Ejaculation etiquette

[phallic1 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close phallic1]

How do you women feel towards the act of male ejaculation? What the porn industry would have society believe is that it is normal to grab your woman by the head and try to squirt as much semen onto her face, eyes, in her mouth and in her hair as possible....and women love this.

I would never try that and I'm pretty sure if I ever did, I would have ended up with a fat lip for being a pig and/or asshole.

If the plan is to not ejaculate inside her vagina and you know she does'nt want it in her face or on the good linens, and your not using a condom, should you ask where to aim it or what? Myself, I enjoy making my cumshot a spectacle and I like to have her watching when it starts to spurt. But I've noticed that it's not always appreciated to ejaculate all over her stomach and breasts, which is the usual result of missionary, or on her ass and back from doggy. I've even had women who have reacted to ejaculation like I was going to do a "farmers nose blow" on them but some women enjoy watching a good cumshot.

Is squirting distance a turn on? What about volume?

Can squirting too much semen (roping) be a turn off or turn on?

[medic440 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close medic440]

I guess ive been fortunate enough to always end up with partners that were confident in their bodies? Ive only pushed the issue on facials with two woman only because of the adventure of trying new things. they were very receptive and actually asked me to do it after awhile! its my opinion that most woman from legal age to in their 40's want to get as nasty as us boys do but, they require more trust and working up to things than rather a one night porn style romping!!! But, theyre are a few to that are right out of the box nasty!

[redbear52 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close redbear52]

The only times I have ejaculated on a woman was accidentally while receiving a handjob or blowjob, or if the gal took me out of her mouth as I came while she was giving me head.

I wouldn't accept withdrawal (coitus interruptus) as a legitimate method of birth control, and I would vastly prefer ejaculating in a woman's vagina to doing it on the outside of her body, and I have never been with a woman who asked me to pull out before I came. I have been with some gals who liked to watch me come as they gave me a handjob, or finished me off with their hands at the end of a blowjob, but they didn't seem to want me to come on them deliberately. Of course, accidents happen.

I have always felt it was good manners to ask a gal if she wants you to come in her mouth or not before she gives you head. If she doesn't, a brief verbal warning or a courtesy tap on the shoulder lets her decide what to do with it. I've had a couple of women who didn't mind if I ejaculated on the side of their mouth or cheek, but I haven't been with any who deliberately wanted me to come in their eyes or hair. Of course, like most guys I find women who swallow to be charming, but you can't always get what you want.

I think it is also good manners to have a towel handy either at bedside or on the bed, especially if you are at her place, to catch any "dribble" or clean up after "the one that got away from you".

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

Well, as in most other things sexual, tastes are going to vary from woman to woman. Some may be comfortable with things that others are not.

Blow jobs and facials: personally I love to swallow, and I have a really hard time imaging being willing to take my mouth off a man long enough to have him cum in my face. Also I really don't like the idea of getting squirted in the eyes -- so facials are not something that I fancy. When a guy cums on his lady's face because she wants it, however, that's great; but I don't think it is ever appropriate to do it TO a woman, if you get my drift. If you have any question at all about what a woman wants, follow redbear's advice: ask her. If you are intimate enough to be having sex, you should be intimate to ask her where she wants you to cum.

Communication is key in all cases. Don't make assumptions about what your partner does or does not want -- ask! Most women will respond positively to the chance to decide. And you may find that she surprises you. Maybe that girl you think is kind of shy about sex would really like to see you cum all over her breasts! Or on her face, wherever. You won't ever know unless you ask. Also, the answer may vary from one sexual encounter to the next. One day she may feel like having you cum one way, another day she may feel more or less daring (or more or less possessive) and want something different. The better communication you have, the more variety and pleasure you can take as your moods change from one time to the next.

