Banged the sh!t out of my wife last night!

[Letmein Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Letmein]

Thank you for reading. My journey has been amazing so far. I think if I, of all people, can do this, everybody can. My sexlife was heading for the cliff, but now its a complete turn around. Yes I still had a couple of fails, I think 3 since January, I wrote about one of them. But other than that it has been and still is amazing.. and wait there's more! you too can get your dick bigger with these free simple exercises, all it takes is time and dedication!

Thank you for a great post! very informative. I must congratulate you on your efforts and the success you have found in improving your overall size and performance with your horny other half.

I came across pegym.com while googling for how to reduce sensitivity due to pre-cum and arrived on your thread "Banged the sh!t out of my wife last night!" Great great thread, and your personal situation before is very much similar to what I have been going through the past 5-6yrs now. The only differences are mainly i am older at 49 the wifey is not as horny as yours and she is much smaller in size so my 6.5 inch penile size has proved to be slightly too big for deep penetration as it touches her walls and causes her pain so I have had to be very carefully on this. To overcome this limitation my wife prefers squat on top and takes over till she cums. I always used to have very good erections and staying power until my wife had her orgasm first or more often she would also make me cum at the same time as her walls start to grip my hard cock when she climaxed.

The past 3-4 yrs my staying power has diminished to 1-2 mins from what used to be 10-15 min or longer sometimes. Reflecting on this period, I can say my situation is similar to yours. As the only breadwinner I have been overly stressed with my work, corporate career development in order to increase my earnings to pay the ever increasing costs of mortgage, raising kids, schools fees and all the material wants....cars, iphones, xbox, toys..

I think I have pinpointed my problem to be my arousal threshold has changed somewhat from what it used to be previously. Lately, even the slightest touching or fondling, foreplay causes my cock to start leaking pre-cum even without even having a full erection. What I have noticed is if I watch porn or read adult comic books on the internet my cock gets wet with getting an erection. Previously, I did not have this problem and the only thing that has changed is my increased stress levels.

Because of the premature flow of pre-cum my cock gets very sensitive and within a minute of entering my wifeys tight pussy! my cock becomes very sensitive because of the wet and slippery due to the pre-cum flowing out and I can't hold back shooting my load before I know it.....its all over and my cock get all limp and I revert to giving oral to my wife and make her cum. The past few months my wife has been telling me that I am cumming too quickly and although she manages to cum nicely when I go down on her she told me the orgasm is not quite the same as she used to experience before when she used to cum with my thick rod inside her. This has caused me to start doing something about my inadequacy in the bedroom dept.

The past two weeks I have been spending more time under the shower or hot bath in the evenings and following some of the simple exercises and I to my surprise in 2 weeks I have began to see some differences in the way now I am getting a proper erection without any pre-cum oozzing out and in the mornings I am beginning to get a hard on in the mornings which hasn't been happening ever since I can look back.

I am not particularly keen on increasing my size or girth but what I would very much like to do is try and learn to control my arousal thresholds so as to stop my pre-cum flowing before I have even penetrated. I have started to do Kegels like 10 times a day but I have yet to get a good understanding of how to do this correctly.

This is great thread and I will be following it closely along the many others too. Any advice will be greatly appreciated and I will keep everyone posted with my improvements....

[Black Amethyst Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Black Amethyst]

Thank you Letmein for the story. I hope all goes well in your quest for improvement. Please do keep us up to date on your success.

[Kitchener Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Kitchener]

Any advice will be greatly appreciated and I will keep everyone posted with my improvements....

Head on over to the Pre-E forum and study up. You should probably be doing a kegel/reverse kegel routine.

[bahamaboner71 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bahamaboner71]

Because of the premature flow of pre-cum my cock gets very sensitive and within a minute of entering my wifeys tight pussy! my cock becomes very sensitive because of the wet and slippery due to the pre-cum flowing out and I can't hold back shooting my load before I know it.....its all over and my cock get all limp and I revert to giving oral to my wife and make her cum. The past few months my wife has been telling me that I am cumming too quickly and although she manages to cum nicely when I go down on her she told me the orgasm is not quite the same as she used to experience before when she used to cum with my thick rod inside her.

