Ego Deep Down Inside :(

[4rmL2XL Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 4rmL2XL]

It seems may have offended some. With my terms and style of grammar or the story in general. I apologize. This is not my aim to do so. Those that replied thank you once again for you courage and wisdom.

- To Know Better, Is to do Better

[growerJoe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close growerJoe]

If you didn't cut her off yet you are still getting "Alpha Male'd."

[Big Al AdministratorPEGym EditorMale Enhancement Coach Rep.PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Big Al]

Thank you for your candid post.

It's good you're here to learn, and your mention of the ego is spot on. You'll find that the false power of the ego is really illusory- and true power comes from mastering the ego and accepting that which you cannot control. This refers to the potential negative acts of others- as well as what they might say.

This type of training can be a good first step towards mastery.

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Thats kinda how karma works. Perhaps you were too arrogant and cocky with her, thinking that she will be there with you forever no matter what, now the universe threw that energy back at you. Remember there will always be a bigger cock around. And yes they like it, despite all the countless arguments we have here about size, YES SIZE MATTER. I have always said that and will always say it.

To improve yourself you have to start from the base that your fat. Take care of your body and perhaps change your approach to life. Be humble, be simple. Be friendly, be polite.

And leave that girl alone because if you're still with her, you're still owned.

[dmizzle Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close dmizzle]

Well I have a pretty average dick at 6.6x5.25" nbpel, and if were a competition, I would have no problem going against any big dick. I know Im not the best, but you win some you lose some. But I feel like my other attributes more than make up for an average dick. Not that I do, but I could be an asshole, and chicks would keep coming back. Size might matter a little, all else beimg equal, but Im a good looking, successful guy, with a good personality and that trumps an average guy with a big. Sure me with average dick vs. me with big dick, well, big dick dmizzle might take the cake. But then I might be arrogant and the women would want average dmizzle. Who knows. Don't put so much on size, 90% of women don't care that much as long as your in the average range.

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Thats kinda how karma works. Perhaps you were too arrogant and cocky with her, thinking that she will be there with you forever no matter what, now the universe threw that energy back at you. Remember there will always be a bigger cock around. And yes they like it, despite all the countless arguments we have here about size, YES SIZE MATTER. I have always said that and will always say it.

To improve yourself you have to start from the base that your fat. Take care of your body and perhaps change your approach to life. Be humble, be simple. Be friendly, be polite.

And leave that girl alone because if you're still with her, you're still owned.

That's not true size doesn't matter only to some. It matters more to us men then to them..not all women like to be stuffed with a coke bottle..sorry this is real life not porn were chicks get paid to make a movie! I'm just shy of 8" and some chicks I've been with hate it..but then there are some that dont..nobody wants to be tortured when they want to feel pleasure common sense..doing this is more for our ego then anything else..besides when you bottom out it sucks
When you leave some out in the cold..I need to pound the bottom of my shafts to make my soldier shoot. So being to long isn't doing anyone good..and to wide your just ripping shit..either way it's no good..

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That's not true size doesn't matter only to some. It matters more to us men then to them..not all women like to be stuffed with a coke bottle..sorry this is real life not porn were chicks get paid to make a movie! I'm just shy of 8" and some chicks I've been with hate it..but then there are some that dont..nobody wants to be tortured when they want to feel pleasure common sense..doing this is more for our ego then anything else..besides when you bottom out it sucks
When you leave some out in the cold..I need to pound the bottom of my shafts to make my soldier shoot. So being to long isn't doing anyone good..and to wide your just ripping shit..either way it's no good..

Size matters. Simple as that. Size matter and will always matter. OP's situation, is one of millions. That story repeats every single day. If you knew how many girls I have dated just for my size...true, not every single girl will want to date a guy just for the size, but they all fantasize sooner or later in their lives. Curiosity is natural within te species. Even if a girl don't like big dicks, to know she doesn't like it she had to have tried it first. She had the curiosity at some point and spread her legs open just to let that giant phallus penetrate her deep and know how it feels.

[4rmL2XL Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 4rmL2XL]

I mean I ain't tryna to marry the chick ain't no tears about it here....I'm 2chicks up right now and if she wanna get it in fk it! I just know I to focus on improving myself. Literally its just sex we don't even small talk. I tell her hit me up or send the code and we smash then talk 2 you later. We not enemies just relationship didn't work out I'm cool with that....I'm not "loving" or saving none of these chicks in my life right now but I'll smash no problem. Truth be told its FK'd up cuz new BF don't know I'm still crushing the building..... I'm glad he picked up the bill I'll take the thrill & she came running & begging I'm just working save money now. These women aint shit want nice guys but still love us asshole's so ima stay the course and focus on my cash!! But we'll stop soon enough

[4rmL2XL Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 4rmL2XL]

Size matters. Simple as that. Size matter and will always matter. OP's situation, is one of millions. That story repeats every single day. If you knew how many girls I have dated just for my size...true, not every single girl will want to date a guy just for the size, but they all fantasize sooner or later in their lives. Curiosity is natural within te species. Even if a girl don't like big dicks, to know she doesn't like it she had to have tried it first. She had the curiosity at some point and spread her legs open just to let that giant phallus penetrate her deep and know how it feels.

