Squirting by Emma Gray

[jelq2gain Member Find all posts View Profile Close jelq2gain]

Hi everyone, Emma Gray here

Me and my husband (Daniel Gray) had a conversation to the back end of last year regarding female ejaculation. This was something that I didn't know a great deal about, but had heard of it. I was of the understanding that some women can and some women can't. Bizarrely enough, this subject came to light when we were researching Jelqing. Daniel pushed the issue and we began experimenting that evening. We watched several how to videos and got straight to work.

Key points that we adhered to are as follows:

Above all else, communicate with one another!!!

What the woman needs to do;

1. Relax your body and mind
2. Get into a position where you like to cum from oral
3. Cum from oral
4. Help him locate the G-Spot
5. If it feels uncomfortable, TELL HIM!
6. Understand that you will feel like urinating at the point of ejaculation
7. Let it all come out. You may need to force the issue a little and push the first few times
8. Your body will release a milky white fluid from the urethra
9. Happy squirting!

What the man needs to do;

1. Massage and caress her body
2. perform oral and make her cum
3. Use two fingers and perform a beckoning motion on her G-Spot(nice and slow initially)
4. She will become very wet and her pussy will start making a squelching sound
5. This is your cue to finger her G-Spot rigorously
6. Pay attention to her reactions and let nature take its course
7. Enjoy the shower!

How we achieved this?

Daniel started by giving me a massage to get me in the mood and rid me of my inhibitions. Once relaxed, he licked my pussy until I came. I then changed to a kneeling position, leaning back slightly with my hands on the bed supporting my body. He began fingering me using a beckoning type motion, stroking my G-Spot which is the rough area of skin directly behind my pubic bone about two inches in (which I never knew).
As I started to moan and breathe heavily, Daniel knew it was time to increase the intensity.
When my pussy began to make a squelching noise, Daniel began to finger my G-Spot hard and fast until I felt the sensation of wanting to wee. At this point, I knew that I had to let go and go with the flow and hope that I wasn't going to urinate. This was a difficult obstacle to overcome but was worth it. When I was at this point, I gave a slight push as if I was trying to wee and it happened.

Following this first attempt and several sessions later, I can now squirt for England, often squirting half way across the room! This type of orgasm and sensation is mind blowing and has taken our relationship to a whole new level. Daniel Gray really gets off on me squirting and loves nothing more than to have my milky white ejaculate squirting into his mouth and all over his face.

I would advise all couples to try this and not give up until you get it right.

You won't be disappointed! Only wondering why you have never done it before.

Thanks for reading,

Emma Gray

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Thank you for this post.

[Ellford Senior Member Member of the Month Sept 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close Ellford]

To add to this, there's a toy called the Njoy Pure Wand that reviews from women indicate this to be the toy that got them squirting. My wife and I ordered one (they're expensive, but VERY pleasurable) and when it arrived, began our squirting journey. We started with a nice candlelit massage, then oral for a bit (not cumming yet) then used the Pure Wand with me giving her oral and varying the insertion speeds and angles. She was gushing like crazy.

Make sure to put a towel down as this can (and will) make a huge wet spot. We cover 1/3 of the bed.

Now she squirts almost every time we do anything! What now drives her completely wild is using an 8x5.5 dildo with a Hitachi Magic Wand. She/we had to work up to this though, so I don't recommend such a big toy at the start. The Njoy Pure Wand has two sizes of steel balls and because it's steel, it's heavy and gives her a feeling of being "full".

Hope this helps...

[LeafyGreens Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close LeafyGreens]

It's really true that squirting can be learned. I personally feel like it's best if a woman learns to do it on her own (to herself) before bringing a man into it.

I was surprised to discover, however, that squirting and vaginal orgasm are not joined together. You can squirt without orgasm.

[jelq2gain Member Find all posts View Profile Close jelq2gain]

This is probably true Leafy, as most women will be embarrassed to attempt this for the first time in front of their partners. I remember when myself and Daniel first tried this, It just felt like I needed to pee and if I did what would he think of me? Would it put him off? Because we researched this together, we knew that this could be a possible outcome.
Did you learn how to do it yourself first? And how did it go when introducing it for the first time?

Emma Gray

[sumhanglo Member Find all posts View Profile Close sumhanglo]

I've found that very few women can "squirt". My personal opinion based on everything I've read on this topic, the G-spot, and my own experiences, is that this is very physiology dependent and it can still take a long time for a woman to encounter being able to do it (as "Emma Gray" described to some degree). My ex-wife never experienced the sensation until one day about 2-4 weeks into our relationship when we were having sex. And it's basically urine (with some natural lubricating juices mixed in that are from the orgasm).

Basically, the woman is having an intense orgasm and she is unable to control her bladder. After a lot of practice my ex came to realize that it was best for us to have sex when she needed to pee (not badly, that wouldn't be good, but when she was feeling that sensation coming on). In fact it got to where she would routinely want to have sex if she began to feel the slight urge to pee (and was feeling horny obviously ). It apparently allowed her to experience this really amazing orgasm and pee would leak out (sometimes a lot, sometimes not as much). She had never been able to before though; and she had been with 30-35+ partners easily. It was just something based on my physiology, the way my penis fit inside her, where it hit, and her physiology that allowed it to happen.

