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You got it right, Quirky One-EyeOriginally posted by Quirky One-Eye View PostContrary to some of the notions being bandied about in this thread, you don't have to be a giant (or even above average) in order to hit the A-spot -- generally speaking.
One thing guys often fail to realize is that just as we men tend to differ in construction (from large to small, from show-ers to growers), so women tend to be varied in how they're made up. Some women are large externally, some are small, some are looser than others, some unbelievably tight.
And inside, some are deeper than others.
One poster earlier, I believe it was Kingpole, stated correctly -- if you have your wife/girlfriend place her hips atop a relatively firm pillow it arches her into a more accessible position. I've used that technique for years and swear by it.
Another is to place your OWN hips atop a pillow for when she's on top. Not only will it allow for her legs to be slightly more extended (and therefore comfortable) but will keep you thrust up hard against her without quite so much work.
In that position I'd say the majority of you are quite large enough to tap the A-spot on a regular basis.
Also, rather than her bouncing up-and-down while atop you, try keeping her crushed firmly against you while in cowgirl position and grab her hips yourself, use them to slide her back-and-forth (front to back) on top of you, grinding. This keeps you pressed against her clitoris, causes the base of your penis to caress her tightly with each stroke, and slides your penis around quite a lot inside her in a kind of top-to-bottom motion that will stroke the G-spot when she's slid forward and move downward along the roof until on the back-stroke you hit (or at the least come very near) her A-spot.
Trust me on this one, she'll love it, along with her legs not falling asleep since the pillow will help.
Q1E
I manage to hit these areas. I think another requirement to hit them, other than those factors already mentioned, is the angle of erection. My penis curves upward, and when at maximum hardness, is at about 1 o'clock. This makes it easier to hit the A-spot when I am on top, and the U-spot (or whatever it's called) in doggy-style type positions. I stay deep so that my head is always rubbing that spot. Pulling the penis out too far doesn't seem to be that effective.
On the size issue, I was 8" when I starting sexing my GF, and I continued to grow to 8 1/4". Maybe she is deep, but I go past the cervix above and below it. Below it (cul-de-sac I believe) is very stretchy, but both areas driver her wild.My Progress Log: https://www.pegym.com/forums/progres...gress-log.htmlComment
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I have had a couple of lovers who seemed to be able to orgasm very reliably with deep penetration, but how is one to know whether that was the result of the tip of my penis stimulating some "deep spot" (whether it be the A-spot, cul-de-sac, or other)? I also happen to be thickest at the base of my penis (about 6 1/4" as opposed to around 5 1/2" for most of the shaft) so maybe it was the greater girth at the base indirectly stimulating the clitoris?
With maximal penetration there was also firm pubic bone pressure which might have contributed to indirect clitoral stimulation, or perhaps it was some combination of all three?
When I orgasm with vaginal intercourse I'm not sure I can identify exactly what mechanism is stimulating precisely what portion of my penis, I can only say that it feels good and works.Comment
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Ask the woman.Originally posted by redbear52 View PostMy Progress Log: https://www.pegym.com/forums/progres...gress-log.htmlComment
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Of course cubah the woman may not know.
I have found this thread educational, which is something I don't say that often.Comment
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Is it safe to assume that girth doesn't really matter in providing pleasure to the A-spot?Comment
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No, in matter if fact the A-spot toys I've seen on ads is thin and long.Originally posted by NSF001 View PostComment
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The Deep Spot - David Shade's Masterful Lover
I heard by one of the users here that the "A spot" is also called the "Deep spot".
Reading this article, tells of a David Shade reaching this "Deep spot" with his middle finger???
I'm guessing the "Deep spot" is another spot as everybody is saying that you need a real long Willy to reach the "A spot".
Ahh here we are!!! some information about the "A spot" and its location
http://www.heretical.com/miscella/g-spots.html
The "A spot" information is at the bottom.(20/02/13)
7" NBPEL
5.7" BEG
5.4" MEG
5.1" Upper EG
5" Glans EG
Goals for 2015
7"+ NBPEL
5.75"+ BEG & MEG
5.5"+ Upper & Glans EGComment
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BW
"Alas, I have never been with a guy who was big enough to reach my A-spot so I have no personal experience in this area. Sounds like fun, though! I am sure we had some other people commenting on the G-spot thread about deep penetration and the A-spot, hopefully they will turn up here, too."
get a 10in. long dildo to find the A-spot a guy who is man enough to use it on you. then with your We-Vibe II in place and that 10incher buried deep you should go into orbit, Ha HaComment
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The A spot is also known as the anterior fornix erogenous zone (AFE zone) or "epicenter" as was mentioned.
One of the "sex researchers" who has popularized the concept of the "epicenter" is one Dr. Lin. Dr. Lin and his dedicated research assistants have been slaving away at the Lin Institute's "Orgasm Research Center" delving deeply into the mysteries of the female orgasm:
Tips of female orgasm.
Be warned that this guy does peddle a lot of creams, potions, and herbal remedies along with advice. He is pretty far out, expressing opinions on the precise pressure in pounds per square inch, and cyclical stroke rates best suited to stimulate all of the various "spots" and trigger female orgasms. This link shows a picture of the position he feels works best for simultaneous stimulation of the clitoris, G-spot, and epicenter during vaginal intercourse: Theory of Sexual Orgasm: 3-Point Excitation Method 3-Point Excitation Method that simultaneously stimulates the clitoris, G-spot and Epicenter with a rhythmic pressure.. Scroll down the page to view.
Here is a link containing his advice on how to locate the epicenter and how long a penis it takes to get there: Learning Hands On
The good doctor even has some PE tips here: Hungry For More Success: What Dr. Lin Can Do For You
I have attempted to contact Dr. Lin to find out if the "Orgasm Research Center" in Boca Raton, Florida is currently hiring, but I have not yet received a response.Comment
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wow. there is so much awesome information here. i thought i only had 3 zones to work with. thank you all very very much.Comment
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Dr Lin has an engineering degree. That is his doctorate, maybe that's why the pounds per square inch and exact depth penetration. He is also an outspoken critic against PE. He has sent many cult members/trolls to this site with the intention of planting doubt in the minds of impressionable newbies.
Do not be lulled by this person. His goal is to get you to buy, buy, buy.
(jP
I've got a Tiger by the tail.Comment
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Has he actually got a degree JP, I thought that was hype?Comment
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paying for his degree is probably why he's trying to get you to buy buy buyThe force is strong with you young Skywalker. Obi Wan has trained you well.
before: 6X4.5
now: 7X5
next: 8X6Comment
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