He is %100 right! Honestly I was the one in this position with females liking my size like I said I'm blessed as well never put a ruler to it yet( that'll be a first) but my magnums is L so like he said curiosity will naturally make her wonder what'll XL do? I can't hate that its nature. But I now know I can do something about it. Like I said its a difference how they act when they KNOW....I know personally cuz I'm usually on that end just was a first of me watching what I did to others...its a DIFFERENCE instinctively the difference of fucking the 1st or being Friendzoned and having to pay your way to the pussy! My man is totally right!

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Oh boy this whole thread is so f $%@ed up .

[4rmL2XL Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 4rmL2XL]

Well I have a pretty average dick at 6.6x5.25" nbpel, and if were a competition, I would have no problem going against any big dick. I know Im not the best, but you win some you lose some. But I feel like my other attributes more than make up for an average dick. Not that I do, but I could be an asshole, and chicks would keep coming back. Size might matter a little, all else beimg equal, but Im a good looking, successful guy, with a good personality and that trumps an average guy with a big. Sure me with average dick vs. me with big dick, well, big dick dmizzle might take the cake. But then I might be arrogant and the women would want average dmizzle. Who knows. Don't put so much on size, 90% of women don't care that much as long as your in the average range.

You are wrong and right one of my old chicks told me and I quote " if she take of her coochie like she is supposed she can cum on anything" so in that aspect you right but I'm an asshole like no lie. Nice guy BUT an asshole cause I'm not one to really Break myself for a woman cuz I know they switch for any variable of reasons: Be it sex, money, emotions blah blah blah.....I'm an asshole enough to admit this is SOLELY an ego thing my man. If I kept the dick i got now I would not be upset cuz it speaks for itself even when they try to leave they runback(old chick)...new chick took ME shopping Monday bro bro LOL after a week of knowing her....im good out here now. But we should all strive for better shall we not? I need POWEEEERRRRRRR! lol to make a chick pay rent(lol yeah right but u see where I'm aimming) but yea in reality when they are horny chicks just like penis period as long and u ain't got a pinky finger or whatever! But the XL's get that "Yes sir Daddy, Right away Daddy" respect, no questions, PAY for their OWN flight respect. Trust me I just seen it for myself! Take my word buddy Ace beats King & Jack ALLDAY!

[4rmL2XL Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 4rmL2XL]

Thats kinda how karma works. Perhaps you were too arrogant and cocky with her, thinking that she will be there with you forever no matter what, now the universe threw that energy back at you. Remember there will always be a bigger cock around. And yes they like it, despite all the countless arguments we have here about size, YES SIZE MATTER. I have always said that and will always say it.

To improve yourself you have to start from the base that your fat. Take care of your body and perhaps change your approach to life. Be humble, be simple. Be friendly, be polite.

And leave that girl alone because if you're still with her, you're still owned.

Everything you said was spot on sir. I am a nice guy honestly just when u dealing with certain chicks of a certain level of beauty the ones that KNOW they are beautiful I tend to find the nice loving guy route leaves you broke and looking foolish cuz facts are women I mean the one who just like to date play the field not the ones with kids looking for a savior...these type of women love assholish type dudes I'm still dealing with 20 year old chicks not 30's mentally there's a difference and some women see you being nice as a weakness! Have you ever spent too much on a woman? So I make them earn that part of me I would love to spoil you, but can I trust you? I was never one to flash cash for ass! But after this I do admit there are things I wanna change and the stuff u mentioned is a great start! Thank you my digital brother!

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[QUOTE=Pegasus;1207215]Oh boy this whole thread is so f $%@ed up .[/QUO

It's a true story man i apologize for text slang and Ebonics. I type it on my phone in texting mode but I cleaned it up.

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I'll be honest, your writing skills make this almost impossible to read. One long run on sentence, poor grammar, a lot of text abbreviations, un-composed thoughts, rambling all over the place. As this is a world wide site and people of different language frequent and use translators to understand the website, your post would come across as total gibberish to anyone other than your buds. If you are going to post to any online forum, you must present yourself a little differently than you would speaking to your friend on social media.

[4rmL2XL Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 4rmL2XL]

Thank you for your candid post.

It's good you're here to learn, and your mention of the ego is spot on. You'll find that the false power of the ego is really illusory- and true power comes from mastering the ego and accepting that which you cannot control. This refers to the potential negative acts of others- as well as what they might say.

This type of training can be a good first step towards mastery.

"The false power of ego is really illusory" I like that. Its so true because what I thought WAS, really WASN'T. Blinded by my OWN ego! Nice!!! Thank you AL