other guys dick would have no bearing on any relationship I had.

-Dayane-: 4 days ago
I'm not gonna lie, OP... when I read your question my spontaneous reaction was "WTF"...

Now having said that I will answer since it's a genuine question: I don't cheat. I don't tolerate people who do. For ANY reason.

If for some reason the thought of crossing my values concerning this were to ever occur... I'm pretty damn sure penis size would be the last reason for it.

CrownofRoses: 4 days ago
No I would never cheat on my partner, and certainly not for such a stupid reason. Why are men so obsessed with the size of their dick? If that's all you have to offer then i feel sorry for you.

InsatiableladyD: 4 days ago
If I was in a relationship, absolutely not. If I just had a playmate and I found someone with a bigger cock I would certainly hop on it

bloodyflowers: 4 days ago
No. The idea that all women put stock in dick size is a myth, btw.

odysseyIndeed: 4 days ago
I would never cheat and cock size overall doesn't matter nearly as much to most women as you may want it to.

ALittleAkratic: 4 days ago
Definitely not. I don't want to have sex with a guy who has a larger than average cock. I've honestly never encountered a cock that I thought was too small. If I found myself in a loving relationship with a guy whose cock was truly tiny, it would only be a problem if he was really insecure about it or if he wasn't enthusiastic about other kinds of sex besides intercourse. Still, I'd end the relationship if it was that bad, rather than cheating.

txan: 4 days ago
No. I wouldn't cheat at all.

Size does matter but it also depends how you use it.

BabygirISunshine: 4 days ago
Even if my partner had a small penis (he doesn't), I wouldn't cheat on him for a guy with a larger one...in fact, I wouldn't cheat on him period.

PrettyLilThorn: 4 days ago
No, my partnership with him is about WAY more than the size of a dick.

quirky_amazon: 4 days ago
I don't like big dicks.

Also I'm poly so I can fuck multiple people without it being cheating, anyway.

Soooooo no.

miss_trussed: 4 days ago
No, I'd tell my partners that I was interested in having sex with someone else, if I were actually interested. A big cock wouldn't be enough reason to interest me though.

nonamesleft: 4 days ago
i wouldn't cheat for any reason.

Kvossera: 4 days ago
Nope.

aRayofSunshine: 4 days ago
no. my morals are not related to cock size. and I turn down huge cocks all the time.

porno_ewok: 4 days ago
Penis size is irrelevant to a loving committed relationship. Cheating has no place in my bushido.

Hrlyownedkitten: 4 days ago
Nope, and if all you have to offer is a big dick...most will pass.

Simina: 4 days ago
God no. I don't cheat, and I already wish his dick was smaller. I would never go bigger.

coral_reef: 4 days ago
^ Of course. " Don't listen to any of these ladies, they don't know what they are talking about, they are all liars". Of course

coral_reef: 4 days ago
oops, didn't realize a couple people had already posted. that wasn't aimed at @Hrlyownedkitten or @Simina!

CrownofRoses: 4 days ago
Yeah I'm out of this. The PMS from the op show he's after fulfilling his sph fetish.

Tristan24: 4 days ago
i only asked cos i was cheated on recently and the other guy was much bigger,thats honestly why i asked

-Rabbit-: 4 days ago
Nope. Cuz it's irrelevant. Big penis doesn't = good person. Plus I have a bf already, so I'm happy with what I have.

Untrainedboy21: 4 days ago
Michealfeb always the most sensible answers.

whiteibizan: 4 days ago
I'm going to come in here and lie my ass off and say nobody cares as much about your dicks as you guys do. Besides, nothing anyone packs can come close to what's in my toy chest.

SeregLoth: 4 days ago
OP, rather than sending pm's to everyone who replies maybe add all the detail you think is relevant to your original post, like "my girlfriend has been cheating on me, the other guy has a bigger penis so you think that could be why?"

@michael, if you hate women so much and don't beleive anything we say why the hell are you in a group for asking women questions?

butterflyball: 4 days ago
@michael, your issues with finding a relationship probably have a lot less to do with your appearance and dick size and a lot more to do with your hatred of women. You should probably work on that.

quirky_amazon: 4 days ago
Some days, it feels like practically every guy who posts here thinks women aren't into sex at all - like completely indifferent - which gives us all Teh POWERZ, so we sit on our golden thrones making potential partners beg for our time and attention.


Other days, it feels like practically every guy is certain that women are just totally cock-hungry. Obsessed with cock. Nothing else about a guy matters except his cock and maaaaybe his balls but mostly his cock. Do we like it cut or uncut? Pubes or shaved? Saggy ball sac or tight? Curved dick or straight? Big or even bigger? We know it's all you think about and all you're attracted to and you've thought about all the minutiae of every inch of a guy's genitals, ladies, so why won't you tell us what you like?

whiteibizan: 4 days ago
@SeregLoth: He just posts here because no women will join his personal group. https://fetlife.com/groups/123926

CrownofRoses: 4 days ago
All wimmez want the d dontcha know.

-Dayane-: 4 days ago
My reply was not an invitation to pm me. I don't care about your personal drama and your question as no relation to it.


This ^^


@OP: Just because someone replies here doesn't mean they want to hear about your personal problems much less engage you in your SPH fantasies. I think it would be wise of you to keep the discussion here.

Raythe: 4 days ago
That's one of the lamest reasons to cheat.


Definitely not.

SeregLoth: 4 days ago
@whiteibizan, is that a group where we're encouraged to lie or insulted regardless of what we say because wimminz is lying bitches, how does everyone resist that!

TheDaddyTamer: 4 days ago
I wouldn't cheat regardless of dick size, but I could definitely NOT go any bigger!

ShelteredSiren: 4 days ago
Why do so many men assume women are just cock hungry beings without any sense of emotion or morality?...