I think that watching a man cum is one of the most exciting and empowering things for a woman. It is visual proof of how exciting and desirable a man finds you, how much you turn him on. Yes, squirting distance can be a turn-on; yes, lots of volume can be a turn-on (I can't imagine there ever being too much); everything about it is good, except the mess. But these things are best enjoyed when both partners are aware of what is going to happen, and have agreed (either verbally or with other cues) on what they want.

One last thought: towels. The mess of sex, whether you cum inside her or on the outside, is always easier to deal with if you have some clean towels handy (as in right next to the bed, or whatever). Forgive the graphics, but walking around with cum dribbling down me is never any fun. Having something to clean up with a bit before getting up is always appreciated by a lady!

[BMot Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close BMot]

One last thought: towels. The mess of sex, whether you cum inside her or on the outside, is always easier to deal with if you have some clean towels handy (as in right next to the bed, or whatever). Forgive the graphics, but walking around with cum dribbling down me is never any fun. Having something to clean up with a bit before getting up is always appreciated by a lady!

Not to mention that wet cum patches on the sheets aren't fun when you're trying to get to sleep....or waking up stuck to the sheets

[NP97 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close NP97]

Towels are a good idea. Always had to change my bedsheets from my ex cuming all over them...
Dunno about the current one. Have to find that out soon...

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

Nobody likes sleeping in the wet spot!

[NP97 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close NP97]

Aye... if I was too lazy, it was called the 'cum wall'. Fun arguing over who go to sleep on that side. Always ended up being me...

[Leviathan Member Find all posts View Profile Close Leviathan]

Anywhere, but my face, for the reason BatWoman posted. It gets in the eyes & up the nose, which is just not fun & can be painful---IMHO, not the best way to end an amazing sex session. ~

[Dangler Senior Administrator☼ Wizard ☼ White Tiger Award 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Dangler]

There is more going on out there than you might want to know...Semen: The New Atkins Diet

In related news, it has also been reported that P.E.T.A. and various hippie vegan groups have also approved of the diet. They have formed a union and are now chanting in unison to their slogan: "we won't eat chickens, but we suck cock."

[BlasphemousRumors Member Find all posts View Profile Close BlasphemousRumors]

Thats funny you should automatically think that vegans are all hippies. I'm a vegan and certainly not a hippie by any means;in any sense of the word. Did you know one of men hailed as the manliest man in Hollywood is a vegan? That mans name is Clint Eastwood! Do you see him attending Phish shows or joining drum circles?

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

I wouldn't get upset about the vegan crack It was meant as a joke!

[GTO Retired ModeratorPEGym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close GTO]

I'm very fortunate to have GF that really gets off on seeing me cum anywhere, any shape, any form! When our sexual relationship began, she was the one that brought it up (about cumming on her) - kinda shocked me a bit since I didn't see her as the type. After I saw she wasn't joking and we talked about it, it took our sex life to another level and I do my best to oblige her. I always let her dictate where she wants it - I figure if she doesn't want it on her face and I try to do that, it could ruin a good thing and take the enjoyment we have away. She likes it in her mouth, on her face, breasts, ass - pretty much a whole body thing. She says it really gets her hot to see me cum and to (in her words) "see just how much I can milk from the fellas!'

[redbear52 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close redbear52]

Nobody likes sleeping in the wet spot!

I'm willing to sleep on any wet spot I had a hand in creating.

[Voorhees Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Voorhees]

i've also been curious on this subject as well. My wife has just recently gotten off birth control (made her insane, she'd be the first to admit) and i refuse to get the snip. This has let us to what i like to call the Pull n'Paint technique.

She's very proper and it's hard to discuss things like ejaculatory ettiquette without murdering her with embaressment. Can't seem to find a place to put my gravy to make her happy either though.

So since communication will not work and traditional homes for the Webbin aren't working (from what i gather in her body language), i've been fully testing the waters.

I'm a shooter. with a bit of concentration my aim is moderate as well. So regardless of position i can usually land my mini-me's over the top of the little lady's head, and that's exactly what i go for. A positive side effect of this is sometimes it can lead to humorous situations that gets my wife to open up a bit to talking about it.