How big is too big?

[GiftBringer Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close GiftBringer]

We've had questions like; am I big enough, does size matter and can 5 inches of girth be enough.

Now... Honestly please. How big is too big? And if "too big" how can you make it work? Bonus question - What is the perfect size to quit PE gaining?

I've had compliments on my size during foreplay then complaints after sex and the next day. Often 2 days in a row would be too much, forget about 3.
Anyway this isn't about me. Id like to see what your' (chicks & dudes) opinions are.

[closed251 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close closed251]

I dont think you really can have too much length for female, if your a considerate lover. Just means some length is left in the cold... so to speak.

Of course if you ram it in, it will hurt.

Girth on the otherhand can cause major problems for sex, bjs and anal.

[freshMAKER Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close freshMAKER]

Why do you care about such thing when it is not about you ?

[6inDongNotForLong Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 6inDongNotForLong]

7.5 x 5.5

I personally think this size is more than enough as a goal/perfect size.

Every woman is different, but a lot of positions allow for deeper entry & I think I'd bottom out in a lot of women at this size (carefully of course).
Girth wise, I think 5.5 would be great. I think if I ever reached 5.75'' I'd get comments that it hurt after a while ect.

Based on how slow my gains are, I doubt I'll ever reach it as is, but it's what I think would be perfect.

[GiftBringer Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close GiftBringer]

Why do you care about such thing when it is not about you ?

Sorry man. I was trying to make it a light hearted thread and as i havent found any like this, it brings something new to the forum. Had to share my pov too.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

I dont think you really can have too much length for female, if your a considerate lover. Just means some length is left in the cold... so to speak.

Of course if you ram it in, it will hurt.

Girth on the otherhand can cause major problems for sex, bjs and anal.

In discussion with members (particularly mods) and personal experience length can be worked around . Girth is another matter and typically issues arise after 6in girth. REGARDLESS OF WARMUP ETC.

I put that last in capitals because I am tired of hearing it .
This type of thread usually attracts at least one I am a 7ft 300lb super athlete with 10 by8 and I have rammed hundreds of women anal no problem they just need a warmup post .
Can we not have that this time

[Ultimate Burrito Moderator Member of the Month Oct 2017PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Ultimate Burrito]

I dont think you really can have too much length for female, if your a considerate lover. Just means some length is left in the cold... so to speak.

Of course if you ram it in, it will hurt.

Girth on the otherhand can cause major problems for sex, bjs and anal.

I agree. The extra length makes other, more interesting positions....fun, while also being able to explore any depth of the "traditional" positions. When the kitty is purrrrrring, the magic just happens, the sex trancends beyond technique and skill, it's no longer sex at all, it's art and chemistry and unity of mind, body and soul, the euphoria is magic. Afterwards, no questions are asked, nothing is said, you just lay there with your lover and she with you, holding each other without a care in the world, lost in the moment with endless depth.

[incogneeetoe Moderator Member of the Month Sept 2017*Special Appreciated Moderator Nov. 2021* PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close incogneeetoe]

I looked back at my post history and going by what the wife says (assuming length is not what she means, as I keep a good amount out in the air) when my girth hit the 6 inch mark she changed from saying "so big" or "really big" to "too big".

But then as she adjusted, it became "really big". As I grew her comments changed back and forth. But that was the point where I note she started to say "too big".

[GiftBringer Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close GiftBringer]

Maybe this has some validity to what optimal is?

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[Going411x7 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Going411x7]

We've had questions like; am I big enough, does size matter and can 5 inches of girth be enough.

Now... Honestly please. How big is too big? And if "too big" how can you make it work? Bonus question - What is the perfect size to quit PE gaining?

I've had compliments on my size during foreplay then complaints after sex and the next day. Often 2 days in a row would be too much, forget about 3.
Anyway this isn't about me. Id like to see what your' (chicks & dudes) opinions are.

If you are married, or in a long-term relationship, then you and your partner can always work around your size, no matter what your size is. I started out large,so as soon as I got my eleven o'clock erections back, I kept at it for
another four to five months, ever increasing my length and girth. I loved doggy style and she was most willing to accommodate me in that regard. Anal and oral were always out of the question for her; however, my tongue worked better than my cock in pleasuring her right from the get go. She did her best to please me, and I did my best to please her.

Toward the end (before she fell sick) she brought me to some "full body" orgasms that I treasure in retrospect. This came from deep trust and intimacy between the two of us.

[DickerSchwanz Senior Member Member of the Month Sept 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close DickerSchwanz]

Most woman have no interest in using a dildo that is beyond 1 standard deviation of penis size, daily.

The mean penis length is: 5.8 inches
Standard mean is 0.9 inches.
1st sd above mean is: 6.7 inches

The distribution of penis length follows a bell curve. 70% are within 1 standard deviation up and down.
Why is it a bell curve and not all over the place? Cause that's what works for reproduction. Too small and too big will create problems.

Same for girth.
mean = 4.6 inches
SD = 0.6 inches
1st sd above mean is: 5.2 inches

I started almost 1 standard mean above in girth and length and had occasionally problems and could not always "hammer away".
With 7.5 x 5.6 you will get problems regularly. Have to take care of how deep and at which angle you go. Girthwise she has to be ready.

With 8 x 5.8 some woman will get scared and you will have to take care at all times. There will almost always be some dick out in the cold.

Obviously you can regulate how much length you "put in". So even 10+ inches length might not be too big.. just "useless"
I assume above 6 inch girth a woman not used to it will struggle. I'm pretty sure above 6.5 girth 99% will struggle.

[hm42 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close hm42]

I can tell you that my previous size would bother most woman and I could not put legs up because I would go to deep. Now at my current size I have been with 3 woman in the last several months and 2 of them could take me deep and one couldn't. I was able to pound away with the 2 and it felt amazing. I have not been able to do that with a woman for 18 years. With my ex-wife for 13 years and then a long term GF for 5. Now that I am bigger I have found 2 woman that can handle me. So really I say it depends on the woman.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Maybe this has some validity to what optimal is?

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No not again with that bs graph the guy made up off the top of his head . How did this get any traction?

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

If you are married, or in a long-term relationship, then you and your partner can always work around your size, no matter what your size is. I started out large,so as soon as I got my eleven o'clock erections back, I kept at it for
another four to five months, ever increasing my length and girth. I loved doggy style and she was most willing to accommodate me in that regard. Anal and oral were always out of the question for her; however, my tongue worked better than my cock in pleasuring her right from the get go. She did her best to please me, and I did my best to please her.

Toward the end (before she fell sick) she brought me to some "full body" orgasms that I treasure in retrospect. This came from deep trust and intimacy between the two of us.

Actually no.
Your experience is with 1 woman .
Not only that you were too big for oral and anal which most guys would find an issue .

[Phoenix7672 Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Phoenix7672]

I dont think you really can have too much length for female, if your a considerate lover. Just means some length is left in the cold... so to speak.

THANK YOU....So many think length can be too big as it all has to go in when it doesn't. Honestly I wouldn't mind being 10-12" long, that way I could give pretty much any girl the exact amount of length she wants/needs, with some to spare.