Did you try the deep spot technique during foreplay? I noticed this helps tremendously 'getting her ready', she seems to cum much quicker when I enter her after preparing her pussy with this technique. Like it makes everything more sensitive inside of her or something. She's literally moaning when I slide it in slowly. This never used to happen. The Deep Spot - Video Dailymotion

[bahamaboner71 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bahamaboner71]

My PE year in review

I am one year in the program and have had very good results.
To recap these were my original goals back in January 2012:

1. to last langer (come on, 3 minutes... really?) and make my wife cum from intercourse instead of oral
2. more girth
3. longer dick. I would like to hit the magical 8" just for kicks. Its only 0.6 inches more right?
4. To hear my wife say that my dick was big.
She had never said wow your dick is big or something to me ever. She did however always tell me how
she loves my big balls. But who cares about testicles! I wanted to hear if my cock is big!

Ok so lets go down the list:

#1: Check. On average 20 minutes intercourse, nothing shorter than 10 minutes of 'penis in vag' (not counting foreplay/oral)
Also I am able to make her cum from intercourse. Sometimes not just cumming, I mean I can make her cum HARD. Awesome stuff.

#2: Check. Girth went up from 5.2" to 5.5" and my veins look incredible. It looks way fatter than it measures.

#3: Check. Length gain from 7.4" to 8.2". Very happy with this. I think its 60% improved erection quality, 40% tissue/muscle whatever gains.

#4: Check. She has commented multiple times on my "big dick" and I cant hear enough of it. She told me this morning while she grabbed my dick in my underwear 'when she was gonna get some of this big dick'. I love to hear it. It turns me on and it makes me fuck her better.


My new goals for 2013 are:

1. To be able to do it 2 times a night when my wife wants it (I am 40 ok??)
2. Girth: 5.8" Right now I still feel like I have an 8" pencil-ish dick.
3. Length: 8.5" BPEL
4. Get my wife to do anal
5. Explore more of light bdsm/light raceplay. I bought a leather studded collar for her and 10' of chains from ACE.
Instant 10 erection if she wears that collar.
6. To stop being a pussy and try hanging....................

We will see how it goes. I will update in here.

These were my starting pics: https://www.pegym.com/forums/members...-da-boner.html

And this was in November, you can see my flaccid looks really good, if I may say so myself.
All those veins and that "pornstar dick- look" wasn't there a year ago. My wife totally loves it :
https://www.pegym.com/forums/members...exercises.html

December:
This was requested; a pic of my banana erection
You can see its long but still lacking some girth I feel.
(I will take some pics with a ruler asap. I just have a hard time holding ruler,
taking pic, staying hard, keeping toddlers busy in the next room...etc.)

[Subro Member Find all posts View Profile Close Subro]

Awesome job, Bahama! Reigniting your sex life after years of marriage must be so incredibly amazing. Your wife is probably telling all her friends about the amazing sex she's had over the last year.

I see my "girlfriend" every few weeks to a month and every time I see her she says "it looks bigger than I remember." That is a great motivator.

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My PE year in review

I am one year in the program and have had very good results.
To recap these were my original goals back in January 2012:





Ok so lets go down the list:

#1: Check. On average 20 minutes intercourse, nothing shorter than 10 minutes of 'penis in vag' (not counting foreplay/oral)
Also I am able to make her cum from intercourse. Sometimes not just cumming, I mean I can make her cum HARD. Awesome stuff.

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Any advice on how you accomplished this? Going from 3 minutes to 20 minutes average, thats something!

[Letmein Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Letmein]

Did you try the deep spot technique during foreplay? I noticed this helps tremendously 'getting her ready', she seems to cum much quicker when I enter her after preparing her pussy with this technique. Like it makes everything more sensitive inside of her or something. She's literally moaning when I slide it in slowly. This never used to happen. The Deep Spot - Video Dailymotion

Thanks for the tip Bahama Boner! You should also consider yourself to be a very lucky man and blessed to have a Black woman as your wife. You can continue on your quest to keep increasing your girth and size.

