I feel like the luckest guy in the world!!

[ThicknessBlack Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ThicknessBlack]

About 3 weeks ago my wife encouraged me to start back Pe'ing and I've been on it ever since. I stopped back in the summer because of school, stress and other crap going on. I can only imagine what my dick would be like if I would have kept going for a whole year. (Brief history)- I remember when I didn't tell her because I didn't want to hear her tell me how dangerous it could be or anything negative. I reasoned she wouldn't understand, because it's a man thing. Instead, she was kinda curious and asked a few questions. Her only comment was, "Don't get to big...your length is perfect for me, can you work on girth only?" That was music to my ears. In less then 2 months I had a new dick...thicker, fuller and firmer. I could cum and my dick was still rock-hard enough for her to reach an orgasm.

Unfortunately, I fell off cause of stuff listed above. The good news is as of this post, I am going on 3 weeks strong of Pe'ing and for the NEW YEAR, my wife surprised me with a STU!!! I told her a couple of weeks ago about the Fleshlight and how I was thinking about incorporating edging into my routines to help with stamina. I never thought she would purchase it for me. I started Pe'ing to improve my dick quality and yes to get a little bigger. I never imagined I would get the kind of support from her I'm getting.

Does anyone else get support from their wife or girlfriend to help you reach your Pe goals?

[lelouch Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close lelouch]

My gf does not want me to do PE, period.

[VIPER Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close VIPER]

About 3 weeks ago my wife encouraged me to start back Pe'ing and I've been on it ever since. I stopped back in the summer because of school, stress and other crap going on. I can only imagine what my dick would be like if I would have kept going for a whole year. (Brief history)- I remember when I didn't tell her because I didn't want to hear her tell me how dangerous it could be or anything negative. I reasoned she wouldn't understand, because it's a man thing. Instead, she was kinda curious and asked a few questions. Her only comment was, "Don't get to big...your length is perfect for me, can you work on girth only?" That was music to my ears. In less then 2 months I had a new dick...thicker, fuller and firmer. I could cum and my dick was still rock-hard enough for her to reach an orgasm.

Unfortunately, I fell off cause of stuff listed above. The good news is as of this post, I am going on 3 weeks strong of Pe'ing and for the NEW YEAR, my wife surprised me with a STU!!! I told her a couple of weeks ago about the Fleshlight and how I was thinking about incorporating edging into my routines to help with stamina. I never thought she would purchase it for me. I started Pe'ing to improve my dick quality and yes to get a little bigger. I never imagined I would get the kind of support from her I'm getting.

Does anyone else get support from their wife or girlfriend to help you reach your Pe goals?

You are very fortunate to have such a supportive partner, congrats !!

[selfgrowth Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close selfgrowth]

That is fantastic. I like the added bonus of her telling you your length is already perfect and helping you hone in on girth.

My gf knows about my pe and let's me use her computer to participate in the forums, since I only have a work computer and am concerned about privacy. She also asks questions and has told me on several occasions to do my exercises while we are watching tv together if I need to fit it in. In my gfs case, she has seen much bigger so I don't really have the added luxury of being comfortable with her input on size goals, but maybe that is just a boundary issue on my end.

[Editor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Editor]

You're one lucky guy to have a supportive gf!

[closed149 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close closed149]

You definitely are lucky Kermit

[Calvin77 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Calvin77]

Am not telling the wife, want to see if she will be able to tell a difference over time

[hunglet Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close hunglet]

Can't wait for your measurements. I'm glad everything is going great for you. Never had a wife or girlfriend, wouldn't tell her about PE if I had one

[ThicknessBlack Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ThicknessBlack]

Thanks fellas. I can understand completely the deal about not telling your SO's, I kinda felt the same way when I started this. I thought she would have negative responses and discourage me from trying something I always thought was possible, but just didn't have the knowledge to back up my thinking. Trust me, this real talk and openess, didn't happen over night ...it was a practice I had to learn quickly. We've been together 10 years, married 7 of them. I decided that if I'm going to be the man she needs and want me to be, I have to be able to tell her any and everything about me, without fear or judgement. Likewise, she has to be able to confide in me and feel safe and secure doing the same. It has worked wonders in our marriage, communication and sex life...(BIG GRIN). Having her support me like this, has given me the drive and desire to not let her down. If she wants me to have fat, healthy dick... then it's my responsibility to give her what she wants. Lol.

