When it comes to sexual performance, why is almost all the presurre on the guy?

[djmotion Senior Member Member of the Month March 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close djmotion]

I think that women don't realize that if they are good looking, then it makes it harder for a guy to hold on. To say guys can't fuck as a general statement negates the receiving end to the encounter. If a women tries her hardest to look hot, then yes, it makes it harder for a man to hold on. Simple stuff if you ask me. What gets me is those that complain about stamina and just sit there with their legs in the air and contribute nothing to the experience. In my opinion, a girl should be thrilled that she got a guy off quickly - that is the point of sex, to get off. I know from a male standpoint, I always leave an encounter making sure she got off. Porn has really fucked things up for all of us.

You are right in a way but a lot of women actually feel like shit if a guy isn't getting off. I've suffered from delayed ejaculation many times in my life while yes some women loved the stamina and having sex for 1+ hours. I also had girls who literally asked me if they weren't good enough and I had to explain that lasting that long is normal for me but they hadn't been used to it. I think guys need to aim for a perfect balance (20-30 mins of sex) cause lasting ages isn't all it's cracked up to be. You also need to be physically fit to keep up with sexual stamina. My abs would be killing me the day later and it's sweaty and messy business lol

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

You are right in a way but a lot of women actually feel like shit if a guy isn't getting off. I've suffered from delayed ejaculation many times in my life while yes some women loved the stamina and having sex for 1+ hours. I also had girls who literally asked me if they weren't good enough and I had to explain that lasting that long is normal for me but they hadn't been used to it. I think guys need to aim for a perfect balance (20-30 mins of sex) cause lasting ages isn't all it's cracked up to be. You also need to be physically fit to keep up with sexual stamina. My abs would be killing me the day later and it's sweaty and messy business lol

‘Hamstrings for me. Ugh. After a few times pounding in Doggy, my Hammies were spent. One full hour once of pounding. Girlie came home for mother’s day and I think I’ve recovered. We’ll see tomorrow.

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‘Hamstrings for me. Ugh. After a few times pounding in Doggy, my Hammies were spent. One full hour once of pounding. Girlie came home for mother’s day and I think I’ve recovered. We’ll see tomorrow.

I guess it depends on the position and how you have sex. I must put more emphasis on thrusting my hips using my abs and my fave positions are missionary and spooning which require a lot of thrusting lol

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I guess it depends on the position and how you have sex. I must put more emphasis on thrusting my hips using my abs and my fave positions are missionary and spooning which require a lot of thrusting lol

I actually prefer missionary, I think she does too. I can stoke her cervix that way which sends her through the roof.

Deep, pushing out cervical orgasms, but her cervix is like rubbing my sweet spot on sand paper, gets painful. In doggy I can thrust much harder and deeper, still hitting her cervix but now my sweet spot doesn’t rub her cervix, my glans do.

[Bisquick61 Senior Member Member of the Month May 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close Bisquick61]

Only speaking about what I’ve seen in America. But It’s whats seen in pop culture that puts pressure on men when in all actuality most women don’t have those standards they just want pleasure from someone they trust. To take it further, some women find it hard to even liberate themselves in general Let alone ask a man to help with that. Which is why as Tara stated above, lesbians have better sex lives.

The key is a woman communicating what she wants. If she feels like she can’t then the sex is shit and you will receive comments Vitrex received from his friends. Not every woman is the same. Different erogenous zones work better at stimulating one woman than another. so as a man if you’re not communicating, you’re doing that woman a disservice. Having a big dick is only as good as how a woman feels about you and about it.

If you’re a man and you’re partner is giving head. They use their teeth, if you don’t say anything about the process you might hate getting head, especially if it happens with multiple women (no matter the size of the dick). The minute you say “It hurts going down on me because you use your teeth”. They make the adjustment. It’s game on. Establish and maintain communicating from the jump and you won’t have comments like that.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Only speaking about what I’ve seen in America. But It’s whats seen in pop culture that puts pressure on men when in all actuality most women don’t have those standards they just want pleasure from someone they trust. To take it further, some women find it hard to even liberate themselves in general Let alone ask a man to help with that. Which is why as Tara stated above, lesbians have better sex lives.

The key is a woman communicating what she wants. If she feels like she can’t then the sex is shit and you will receive comments Vitrex received from his friends. Not every woman is the same. Different erogenous zones work better at stimulating one woman than another. so as a man if you’re not communicating, you’re doing that woman a disservice. Having a big dick is only as good as how a woman feels about you and about it.

If you’re a man and you’re partner is giving head. They use their teeth, if you don’t say anything about the process you might hate getting head, especially if it happens with multiple women (no matter the size of the dick). The minute you say “It hurts going down on me because you use your teeth”. They make the adjustment. It’s game on. Establish and maintain communicating from the jump and you won’t have comments like that.

They adjust after a single comment and don't slap your face !??
Umm you assume all women are very teachable which isn't true . Try to get a woman to communicate what she enjoys in bed won't usually get you a straight answer you can rely on let alone adjustment . Like I said many say they want it "all night " are not able to cope with more than 20min .
I now await a flood of pua saying it just needs their psyic touch to unleash instantly any womans inner nympho.

[Bisquick61 Senior Member Member of the Month May 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close Bisquick61]

I’m not saying it’s instant but it can help. If a woman’s focus is on pleasing you,she will make the adjustment. It’s gotten me a straight answers when I’ve needed them. If she’s not that into toy then maybe she wouldn’t communicate what she wants. I’ve never had that issue

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Lucky you.

[Bisquick61 Senior Member Member of the Month May 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close Bisquick61]

Lucky you.

I’m sure you have to have had one woman that has communicated what she wants sexually.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

I’m sure you have to have had one woman that has communicated what she wants sexually.

Yes but I have also had many that didn't , some that acted offended when I tried to get communication. Some that communicated that it was my job was to make it all happen they shouldn't need to do much .

[Bisquick61 Senior Member Member of the Month May 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close Bisquick61]

Yes but I have also had many that didn't , some that acted offended when I tried to get communication. Some that communicated that it was my job was to make it all happen they shouldn't need to do much .

I’m my experience that hasn’t been the case. However I do realize that not everyone has had my experience. I don’t think I could have sex with someone who wasn’t able to communicate in that way. To me it ruins the experience

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Lucky you.

[Bisquick61 Senior Member Member of the Month May 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close Bisquick61]

Yes lucky me 😊

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

I got to thinking of our very own Tara . Now there is a girl who wants to please her man . There should be more like her.

[closed251 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close closed251]

Thank you Peg....