Fast or slow?

[moxsum Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close moxsum]

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[closed149 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close closed149]

I've always preferred slow, passionate sex over "rough, pounding sex."

It lasts longer, it feels better, it IS better!

[NP97 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close NP97]

I've always preferred slow, passionate sex over "rough, pounding sex."

It lasts longer, it feels better, it IS better!

[GTO Retired ModeratorPEGym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close GTO]

Mixing it up has always done me well - and she LOVES it!

[Waylander Retired ModeratorPEGym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Waylander]

It depends on her mood and what she wants.

[tbluraider Member Find all posts View Profile Close tbluraider]

Or just let her get on top. Works every time.

[phil88 Banned Find all posts View Profile Close phil88]

Start slowly and passionately and after shes had a few orgasms and shes really wet and really into it then I begin the pounding before I finally finish. I like getting the whole experience every time.

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

My guess would be most women would actually prefer the slower/passionate sex in general.. I Cant imagine a rough in-out- non stop pounding would be as pleasurable?

Can you cum just as easily from slow sex as from hard sex?

I like both, it depends entirely on my mood. Frequently I am just as much into hard pounding sex as he is..... but I also like it when sex lasts a nice long time, and let's face it, no guy can go hard and pounding forever since he either cums or tires out eventually. So what is most fun for both of us is usually a mix of paces.

When I am tired and it's late, or very early in the morning, or I have had an orgasm recently, then sometimes slow gentle sex is very nice. But when I am hot and horny and it has been a while, I love it when it gets rough and passionate -- hard and fast can be GREAT.

As for how easy it is to cum, that depends on how much stimulation I'm getting. Pace is less important than position in affecting that aspect. Is my G-spot and/or clit getting enough rubbing? That's what makes me cum, and pace is only part of it.

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

I like both as well. There are times when I want to make love and there are times that I want to fuck her like an animal......

[mistydawn Banned Find all posts View Profile Close mistydawn]

I need a good amount of friction, so I am a faster. Slow does nothing for me and luckily I have not been with guys that liked slow.

[redbear52 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close redbear52]

Most of the women I have known (in the Biblical sense) have liked it soft and slow at times and fast and a bit rough at others. I like both, but I usually do get at least a little rambunctious just before I come.

The trick is knowing what they want when, and just how rough is "rough".

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

To reach orgasm, yes, fast and a bit rough is usually what I need too.
I enjoy slow and gentle sex more just for the intimacy and the sensual pleasure of the activity. Sometimes slow sex is rather like a form of foreplay, a prelude to what we both know will become more intense as time passes. Other times it is more like a long, sensual indulgence that is not expected to have orgasms at the end. It all depends on the situation, and how satiated we already are.

[Shortdog Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Shortdog]

If you have a less than 5" cock the deep passionate sex may not be an option. The bigger your cock is the slower the strokes and the pounding can be brutal if taking full strokes. My X girlfriend told me that a slow grind is better when the penis is almost bottoming out? She was a freak and liked anything...she told me that her gyno" penetrated her deeper than any penis with his index finger and she was sore for weeks...I guess fast or slow, big or small, we all have the potential to make a woman orgasm??

My two cents...great post by the way!

[redbear52 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close redbear52]

Yes, that is true. If you are long enough to reach to the depth of the vaginal vault, or beyond, hard, fast and deep may not be a good idea.

There were a couple of women who couldn't tolerate full penetration with me in doggy position, and I couldn't help from getting carried away at times, so they usually liked to be on top where they could control the angle and depth of penetration and the pace.

[islander Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close islander]

Ditto. Depends on the mood but I like the slow slow pound. Slow slow pound... most all of the time lol