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Hey guys, first post. I thought I would share some info about me, and tell you guys a bit about me and my wife. First, I am 47 years old. I am 6.5" BPEL and 5.25" EG. In other words, I am decent but not large. And I definitely want to be bigger.
I'm just going to come out and say it. My wife is smoking hot. I may possibly have the best looking woman in the country. And yes, it is a burden! But we've been together 21 years now and she has been the best wife anyone could ever ask for. On our first night together we had amazing sex, but I had this feeling that she had been with someone larger. In fact, she was dating him when we met. It always sort of bothered me, but I blocked it out. Then recently we were talking and the topic came up. Let's just say she referred to him as "big", which was pretty deflating, since I always thought my size was decent. But she also told me he couldn't satisfy her. In her eyes, it was all about him and she got zero satisfaction. She said, it doesn't matter what you got if you don't know how to use it. Honestly, I really didn't believe it when she said it. I kept thinking about her with a bigger guy. And then...
Next thing I know a cell phone goes flying by my head.
She was pissed. I wasn't hearing her. After things settled down, she laid it on the line for me. She asked me, what do you think women want out of sex? They want to be with someone they have strong feelings for, and they want to ORGASM. There are no other reasons. So this guy was big, but since he didn't know how to make her cum, and he usually only last 2-5 minutes, it just wasn't good for her. She didn't get off. Also, because he was big it was painful, and uncomfortable. And he was also an asshole. If you saw my wife you would know what a complete moron this idiot was. She said when I came along, I was smaller but I knew what I was doing. And she came at least once, usually twice every time we did it. And...I was always very nice and complimentary to her. That stuff matters!
So to all you guys out there who want to be huge, understand that women don't really enjoy having a cucumber shoved inside them, if they aren't going to have an orgasm from it. They just want to cum, and they want to cum with someone they care about. In fact, my wife likes the fact I am not huge, because it would just hurt too much. She doesn't like painful sex and I suspect most women don't. My advice is to learn how to be a good lover FIRST, and then the size penis you have won't really matter to the right girl. And to be a good lover you really only need to think about them first, and you last.
Everything I learned about sex I learned from my wife.
I'm just going to come out and say it. My wife is smoking hot. I may possibly have the best looking woman in the country. And yes, it is a burden! But we've been together 21 years now and she has been the best wife anyone could ever ask for. On our first night together we had amazing sex, but I had this feeling that she had been with someone larger. In fact, she was dating him when we met. It always sort of bothered me, but I blocked it out. Then recently we were talking and the topic came up. Let's just say she referred to him as "big", which was pretty deflating, since I always thought my size was decent. But she also told me he couldn't satisfy her. In her eyes, it was all about him and she got zero satisfaction. She said, it doesn't matter what you got if you don't know how to use it. Honestly, I really didn't believe it when she said it. I kept thinking about her with a bigger guy. And then...
Next thing I know a cell phone goes flying by my head.
She was pissed. I wasn't hearing her. After things settled down, she laid it on the line for me. She asked me, what do you think women want out of sex? They want to be with someone they have strong feelings for, and they want to ORGASM. There are no other reasons. So this guy was big, but since he didn't know how to make her cum, and he usually only last 2-5 minutes, it just wasn't good for her. She didn't get off. Also, because he was big it was painful, and uncomfortable. And he was also an asshole. If you saw my wife you would know what a complete moron this idiot was. She said when I came along, I was smaller but I knew what I was doing. And she came at least once, usually twice every time we did it. And...I was always very nice and complimentary to her. That stuff matters!
So to all you guys out there who want to be huge, understand that women don't really enjoy having a cucumber shoved inside them, if they aren't going to have an orgasm from it. They just want to cum, and they want to cum with someone they care about. In fact, my wife likes the fact I am not huge, because it would just hurt too much. She doesn't like painful sex and I suspect most women don't. My advice is to learn how to be a good lover FIRST, and then the size penis you have won't really matter to the right girl. And to be a good lover you really only need to think about them first, and you last.
Everything I learned about sex I learned from my wife.
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