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Long story short i broke up with my girlfriend twice because of my own maturity and inability to express my feelings and treat her the way she deserved to be treated. I have recently gone trough some growth and maturing in life and tried getting back with her. At first she said no but after spilling my heart to her she seemed to seem more receptive even asking me if i thought i wanted to marry her. I said yes i want her to be the one. She eventually said she doesnt want to keep going in circles and keep getting hurt and that she is trying to move on. She even said she wasnt over me and that i will always hld a place in her heart. She also said she truly does wish the best for me an that we could still be friends and talk. Well i ran into her at one of the bars we used to frequent and she was with another woman, (small possibility it couldve been a date) and i said hi hos it going and she was laughing with the girl, barely said hi and avoided eye contact while walking past me and left after paying her bill. I messaged her "i hope you didnt leave on my account, it wasnt my intention to run into you" (it wasnt, i was trying to give her space) to which she replied "its ok". I replied "dont let it ruin your night lol. Have a good one". She said you to. I thanked her and she messaged youre welcome. Like really? For someone who apparently will always care for me and i barely get a hi and her avoiding me. I know it was only about a week after she sad she was trying to move on but it seemed a bit cold. Any thoughts on if there is any chance of us getting back together or her still caring about me?
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Last edited by rocket50; 04-07-2018, 07:49 AM.Sometimes less can be more, just as more can be less. -
You have made to thread for the same issue.... which is frown upon.
Just letting you know.Women were created from the rib of man to be beside him, not from his head to top him, nor from his feet to be trampled by him, but from under his arm to be protected by him, near to his heart to be loved by him. -
So in my opinion you have lost your chance with this person however if your heart desires so maybe you should do one final bold move to try and win her back.
Kinda go big or go home. If it doesn't change her mind to give you a third chance, you have accept and respect her feelings and leave well alone.Women were created from the rib of man to be beside him, not from his head to top him, nor from his feet to be trampled by him, but from under his arm to be protected by him, near to his heart to be loved by him.Comment
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I appreciate your response, though i do truly hope you are wrong with it being over. I have really tried changing my immature ways to try and be a better man, one she would love being with. I really hope she gives me one last chance.Sometimes less can be more, just as more can be less.Comment
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Then maybe invite her somewhere she always wanted to go with you but never did.
Hold your hands up and admit you have been a fool and sometimes it takes really losing something to realise what it's worth.
Tell her if she doesn't wish to try, then you will respect her wishes and leave her alone. That it would be too hard to remains friends (which it would, you can only be friends with an ex if your feelings are truly over).Women were created from the rib of man to be beside him, not from his head to top him, nor from his feet to be trampled by him, but from under his arm to be protected by him, near to his heart to be loved by him.Comment
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I did invite her to go grab a bite just to talk. She said she wasnt ready to go out even just as friends because she still wasnt over me.Sometimes less can be more, just as more can be less.Comment
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Grab a bite to eat doesn't feel like a lot of effort on your behalf to apologise for hurting her twice...Women were created from the rib of man to be beside him, not from his head to top him, nor from his feet to be trampled by him, but from under his arm to be protected by him, near to his heart to be loved by him.Comment
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At that point we had already talked and i had apologized already. That was my attempt just to get her in person to talk more one on one over just messaging. I asked her if she would like to grab some tacos. SHe said she wasnt sure, i promised i waasnt going to talk about the relationship and she said she just wasnt ready because she wasnt over me.Sometimes less can be more, just as more can be less.Comment
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You have to start thinking as a salesman. You need to get your foot in the door to sell the new improved you.
If she's still not interested then you have to move on. Some things can't be undone.Women were created from the rib of man to be beside him, not from his head to top him, nor from his feet to be trampled by him, but from under his arm to be protected by him, near to his heart to be loved by him.Comment
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Maybe she just needs more time. It might take a while for me to be able to show her the new and improved me, until then i should just keep improving on myself.Sometimes less can be more, just as more can be less.Comment
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Excellent idea.
I wish you well.Women were created from the rib of man to be beside him, not from his head to top him, nor from his feet to be trampled by him, but from under his arm to be protected by him, near to his heart to be loved by him.Comment
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Thank you.
Sometimes less can be more, just as more can be less.Comment
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I have been there but imo best thing to do is move on for now and grow and become a superman. Ex's will always come back trust me on this. My ex who cheated on me while I was overseas came back twice and is still reaching out to me from time to time and thats been 4 years since she cheated. Once they see you move on and because a greater man they will revisit the thought of you. Invest in yourself and place yourself first and either they will come back for another chance or you will find someone who will be better for you.
The universe always comes full circle and ex's always will reach out again. Tell her how you feel as one final effort and then move on from it let her come to you.Oct-17:EL 5.5" EG 4.8"
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The texts you sent her in reply sound kinda desperate.
She's clearly moved on, I suggest you do the same my friend.Starting size (Dec 2016):
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