squirting

[Magneto Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Magneto]

is it the case that a woman can either squirt or not or is it possible for every woman to squirt but its just about knowing how to make her? I've read alot and watched alot of videos on how to make her squirt so if i push the right buttons will any woman squirt?

[islander Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close islander]

I didn't know I could until I watched some show that explained I had to keep on going thru all the contractions ( pulses). I was in my 30's when I found this out!
So yea, there are different puddles to be had on them there sheets!
She needs to be able to hang on til the end. Like 10-15 pulses. Only digital penetration or clitoris orgasm from what I can see.

If your close with her buy her a vibe. Let her explore on her own.
Once she does it, and if she truly like the orgasm, she will be hooked!

Good luck

[Flanker6 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Flanker6]

I think at least most women can but a lot of them won't if they've never done it before. They generally feel the sensation to pee so if they're not experienced you know what that can lead to. I haven't made anyone squirt just yet, however they do get incredibly wet so I can tell I'm close. Its just all about trial and error

[Magneto Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Magneto]

so if i explained to her that im gna go between her legs n eat her till she erupts and if she gets the sensation to pee that it is really a squirt building up and to stay relaxed and to let go, would that be a step in the right direction. My ultimate fantasy right now is to have my mouth squirted on :-p

[normalguy Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close normalguy]

so if i explained to her that im gna go between her legs n eat her till she erupts and if she gets the sensation to pee that it is really a squirt building up and to stay relaxed and to let go, would that be a step in the right direction. My ultimate fantasy right now is to have my mouth squirted on :-p

Only you can tell how she would react to such a proposal but if she's fine with it, then you almost won

@ islander, nice to see that we have a new woman at the gym. We need to hear your thoughts about these kinds of subjects. Welcome.

[TTBB Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TTBB]

This is an area where there is no definitive answer .It seems like a small percentage of women ejaculate, even though it's thought most have that capability(probably a belief started by men).
Some theories about why some woman ejaculate while others cannot...
1) not all women feel comfortable doing so or purposefully hold back when they're going to because it feels like they're going to pee
2) not all women have/get the kind of sexual stimulus they need to do so.
3) the size of these glands in women vary, so women with smaller glands may be limited in doing so and/or e) more women ejaculate than they think, it's just in smaller amounts that often go unnoticed.
4) not all women are getting sexually aroused enough to get there

Women don't have voluntary control when it comes to ejaculation, in other words, much like orgasm, sometimes it'll happen and sometimes it won't.
What you don't want to do is wind up where you are basically putting pressure on her to perform..I believe part of the reason why guys get caught up on the whole female squirting thing is that they see it as an aspect of female sexuality that reminds them of their own sexuality and it's not really realistic...

Female ejaculation and male ejaculation are really quite different. For men ejaculating is the baby-making part, for women it has nothing to do with the baby making. It has nothing to do with the reproductive nature of women AND it can often have nothing to do with orgasm. Some woman ejaculate before orgasm or removed from orgasm and others have ejaculation combined with orgasm. Meaning female ejaculation isn't orgasm its separate.

How a woman feels or the sensation of ejaculation can vary and doesn't always equal an orgasmic sensation. The females in porn are performer, so what you see in those vid clips is a show..That's not to say females can't feel or react like that ..But keep your expectations realistic

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

I am not a squirter. I have fabulous orgasms and have done lots of experimentation -- both with a partner and on my own, with stimulation from his fingers, my fingers, his cock, vibrators, etc. I certainly don't have any hang ups about sex or "letting go" or keeping going or any of that. I do have G-spot and have great G-spot orgasms sometimes, and I often get very wet during sex. But I still don't squirt.

It doesn't bother me that I don't squirt -- but it WOULD bother me to have a partner who was determined to try everything under the sun to somehow make me squirt. I love sexual experimentation and sex play, but I would not want it to become some personal crusade on my partner's part. Like TTBB said, it is all fine and dandy to play around trying to achieve squirting, but be careful that you don't end up putting pressure on your girl to do something that she can't. Have fun with it, but don't think that it is a reflection on you and your technique if your lady doesn't squirt.