Hmm, if I had a guy worth calling my bf, I wouldn't even put myself in the situation that would allow for me to even SEE another guys cock and the only person who's cock I'd want is my would-be bfs..

... and so on

[Tamora Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Aug 2015 PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Tamora]

Nothing in those answers that surprises me Spanky. I'm hoping that most of the guys here do what they do for their own self-improvement.

[spanky Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close spanky]

Me neither, but that's because I grew up and spent a lot of time with women, sometimes with rudies of course , and hey it turns out they're mostly pretty decent people, just like us boys, maybe more so. Who knew?

[PatheticMedic Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close PatheticMedic]

This illustrates a great point; most women would not leave a man because of his size alone. Women seek guys who love, trust, and are secure in themselves. If you have a small penis and obsess about it and push your woman away, that is the true issue- not your size.

Interesting to see that most women say something like, "I wouldn't want an above average size." It just goes to show how porn can skew your perception on reality. If you can work 4"-6" with some skill and tend to your woman's needs; you are a better lover than a guy with 8" who just slams away.

[Tamora Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Aug 2015 PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Tamora]

Or good liars?

[Sean Jacobs Retired Moderator Member of the Month Dec 2012PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Sean Jacobs]

That all sounds about right to me. Women who are faithful will stay faithful regardless of a lot of things. Women tend to be more emotional than men and that is what binds them to their partner.

Women who are unfaithful will cheat and in most cases it has nothing to do with penis size. It has to do with a lot of other emotional reasons.

Penis size is far more important to men than it is to women, as a general rule.

The one thing I will say: I do find that women, just as much as men, perpetuate the perception that when it comes to penis size bigger is better.

[spanky Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close spanky]

The one thing I will say: I do find that women, just as much as men, perpetuate the perception that when it comes to penis size bigger is better.

.. to an extent I'm sure, but they KNOW that this fucks most guys up, so if they want to hurt a guy or have power over them for any reason ... like them being a dick or something ... that's pretty much the easiest weapon.

So wear a metaphorical cock-size-bulletproof-vest and stop caring

[Sean Jacobs Retired Moderator Member of the Month Dec 2012PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Sean Jacobs]

.. to an extent I'm sure, but they KNOW that this fucks most guys up, so if they want to hurt a guy or have power over them for any reason ... like them being a dick or something ... that's pretty much the easiest weapon.

So wear a metaphorical cock-size-bulletproof-vest and stop caring

I have experienced it first hand when my ex-wife cheated, and then took great pleasure informing me that her lover had a larger penis than mine. That is what drove me to PE.

However, I have been around women on so many occasions where the topic was brought up by the women. They were making jokes about guys with small penises; talking negatively about ex's including how small they were; talking about guys they like and making comments about how he's probably well endowed.

Then there is the "Wow!" factor. Post PE I've had positive comments about my size from a few women. They were impressed by my size (which is good for my ego).

I understand that this is a cultural thing. The media (music, TV, movies, comedy acts, etc) continuously reinforce this perception.

[Gyrta Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Gyrta]

My two cents:
- A woman wouldn't ever confess about cheating, although this is online she may has a reputation on that forum or it's easy for her partner to see what she writes. (If you read the post, you see that the thing they focus in is cheating rather than dick size).
- I used to upload dick picks on instagram (save me the lesson, it was just for the ego). And a lot of the women who wrote had a partner or where married. And they said straight out that they were willing to cheat. What women says in public doesn't always correlate with what they do in private.

I'm not saying that my experience is correct, just that the coin has two sides.

[spanky Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close spanky]

(If you read the post, you see that the thing they focus in is cheating rather than dick size).

in fairness the original post/question was "would you cheat for a bigger one"

Every woman has their limits of course, but bigger dicks within that are always going to have appeal. For sex, and for sex alone. The point of the OP was really about how important it was.

Point is, as the ladies above mostly said, dick size is one thing, and one with mixed reviews. Just like women's breast size. Women get implants all the time thinking all men like bigger ones. Well I don't for one. Sure, make it/them bigger if you think that's what MOTOS want, but it'll only be some of them, and the ones who put that first aren't worth your/their time.

[Lezoteli Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Lezoteli]

very reassuring...

















who cares! still going to hit 8x6!

[Tamora Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Aug 2015 PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Tamora]

...I have experienced it first hand when my ex-wife cheated, and then took great pleasure informing me that her lover had a larger penis than mine. That is what drove me to PE...

That's just plain nasty!

[WildBlue Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close WildBlue]

I have experienced it first hand when my ex-wife cheated, and then took great pleasure informing me that her lover had a larger penis than mine. That is what drove me to PE.

As sad, immoral and disguisting this may be, in the long run it proved to be beneficial for you. You're now in a great improvement journey and she didn't deserve to enjoy the results. Karma

[seanyboy Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close seanyboy]

My two cents:
- A woman wouldn't ever confess about cheating, although this is online she may has a reputation on that forum or it's easy for her partner to see what she writes. (If you read the post, you see that the thing they focus in is cheating rather than dick size).
- I used to upload dick picks on instagram (save me the lesson, it was just for the ego). And a lot of the women who wrote had a partner or where married. And they said straight out that they were willing to cheat. What women says in public doesn't always correlate with what they do in private.

I'm not saying that my experience is correct, just that the coin has two sides.

Cheating and dick size isn't a good combination. They're already offended even before they get passed the "would you cheat." Notice one girl (I didn't read all of them) said she would if it wasn't a tight relationship.

[longerlastingnoob Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close longerlastingnoob]

If a woman cheats for a bigger dick, she first has to intitiate something in order to know whether the guy has a big dick or not, so cheating is already on the cards.

If she cheats for any reason it's so long, fairwell, auf wiedersehen and goodbye from me.