I have started doing some of the exercises but what I am mindful is that I don't want to increase my length or my girth because my cock is of just the right size and thickness for my wife's anatomy. I think as it is my thickness is to big because it creates too much friction which leads me to cum too quickly.

When I am down under and giving oral to my wife, I try to slide my index finger down her tunnel and stimulate her inside just like the Deep spot technique but she doesn't like me doing this. She finds it very irritating afterwards. So it is not always I can get a chance to do this. When I get the chance to slide my finger deep inside her when sometimes she gets carried away with the pleasure she is receiving. She has some of the best orgasms because she will let out a scream, but the following days she will complains of irritation.

What I would like to be able to do is to control the flow of my pre-cum which for some reason has become somewhat constant when i get aroused even reading some of your raunchy posts without actually getting a full erection. Actually, my wife likes the taste of my pre-cum, she will suck my cock and lick it and most importantly she likes it most because she rubs her clitty and slit with my wet cock before she uses her hand to slide my slippery head of cock in her tight pussy.

A couple of days ago, I had a good erection after I got into bed so instead of arousing her first to get her wet I decided I try and rub my hard cock along her clitty and slit and see if I can slide it inside her before my pre-cum began to flow out. Now most of you will say I should use a gel instead - I have tried this but my wife is fussy with these artificial aids and she thinks it irritates her pussy lips and causes her to be itchy. She doesn't even like to rub her clitty or slide her own fingers inside her, I have tried to lead her to discover herself but she doesn't like to do it herself and (rightly) insists that this is my duty to arouse her.

Lately, my problem is any touching and foreplay causes my cock to continuous start flowing pre-cum and the minute I enter her tight tunnel my gland becomes so sensitive and just as I start to pump in and out of her I have already reached the PONR - usually within a minute. What I have been lately doing is telling her to stay still so I can practice entering her from the rear (like being in a scissors position) start and stop sliding in and out when I am about to cum and this way I can stay in for 2-3 mins. But this doesn't always work because as soon the full length of my cock goes inside her, she gets very horny and just wants to grind her pelvis up and down or side ways depending on the position we are in with my cock deep inside her tight tunnel and she wants to just cum as quickly as she can and there is no way I can control myself and just end up shooting my load.

As a minimum if I can control my PONR for at least first 5 mins, I think I should be fine because by this time she will have had her orgasm and the tension insider her tunnel would be released and with less friction I could stay for longer and hopefully make her cum again.

As per what some of your have suggested I am going to start concentrating on Kegels to see it helps me to stop the flow of my pre-cum when I am first aroused.

[bahamaboner71 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bahamaboner71]

Yes you're right. You have to be careful with the deepspot technique to work your way slowly into the deeper areas. Just jamming it in and grabbing the deeper areas causes pain.

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Good hang this morning at the office lol
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While driving we were talking about pussy and how good hers feels. I asked her have you been doing kegels, because it feels tighter lately? (..I was fishing) She said no, it's your dick thats gotten bigger, you're trying to split me in half.

Cant get enough of hearing it.

[Letmein Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Letmein]

I am curious to find out when you had a problem of lasting on 2-3 mins, how is the flow of pre-cum when you get fully aroused.

I have been doing some practice in the bathroom (off course!) to try and see how long I can last when masturbating without being aroused as such and I can keep going for quite a long time 5-7mins if I squeeze harder the upper section of my cock and longer if I do it gentle strokes up and down the full length before I reach the PONR. But when I try to do the same with my pre-cum flowing when aroused it takes me seconds to reach the same point because it makes my gland and under the tip of my cock extra sensitive because of sticky and slippery pre-cum. I am particularly interested to hear about others who may have a higher flow of pre-cum during the arousal stage.