[hunglet Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close hunglet]

Thanks fellas. I can understand completely the deal about not telling your SO's, I kinda felt the same way when I started this. I thought she would have negative responses and discourage me from trying something I always thought was possible, but just didn't have the knowledge to back up my thinking. Trust me, this real talk and openess, didn't happen over night ...it was a practice I had to learn quickly. We've been together 10 years, married 7 of them. I decided that if I'm going to be the man she needs and want me to be, I have to be able to tell her any and everything about me, without fear or judgement. Likewise, she has to be able to confide in me and feel safe and secure doing the same. It has worked wonders in our marriage, communication and sex life...(BIG GRIN). Having her support me like this, has given me the drive and desire to not let her down. If she wants me to have fat, healthy dick... then it's my responsibility to give her what she wants. Lol.

This did just put a smile on my face being 18 and finding a girl who would be a good match for me like you and your wife seems impossible. Seems like my peers can't keep a relationship lasting. How do you guys do that? How do you met her?

[ThicknessBlack Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ThicknessBlack]

Hey Hunglet,
My wifes mother is a long time friend of my family. So, I have always known her, but really never paid any attention to her. You see, I'm 10 years older then my wife, so we never ran in the same circles other then maybe seeing her sometimes at a family gather or church. At that time I was married and she was also in a relationship. My ex was a serial cheater, which I didn't know until all the bones fell out of her closet. Long story short I was single again and so was my wife. I had a job that gave me discounts at certain stores. My wife her about my discounts and asked if she could use my discount to buy something a the mall. I said sure, but I had to go shopping with her, that was the rule in using the discount...employees had to be present. Before this, I had never looked at her in anyway sexual or otherwise, just a friend of the family. So, I picked her up and when she came out....she was so amazingly beautiful. We still talk about that day at the mall...the rest is history.

Hunglet, be patient dude...when the right one comes along, trust me you'll know it. Until, then focus on your education and get a career. So,when she comes you'll have all your ducks in a row and life will be your play ground.

[deleteduser Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close deleteduser]

Kermit, congrats on getting back into PE, having a phenomenal wife, and getting a Fleshlight STU! You can tell from reading your posts that you're really happy!

[redneck Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close redneck]

I told my girlfriend before I'd do it. She told me not to but wasn't exactly against it when I said it a second time. She just said that no matter what I am I am fine. Well I didn't end up doing it but I am starting now, about 4 months later. She doesn't know, but I hope it can make her happy!
And as for you, congrats on your success and hope you have more to come! And also, congratulations on having such a supportive wife!

[isambard Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close isambard]

I thought she would have negative responses and discourage me from trying something I always thought was possible, but just didn't have the knowledge to back up my thinking. Trust me, this real talk and openess, didn't happen over night ...it was a practice I had to learn quickly. We've been together 10 years, married 7 of them. I decided that if I'm going to be the man she needs and want me to be, I have to be able to tell her any and everything about me, without fear or judgement. Likewise, she has to be able to confide in me and feel safe and secure doing the same. It has worked wonders in our marriage, communication and sex life...(BIG GRIN)..

You have it spot on my friend! Its the ONLY way relationships WORK. Nice one, very happy for you both.

[smallpackageRay Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close smallpackageRay]

My wife is aware of my PE efforts as well as the testostrone side effects for the testim I use. At first she had doubts that any of it would work but was okay with my trying. The main thing I focused on was the overall male health benefits all of this stretching and blood flow work can do for me, which she was all for. But now that she is seeing results she just doesn't want to get too big.

She has seen me doing various exercises and a lot of the manual stimulation she does on me is similar to the PE exercises. When she does something that is the same movement I tell her about it. Am finding that more and more our foreplay is turning into a PE workout lol.