What What to say during sex?

[Midnight Man Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Midnight Man]

Some strange stuff on this thread, I must say. Personally I love erotic talk during sex and I can enjoy being dominated, but I am definitely not interested in hearing anything insulting or derogatory. Are you guys really sure your girls actually like being called whores? I can't imagine that being true. Ask yourself -- do they like it, or are they just going along with it to please you? Yes, I know it can be a game.... but that doesn't mean that some aspects of it can leave your girls feeling somewhat badly afterwards.

To me, hearing something like "Suck my hard cock, baby" or "Come here, I want to fuck you now" can be a turn-on.... but "Suck my cock, you whore" or "bend over, you bitch" would just make me feel badly.

My girlfriend actually requested that I talk to her like that. I felt quite awkward about it at first but I got over that when I saw how much she enjoyed it. As I said before, she doesn't think of herself as a whore, she's my whore. I guess it's a very explicit way of expressing that she's completely giving herself to me physically.

[Dangler Senior Administrator☼ Wizard ☼ White Tiger Award 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Dangler]

Lets not talk, lets just see how loud we can make the bedsprings squeak !

[W.M.P. Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close W.M.P.]

Some strange stuff on this thread, I must say. Personally I love erotic talk during sex and I can enjoy being dominated, but I am definitely not interested in hearing anything insulting or derogatory. Are you guys really sure your girls actually like being called whores? I can't imagine that being true. Ask yourself -- do they like it, or are they just going along with it to please you? Yes, I know it can be a game.... but that doesn't mean that some aspects of it can leave your girls feeling somewhat badly afterwards.

To me, hearing something like "Suck my hard cock, baby" or "Come here, I want to fuck you now" can be a turn-on.... but "Suck my cock, you whore" or "bend over, you bitch" would just make me feel badly.

From my experience, it really comes down to the likes and dislikes of each individual. My ex loved dirty talk as long as I did not use "harsh" words like whore, bitch, etc. However, she loved to get manhandled real rough, fucked hard & fast and also choked and slapped (not too hard, of course). The woman I dated before her, she used to LOVE being called all kinds of really nasty things...but she DID NOT like to be manhandled or anything like that. Anything other than a little hair-pullin' was NOT happening with her.

I think the best way to find out is to test the waters a little bit at a time and see how the woman responds. In my experience, women will let you know right away, whether it is through body language or just straight up telling you "I don't like that, don't do that," etc. This goes both ways. I remember several months back my ex was giving me a BJ and out of nowhere she starts pressing her fingers really hard in between my sack and anus. It felt like she wanted to push my Prostate up to my sternum. I gently took her hand away from there and she got the message without me having to say a word. Afterward, she told me she had read in Cosmo about how men like to have that done and that it's supposed to be very pleasant. I explained to her that I actually enjoy a light-as-a-feather touch on that area and she took note for the future. Every one is different so communication is the only way to find out.

[myketasin Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close myketasin]

making your woman scream so loud feels great! damn you know that they are satisfied! hahahaha

[bigdon Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bigdon]

We like the dirty talk during the "act" mainly deeper, deeper and shoot it on my breast baby, are what's said.

[Magneto Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Magneto]

hey everyone, i feel that all this dirty talk is not for me. Im a romantic n i found that saying pleasant romantic things that made a woman feel special turned her on a great deal lol. And like the age old sayin goes actions speak louder than words. My ex asked me to groan louder which turned her on.

Ps that dont mean you cant pound her like an animal every so often hehe.

[mistydawn Banned Find all posts View Profile Close mistydawn]

I love for a man to whisper in my ear. Saying my name, I love you, you feel so good, you are so wet, you turn me on, I've missed you, my name, you drive me crazy, I feel close to you, I want you, I need you...stuff like that. Ah, just thinking about it just makes me feel warm all over.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

I do that too but occasionally I get her name wrong!