[mistydawn Banned Find all posts View Profile Close mistydawn]

I did not start having squirts (female ejaculations) until recently. I am 43 years old. I personally never expected to experience it. I had no ambitions to. It happened when my boyfriend was using his fingers inside me. He hit a certain area inside me, kept working it and I squirted. He did not expect squirts either. It was a great surprise to the both of us. Only on our last sexual encounter did a vibrator work to bring on my squirts. The vibe was not on. He just hit that area inside and worked it til I was squirting over and over again. It was all over both of us.

It does make a mess. I bought a waterproof cover to put on the bed. It was going into the mattress. In the future I am going to bring in towels.

Everything TTBB and Batwoman said are correct. Don't put any kind of pressure on the girl to squirt. Even saying how grand you think it is puts on pressure. She wants to please you. This is not something every women can deliver on.

[Magneto Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Magneto]

thnx for the insight ladies. I do not intend to put any pressure. I have always been able to make my women climax, so ive been told. Im just fascinated by getting my head between her legs and wanted more of a mouthful of her juices if u catch my drift.

[Flanker6 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Flanker6]

thnx for the insight ladies. I do not intend to put any pressure. I have always been able to make my women climax, so ive been told. Im just fascinated by getting my head between her legs and wanted more of a mouthful of her juices if u catch my drift.

We share a common fantasy then brother . You will have to use your hands though. I haven't heard of squirting without direct G spot stimulation. I've also heard from different sources that the conditions must be right. She has to be comfortable, you should set up the room romantically if its at your place. Candles can't hurt, and some relaxing music. I've had good feedback from my lady friends that Sigur Ros on Pandora radio is a good choice. Its also up to her. If she doesn't feel like having some super powerful orgasm then that will hinder her a lot. Since you want to make the night about her, let her know and get her in the right state of mind that its her time to cum and she doesn't have the pressure of performing for you.

[VIPER Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close VIPER]

thnx for the insight ladies. I do not intend to put any pressure. I have always been able to make my women climax, so ive been told. Im just fascinated by getting my head between her legs and wanted more of a mouthful of her juices if u catch my drift.

We share a common fantasy then brother . You will have to use your hands though. I haven't heard of squirting without direct G spot stimulation. I've also heard from different sources that the conditions must be right. She has to be comfortable, you should set up the room romantically if its at your place. Candles can't hurt, and some relaxing music. I've had good feedback from my lady friends that Sigur Ros on Pandora radio is a good choice. Its also up to her. If she doesn't feel like having some super powerful orgasm then that will hinder her a lot. Since you want to make the night about her, let her know and get her in the right state of mind that its her time to cum and she doesn't have the pressure of performing for you.

Thank you guys ! it is a big relief to know that i am not the only one obsessed with cunnilingus, not a day or night goes by when i don't fantasise about having my head between a womens thighs. I was begining to worry that i had a slight problem, especially as i hear most guys only talk about receiving blow jobs. Because i dont watch porn or view x-rated magazines, i use only my imagination but i must admit i do tend to read erotic stoies both fiction and real. The book i have been reading recently is oral sex orientated and quite a few of the stories have included squirting which i must confess has certainly aroused me. Fortunately i still get aroused at the slight intimate things so i dont think that i am straying to close to the fetish scene, afterall the reason why i dont watch porn is to avoid desensitising my mind.

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What's the title of the book? Do give details ...

[Magneto Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Magneto]

well i for one hate getting a blowjob. I rather do the oral!

[danvers Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close danvers]

My wife was didn't start gushing until her 30s. So if you ladies never squirted before maybe you will in time.

I read this and often wonder if this is why:

The stimulation of the G-spot is thought to be more intense for women beyond their thirties, because of changes in tissue structure inside the vagina allowing easier access to the G-spot. Some women believe their thirties are their sexual peak because of this reason.

So as you hormones change so can your hot spots.

[VIPER Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close VIPER]

What's the title of the book? Do give details ...

"tasting her" by Rachael kramer bussel

it consists of 21 stories (fictional) by different authors