And, FYI, I'll say it again, especially to anyone younger, or less experienced, all that porn star squirting across the room stuff, shooting pee everywhere, is just ridiculous. That is not how it typically happens. They are just purposely "pushing" the pee through their urethra to make it come out very forcefully. I mean come on...

[closed251 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close closed251]

It's so not for me

[LeafyGreens Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close LeafyGreens]

My wife learned to squirt when I bought her the book "Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot" by Deborah Sundahl. Before that, she had never squirted. I'm not sure she even really knew that it existed. She'd probably heard of the concept a few times, but it got filed away in some dark corner of her brain reserved for worthless knowledge.

Pretty sure on her first or second attempt using the directions in the book, she was successful. I got involved in the process after that (per the recommendations in the book).

Recently, she has started to squirt unintentionally and completely without warning to her or me, which is new. It leads to some fun stories like when we were having sex in a dressing room standing up and she squirted on the floor, in my shoes that were sitting there lol

But.. she can't cum from vaginal only stimulation, and she doesn't while squirting. It's a separate thing. I have a really strong hope that sensitizing her g-spot will lead to the vaginal orgasms.

[Dr Nemo Senior Member Member of the Month May 2018 Find all posts View Profile Close Dr Nemo]

So, is it urine? What is that she "ejaculates"?

[als112 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close als112]

Some to little urine, it can vary. And other fluids of course.

[SnapperLapper Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SnapperLapper]

Yes, it is mostly urine, but has a small amount of PSA (prostatic-specific antigen - the same found in men) in it most of the time. The ejaculate usually consists of urine, diluted urine, and a substance from the female prostate (cum).

Some women don't really experience great pleasure from squirting, and I think that's mainly because it wasn't a good orgasm mix. That's just me, though, and I am no scientist. Other women love doing it, and get great pleasure from its release.

[sumhanglo Member Find all posts View Profile Close sumhanglo]

So, is it urine? What is that she "ejaculates"?

Good answers above. There really isn't any "ejaculation", particularly not in the sense of forcefully ejecting fluid from the body. A woman that squirts is mostly losing some control of the bladder and there is a certain amount of leakage. As stated above by Snapper this is something that can be very pleasing to some women and others not at all.

Also, easiest way to tell if a woman is having an orgasm (or at least get very horny, aroused, and closer to orgasm):

• Contractions in the stomach and vagina
• Markedly increased vaginal secretions. These are made up of amino acids, proteins, carbohydrates, other acids from lactobacillus bacteria. It's the common vaginal secretion or "wetness" that we typically associate with vagina mucus/lubrication.The amount of the secretions can be a little to a lot depending on the woman but a large amount will almost certainly be an indication of increased sexual arousal and/or the oncoming of orgasm.
• Any amount of "squirting" - basically a mixture of urine from the bladder and possibly the Skene's gland (homologous to a male prostate). This is essentially the "G-spot". It's located at the bottom of the urethra. That's why making the "come hither" motion with a finger while inserted in the vagina, which presses up against the top of the vaginal wall, is so great for trying to cause this phenomenon. However, even if the woman doesn't leak urine during this process it's a fantastic way in almost all women to get them very aroused and/or orgasm.

Something to try if you are inclined:

Insert your finger, use the longest one, and make a motion like "come here" (flicking finger toward self), as you press it against the top of the vaginal wall, you will feel a little "nub". This nub is the clitoris. For many women it will drive them wild, and for extra sensation, snap your finger against it so it gets a slight nudge (be careful of your fingernails). This action will rub vigorously against the clitoris. You need to experiment with just how much each girl can take, some will like a lot of hard flicking this "nub" area of the clitoris, others will not like it, others will love it but will be unable to let you do it for long. If your fingers are not long enough get a very hard dildo, do no use a soft one, you need very hard plastic/metal that won't budge and bend. Insert it into the vagina, you will learn with practice just where that girls clitoris and stimulative regions are (near the Skene's glands). Now push the dildo down at a good angle, around 45 degrees tilted upward toward the top of here vaginal wall, and move it around to stimulate her g-spot area and/or clitoris.

[jelq2gain Member Find all posts View Profile Close jelq2gain]

Excellent responses to my thread so far.
Thank you so much,
Emma Gray

[BoneStock Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close BoneStock]

Excellent responses to my thread so far.
Thank you so much,
Emma Gray

Emma,

Your description of how to reach a g-spot O is perfect. You can also massage through the tummy wall, sometimes it’s easier, for the man, to find there. Also have Mr Gray try massaging around the ball that fills with ejaculate, can intensify the O even more. I use 2 fingers, one on each side of the ball w/ the come hither motion.
Not to derail your thread but my wife only has clitoral and g-spot (squitter forever) orgasms. I would like to broaden her horizons.
In your opinion what other zones are the best and do you have any tips on how to hit them?

Thanks-BS

[Dance Sucka Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Dance Sucka]

Squirting! One of my favorite subjects.

My ex was a big time squirter and she initially learned on her own. She listened to her body and knew when she was getting close to squirting. I made her squirt during intercourse by shallow thrusting and pulling all the way out to allow an escape for all the buildup.