[LilSlugger Member Find all posts View Profile Close LilSlugger]

My experiences have been that what I say is determined on what my wife is looking for. If she is looking for love making, there's things I'm going to say that I wouldn't say if she wanted fuck. And vice versa. It all depends on what the woman wants at the time even during sex. My wife can go from wanting to make love and hearing sweet stuff to grinding her pussy up against me while I'm thrusting in her and wanting to hear how wet her pussy is and how hard it's making my dick. Or how I'm going to fill that pussy up with cum soon. When she wants to be fucked, she does like me to call her my own personal slut. Women are complicated. The right thing to say at the right time changes every second with a woman.

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

I totally agree! Great post.
It's always important to tailor what you say to the experience at hand, and read your partner's desires and mood. Hopefully she will do the same for you!

[TTBB Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TTBB]

Great post Lilslugger .. i think you hit the nail on the head

[Minuteman Member of the Month March 2013. Find all posts View Profile Close Minuteman]

"I mastrubate thinking of you" ... damn i would like to hear that from her lips and know that it is true, that's like the best thing one woman that i love could say to me in that moment, at least until i think something better. I mean the feeling that i am in her innermost (or at least i think so) thoughts and even pleasing her in her mind. Just thinking about that got me horny...

On the topic note i think it is not as much the word spoken ("did you farted" not beeing the best representative of that thought) that is the tone of the one you love, that voice, his passion and love that is transfered from his mouth to her ears It is the sounds and the voices that are reserved just for her that is what counts.... right?

[bobberick Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bobberick]

The other day she smacked my back and said, Bob if you stop again, I'm gonna kill you. ...oops.

[Wynn Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Wynn]

I've been told many times by the ladies that they love blowing me. I've taken these years of taking and now I give back to you the people of PE.
1. Make noises, something that let's them know their doing the right thing or not. When she makes the effort to deep throat, make sure you notice with a "oh god it feels so tight in your throat."
2. Message the neck and shoulders. I did message therapy in college so I got my technec down and everything. Use both hands, one on the shoulder and the other palms the back of the head, with your fingers gripping the base of the scull and switch back and forth as her rhythm changes up.
3. Make random demands. It let's the girl know that you know what you like and she has to do them if she wants you to cum, and every girl thinks about making you cum. My all time favorite is upon position change Ill kind of stop, give her a funny look and say you know you need to clean this up with you mouth between every position.
4. When you hit it right and can tell she's going to cum, demand that she comes and give her reason for it. "cum for me baby, that way I can cum too" or " when you cum your pussy gets so wet I can't even hold it"

That's all I got for now, but I'm a firm believer that it's not all about how big we make it, but more how big we make it seem.

[LilSlugger Member Find all posts View Profile Close LilSlugger]

On the topic note i think it is not as much the word spoken ("did you farted" not beeing the best representative of that thought) that is the tone of the one you love, that voice, his passion and love that is transfered from his mouth to her ears It is the sounds and the voices that are reserved just for her that is what counts.... right?

I don't know. My wife is very capable of doing multiple things at once. She is also quick to pick up on things as well. I'm sure the ladies on here would be able to tell if even in the heat of the moment they are able to pay attention to what is coming out of our mouths.

As for an example. Knowing my wife when she is in the mood to be dirty likes being called "my personal little slut". I believe she likes the idea of being my, keyword my, little slut. If I on the other hand just called her a little slut, she would probably be offended. She didn't like it when I said, "Damn baby, your such a dirty whore". She didn't say anything or react to it in a favorable way. So I took no reaction as bad reaction. On the other hand one time I said, "Oh god (her name), I love you being my personal little slut" and she responded with a moan laugh (hard to explain) and said in some manner, "Mmm, I love being your little slut."

I think the response is key. I've made mistakes and said the wrong thing. Nothing drastic but you realize it wasn't a "hit" with her when you don't get a favorable response. It is hard to know what to say. The more you are in tune with the person the easier it gets to paying attention to their signals and knowing what you can say and what you can't say.