I have started doing edging a couple of times when I am in the bathroom both in the morning and evenings. This morning when I woke up I started fondling my wife's breasts and my cock was all wet, so once my wife got out of the bed I tried to practice edging and managed it like 2 times while being dripping wet with pre-cum.

I am wondering if my pre-cum flow could be due to extra water intake that I have been doing the past few years, whereas before I hardly drank any water during the day and didn't quite any problem with pre-cum but ended up getting a kidney stone...ooouch!

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good hang this morning at the office lol
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while driving we were talking about pussy and how good hers feels. I asked her have you been doing kegels, because it feels tighter lately? (..i was fishing) she said no, it's your dick thats gotten bigger, you're trying to split me in half.

Cant get enough of hearing it.

yes!

[bahamaboner71 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bahamaboner71]

I am curious to find out when you had a problem of lasting on 2-3 mins, how is the flow of pre-cum when you get fully aroused.

I have been doing some practice in the bathroom (off course!) to try and see how long I can last when masturbating without being aroused as such and I can keep going for quite a long time 5-7mins if I squeeze harder the upper section of my cock and longer if I do it gentle strokes up and down the full length before I reach the PONR. But when I try to do the same with my pre-cum flowing when aroused it takes me seconds to reach the same point because it makes my gland and under the tip of my cock extra sensitive because of sticky and slippery pre-cum. I am particularly interested to hear about others who may have a higher flow of pre-cum during the arousal stage.

I have started doing edging a couple of times when I am in the bathroom both in the morning and evenings. This morning when I woke up I started fondling my wife's breasts and my cock was all wet, so once my wife got out of the bed I tried to practice edging and managed it like 2 times while being dripping wet with pre-cum.

I am wondering if my pre-cum flow could be due to extra water intake that I have been doing the past few years, whereas before I hardly drank any water during the day and didn't quite any problem with pre-cum but ended up getting a kidney stone...ooouch!

Uhm well I have some precum when I am edging or super horny, but not to the extent of precum oozing out and getting me super wet. No.
I think my 2-3 minutes was really based on low cocksize esteem and stress. I last longer now, but what I like about my wife, sometimes she doesnt mind me just wanting a release. (she might be tired and just want to go to sleep or play her game of diamond dash. She'll let me mount her from the back and let me release in 2-3 minutes sometimes. she'll grab my balls when I am doing her doggy because she knows that will make me cum fast. The next time when we are having sex she'll know she'll get the works, bells and whistles.

[Letmein Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Letmein]

Uhm well I have some precum when I am edging or super horny, but not to the extent of precum oozing out and getting me super wet. No.
I think my 2-3 minutes was really based on low cocksize esteem and stress. I last longer now, but what I like about my wife, sometimes she doesnt mind me just wanting a release. (she might be tired and just want to go to sleep or play her game of diamond dash. She'll let me mount her from the back and let me release in 2-3 minutes sometimes. she'll grab my balls when I am doing her doggy because she knows that will make me cum fast. The next time when we are having sex she'll know she'll get the works, bells and whistles.

Thanks, that is what I wanted to confirm. I think my problem is a little different to what you experienced. I am very happy for both of you and keep us all in the loop with your progress.

I was looking at the pics you have posted about your size increase progress, in my case I am quite happy with my size and girth which I have to measure up to get an accurate length and girth. What I would like to do is increase the thickness of my cock at the base. When I am fully erect my upper half of my cock is evenly thick but at the bottom end it is slightly thinner. I am also slim in my physic. It would be nice to have a cock that is evenly thick along the fully length as opposed to only the upper half.

What do others think?? Any ideas or exercises on how to increase the thickness?

[bahamaboner71 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bahamaboner71]

I work two jobs lately, come home late and really would like to go shower and right to my bed.
My wife said, after I showered briefly, did you do your 300 reps tonight?
Like asking our youngest if he brushed his teeth? LOL

So anyway, yes I went back into the bathroom...

This is bizar, because I was stealth jelqing a year ago.