My dreams came true!!!

[BlasphemousRumors Member Find all posts View Profile Close BlasphemousRumors]

hello everyone im BlasphemousRumors and last night I layed in bed and started thinking about my current girlfriend and how she makes me feel like a million million dollars. I found this website a month and a half after we first started dating and I was hooked! Now the reason why I bring up PEgym is that I absolutely love this girl and something in my mind clicked that I wanted to best at everything for her. Before her I had a really bad breakup with my girlfriend of almost 3 years. She left me the day after Christmas last year. For some reason she still wanted to be friends and as a (at then) dumbass I kept in contact with her. For a good while I was so depressed that I started to act kind of like that dude from that movie 500 days of Summer! When she got wiff that I started dating she got weird. Over a bit of time I grew to really despise her and one day told her to go fuck herself! That some how ended up telling me that her new boyfriend had a bigger dick than me and that I should grow a dick. I told her to leave me alone forever. Fast foward a couple of months.... I'm currently in a wonderful relationship with a girl named Alyson. She makes me feel like i'm the greatest. Our sex life is awesome and I partially give thanks to all the members of pegym.com for all the inspiration,teaching,and support that I have recieved, and thanks to Big AL and DLD from *************.com for not only giving men bigger dicks but better self esteems. In the end of the day I know that my girl loves me for me and not my cock, but will admit in the bedroom its nice to know she loves my cock! LOL!

[vulcan Retired ModeratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close vulcan]

Great that things are going so well Blasphemous.

The insult that your ex gave you is just standard issue 'scorned woman' insult - it's pathetic & to be ignored.

[bobberick Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bobberick]

Good story. And I agree with Vulcan. Ignore that stuff. Easier said than done, but who cares.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Please thank me any time you want.You can even go on and on about how wonderful I am just don't get too sappy! ( great news now go have fun!)

[VIPER Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close VIPER]

Great that things are going so well Blasphemous.

The insult that your ex gave you is just standard issue 'scorned woman' insult - it's pathetic & to be ignored.

Well said Vulcan ! There are too many guys who have been on the receiving end of that insult and have allowed it to stay with them forever almost like a scar. Best to laught it off and casually ignore the fool.
Congrats Blasphemous, glad to hear you in high spirit !

[jetsetter439 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jetsetter439]

Good story. And I agree with Vulcan. Ignore that stuff. Easier said than done, but who cares.

Any tips? I've been on the receiving end of that insult and has effected me immensely. I've gotten over it to some degree but it still made me obsess over my penis for a good while. I still sort of do :/ hence being here on PEGym.

[JonasKay Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JonasKay]

Good for you! Yeah -- it's easy to let that stuff eat away at you. I've gotten some comments too. I didn't realize it at first but these forums have really started to help me mend those burns and also become more confident about my size; the fact that we're gaining a bigger (and healthier) cock is just a plus

[BlasphemousRumors Member Find all posts View Profile Close BlasphemousRumors]

Any tips? I've been on the receiving end of that insult and has effected me immensely. I've gotten over it to some degree but it still made me obsess over my penis for a good while. I still sort of do :/ hence being here on PEGym.

Dude you just gotta say Fuck it! Get yourself out there and enjoy life go on dates,clubbing, hanging with friends whatever puts your mind in a positive place. Oh! When you find a girlfriend, in your head, say to yourself damn she has a nicer ass,tits,body,face,etc than my ex! It helped me immensely.

[Stretch Armstrong Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Stretch Armstrong]

Man, fuck that bitch, you are better off without her. Glad you are happy wit what sounds like a real woman.

[jetsetter439 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jetsetter439]

@Blasphemous

It was actually a girl who was only in my life for about a month. She was young and rather out of her mind. Hooked up a few times, both seemed to enjoy ourselves then a huge fight broke out over something stupid and as were both slinging insults back and forth she pulled out the secret weapon (dick insult). I can't say I've felt the same way about sex/girls/relationships since (15 months ago). I think I partially believed it because I wasn't always fully hard with her and thus my dick probably did look 'tiny'. Of course, since I started PE'ing i put on about 0.75" in length and 0.5" girth. I'm about 6.25 x 5.25 NBP.. BPEL is 6.75" x 5.25". I was pretty traumatized by it and it has somewhat developed into a fear of intimacy, due to the trauma. And I'm very serious when I say trauma, as I'm very uptight about girls now. I almost subconsciously try and avoid them.. i know it sounds crazy.

I've tried to say fuck it and move on but it's difficult. You were probably larger than me when your gf said whatever she said about your dick. I was personally smack-dab in the middle of average and always felt a bit 'small' anyway. So it basically brought to the surface an issue that had been in my subconscious for a long time. It made me wonder if past partners also thought I was small but just never said anything.. even though my erections were much better with past lovers before I met this crazy bitch. Anyways, right now I would like to be in a relationship but my mind seems to have built these walls, so as to protect me from something like this ever happening again.

[BlasphemousRumors Member Find all posts View Profile Close BlasphemousRumors]

At the end of my exes and mine relationship I couldn't get hard all the way due to her losing way to much weight(I know that sounds bad but cant help what I like). It may sound crazy but now I live by the "me have a bigger dick? How bout you get a tighter pussy!" Eventually you'll find someone that makes you feel awesome and you'll be back to your old brick dick self! My new girlfriend now gives me the hardest erections I have ever had just by looking at her. When you find someone like that everything else will fade away.

[vulcan Retired ModeratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close vulcan]

Jetsetter, you have to let the numbers sink in to you head - YOU ARE NOW SIGNIFICANTLY ABOVE AVERAGE.

But remember that the insult in question is not related to the recipients size, spiteful women who hate each-other also call each-other FAT ~ even when they know the other girl is slim. It is just a knee-jerk, automatic time honored insult that women use.

I don't think they would do it as often if they knew just how damaging it can be. Well some probably still would!

Brush it off & get back to enjoying your dick.

[bj0020 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bj0020]

@jetsetter

I came across Neuro-Linguistics Programming (NLP) about 3 years ago.
Not sure if you've heard about it (as it's still fairly unchartered in terms of academic investigation).
It's a multi-layered investigation on how to best use your own mind to your advantage.
It wasn't necessarily the crazy bitch that made you feel the way you do now, she acted more as the catalyst. Evident when you wrote she "brought to the surface an issue that had been in my subconscious for a long time"..

The beauty of NLP is that it allows you the tools to re-program your own mind.
I'm thinking more in terms of the way you're uptight about girls now.
One of the tools is called 're-framing'. Choosing to see things differently and training yourself to automate positive thought patterns when negative emotions or tangents latch on..

Definately recommenr reading up on some of that material, even if you don't use it - very interesting.

@blasphemous

AWESOME.
I love reading stories like yours man..

[jetsetter439 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jetsetter439]

Thanks so much for the input guys

My mind is a very dangerous place as you all have probably figured out.

bj0020, i've heard of NLP but have not read much about it. i have heard great things about it! will check it out soon.