How you use it matters most

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

As they say, your mind is your largest sex organ.....

[Midnight Man Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Midnight Man]

It's great to see threads like this. While we're all here to make our dicks bigger, it reminds us that size isn't the be all and end all. It's easy to lose focus of that when you want gains so much. PE is a long term path. Becoming a more attentive lover is something that can be achieved much more easily.

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I'm glad you guys think this is useful. I sometimes get the feeling that a lot of guys here are so focused on penis size that they miss what I think the whole point is -- to enjoy their own bodies and sex activities more, and to give greater pleasure to their partners. There is a lot more to that than just penis size.

[blink2000 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close blink2000]

I'm glad you guys think this is useful. I sometimes get the feeling that a lot of guys here are so focused on penis size that they miss what I think the whole point is -- to enjoy their own bodies and sex activities more, and to give greater pleasure to their partners. There is a lot more to that than just penis size.

Part of it is just our desire to be confident, not feel self-conscious and to please our other-half.

I agree with you (that theres more to life than penis size); there's a reason I didn't search for PE until I was past the age of 30 (getting other things right in my life had always been enough). At the same time though, its just a nice bonus to be 'big' to impress your lady... it's like a giant trophy she gets to polish!

I know I can please my wife in other ways, but I figured out that at about 6.5" length I can please her quite well (the extra base girth I have from hanging has helped too). Strangely though, I can't please her quite as well with my penis at 6" (by using my penis). In contrast at 6.75" I'm able to bottom out at certain angles, white at 6" I simply can't. The idea though that I can please her at the same time I am getting pleasure is nice--I do enjoy foreplay, as much as she does. Here's the thing... with a longer penis, the whole build-up ends with a better culmination (orgasm); especially for her.

Having a longer penis will allow us to both get more enjoyment in more positions... PE raises my libido too--so it makes me want to please her more (which gets her more excited as well). I guess overall with PE, I am able to please her more for several reasons at once... I think my wife doesn't completely like the amount of time I spend on PE these days, but I know she's enjoying the benefits, she is supportive on her good days, but still manages to tolerate it on her bad days.

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

Don't get me wrong -- I think PE is wonderful, and I have nothing against guys wanting to grow larger cocks. And yes, it makes a lot of sense to me that being longer can provide additional options for positions and stimulation that could be a lot of fun for both partners. But I really do think that a bigger penis is just sort of a "bonus added" for a lady, not the main thing at all.

I expect that some guys here will simply not believe this, but it is the truth: I would much rather have a guy with a smaller penis (but who is an thoughtful, imaginative, and patient lover) than a guy with a bigger penis but with fewer skills and less patience. Not just because the former might be a nice guy outside the bedroom -- but because he is more likely to give me greater physical pleasures in bed than the guy who has a big cock but little else to offer.

As someone said recently on another thread, PE takes a lot of time; a much faster way to improve your performance in bed is to work on being a better lover, not just a bigger one. Take a look at these threads:
https://www.pegym.com/forums/womans-...ter-lover.html
https://www.pegym.com/forums/womans-...43-g-spot.html

For you young guys just starting out: if your knowledge, skills, creativity, and patience in bed are great, then that big cock you are working toward will just be all the more fun. But don't think that "big" = "great" all by itself.

[hardcore Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close hardcore]

hey bw! ltnc! hows things? jst a general question what kinda clothes do u prefer on men , i know there will b differences between what u would like them to wear to look good an what would rellllly get u going, if u could give a couple of examples it would b gr8 cheers pal.

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

Can you translate that into English, please?

Just like with writing, I think that clothing preferences vary enormously between individuals, and also vary according to what age you are. Also, guys with different body types look good in different clothing, so there is no uniformity to what looks good on guys in general.

My personal favorites for sexy clothes on a man: Levis, with nothing underneath.

[Midnight Man Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Midnight Man]

My personal favorites for sexy clothes on a man: Levis, with nothing underneath.

Oh my!

[redbear52 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close redbear52]

My wife has exercised her veto power regarding me wearing Levis with nothing on underneath. She says I look way too "graphic".

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Way too icthy!

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

Well, the point is that when he is dressed that way, he doesn't stay dressed long.

[luverin Member Find all posts View Profile Close luverin]

my

wife usally has a climax with fore play it wired so all ihave to do is finsh off she almost always climaxes from foreplay

[Panther Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Panther]

My girl loves it when I go commando, which I always do when we are going it. It's part of the foreplay, the build-up. Foreplay is much more than stroking, kissing, oral sex, etc. It starts the minute you wake up and includes the way you look at her, leaving messages on her car, sending sexy texts, calling her during the day.

Find out what your lady likes and do it for her. Making her feel good starts the minute you get up in the morning and, in my opinion, is part of foreplay.

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Find out what your lady likes and do it for her. Making her feel good starts the minute you get up in the morning and, in my opinion, is part of foreplay.

I totally agree. Many guys just don't get this part of it.

[NP97 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close NP97]

I totally agree. Many guys just don't get this part of it.

Nothing beats a nice kiss on the lips when she wakes up. Especially if you have brushed and she hasn't.

I don't get to spend as much time with my GF as I did my ex (work/school for us both).
With my ex I would wake up, kiss her forehead, then her cheek. Go make her breakfast. After it's made I would bring it up to her room, then give her a foot massage while she ate it. We would usually go back to my house, take a nap together, wake up, shower together. I would give her a back and breast massage in the shower, get her nice and horny... then we would hop in my bed.
She would suck me off while I got the condom ready, then we would make out for a bit while I put my dick in her.
Screw for a while... either I would cum then eat her out or we would get interrupted by someone else coming home (my door didn't have a lock on it then... thank god it does now).

If interrupted we would wait 'till later in the night (aka early morning) and have some more sex. Unless the other session was too vigorous then I would just eat her out/finger her until she forced me off of her.


I just don't have time for that stuff anymore. I did make one nice diner for me and my GF. We ate outside with a candle burning on my picnic table. Had a bottle of really nice wine. Watched half of a movie (some shitty one she wanted to watch that I pretended to care about... bleh...) then went up to my room and banged for about an hour. I think she woke the family up... she's pretty loud Her pussy was like Niagara Falls by the time I got her panties off...