She touches herself during sex - annoying for her?

[Ratdude Member Find all posts View Profile Close Ratdude]

Any input from women would be great.

When me and my girlfriend have sex, she will touch herself.
I'm completely fine with this.
I'm really just wondering if it's annoying for her.
Does she hate that she has to touch herself while we have sex in
order to orgasm?

I've asked her and she says she likes doing it and feeling me inside.

Really, I just came for other womens' opinions on the matter.

Do you like doing it? Does it ever become bothersome? Etc.

Thanks!

[beetleboy Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close beetleboy]

Dude, she's already answered the question. Tell her how sexy you think it is and go with it.

[Unit Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Unit]

I'm not a women, so I'll keep my fingers still.

[closed149 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close closed149]

I doubt it's "annoying" for her, but quite the contrary. Most women masturbate more than you would guess, and if she does then I'm sure she loves touching herself. While having sex it's only adding to her pleasure!

Having a girl that touches herself during sex is better than a girl who doesn't do anything at all!

I'd still like to hear a woman's perspective, however. Where's Batwoman? Turn on the Bat Symbol!

[RockstarParkingDude Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close RockstarParkingDude]

most girls need clitoral stimulation to cum. a lot like it while they're getting screwed. if shes down to do it herself, cool! it frees up your hands. if it bothers you, try a position that has good clitoral stimulation built in.

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

Oh, you lucky guy! You've found a girl who is uninhibited and comfortable enough with you to really go after what she wants in sex -- yippee!

It took me years and years to learn that it was OK to stroke myself sometimes during sex to enhance my pleasure. As your girl told you, it can feel utterly fabulous for her to feel you deep inside her while she stokes her clit -- it pushes all her buttons. Be glad she is willing to do that for you!

As the guys said above, in many positions a girl does not really get enough clitoral stimulation to cum, or to enjoy the thrill of your thrusting as much as she would if she had a bit more clit stimulation. She is simply adding a bit more for herself, to add to her pleasure. You can do it for her sometimes, but in a lot of positions it is just easier for the lady to do it herself. It is a great addition to a couple's sexual repertoire.

Far from being bothersome, I have found it very liberating to finally learn that it is OK to touch and stroke myself during sex. I'm sure she feels the same.

[danvers Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close danvers]

My wife does this all the time. I find it very hot.

Sometimes she will use a vibrator on her clit, while I work her G-spot. I agree with Bat Women, it is much more fun being with a women who is confident and comfortable.

I also learned a few tricks watching my wife touch herself.

[mistydawn Banned Find all posts View Profile Close mistydawn]

I doubt it is annoying to her. It USE to be the only way I could orgasm (proud to say not anymore). Sometimes if a guy knew the right way to touch me, he could do it to bring me to orgasm. I usually just touched myself because I knew exactly what touch I needed. Never annoying

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

I think many women refrain from doing this because they are embarrassed to do so -- and because they think their partners might misinterpret it. I used to think that a guy would think that he was inadequate if I wanted to stroke myself during sex with him. It was quite a revelation to discover that guys could find it really hot, too!

[movinonup Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close movinonup]

As a man, I love it when my wife does this. I also like when we use vibes or my hand on her clit. There is another place for vibes to be put too that can really send shutters down her back while you are having sex, but that is a completely different subject.

[vulcan Retired ModeratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close vulcan]

I concur, this is insanely arousing to me.

[Ratdude Member Find all posts View Profile Close Ratdude]

Nice! Well I'm glad to hear that it's not "annoying".

And, yes, it is quite arousing! Mmm!!!

Any elaboration on positions that increase clitoral stimulation?

[NP97 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close NP97]

Lets put it this way... you're lucky.
I had an ex who would NOT touch herself (she sucked at it... even alone). Now I could get her off with touch or oral easily, but when it came time to penetrate... well, she just couldn't get off that way. She thought it would be too dirty to touch herself while I boned her, even though it would make her cum and feel amazing.
I tried doing both, too much work.
Be thankful.

[TTBB Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TTBB]

Take it as a compliment .. i like touching myself but i have to be comfortable with a guy to do it..
if you watch porn (and i am not promoting it lol) you will see majority of the ladies touch themselves or the guys touch the clit while fucking.. it just adds another layer of arousal.

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