Dirty Talk

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

I think you'd be better off with some good erotic talk like i described earlier..... oooh la la....

[NP97 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close NP97]

Lol.. I'm gonna try it out, see how much banality I can get away with

.. then she'll be like "hang on.. what does 'je prefere mon ordinateur' mean?"

BLOCK GOOGLE TRANSLATE!
I'm gonna use that on my girlfriend I think. She speaks spanish fluently... which I evidentally nead to learn so I can converse with her mom. Either way, Elle ne parle pas francaise.

[spanky Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close spanky]

Oh to be a fly on the wall.... Who said romance was dead?

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

As I said, I love erotic talk.... and, truth be told, I like to be dominated too. But I don't ever want to be called a bitch or a whore or a cunt anything like that. Those of you who use those phrases during sex -- have your partners ever actually said that they liked being called those things???? Maybe they like the sex and the dirty talk enough to overlook the phrases that are demeaning and hurtful. I have a hard time believing that any woman (or at least any woman with a decent sense of self-worth) would actually like being called a bitch or a whore or a cunt, even in the heat of passion. I would be very careful in assuming that a lady likes being called things like that even if she loves the wild sex that goes with the dirty talk. Perhaps she thinks that dirty talk must include stuff like that. I don't agree.

I may want to be dominated by my lover, but I do not want to be demeaned by him.

Well, I can tell you Renee LOVED being called a bitch or a whore during sex......she ate it up. I NEVER called her a cunt.....I just don't like that word.......unless the woman, in my opinion, truly is one, then and only then will I use it.

Actually BW, when it comes to Renee, I think you hit the nail on the head....."any woman with a decent sense of self worth". I think deep down within her, she thought she was complete crap. Now that I've been out of that extremely toxic relationship for some months now, I can look back and yeah, she definitely had the classic "victim" mentality and some very SERIOUS emotional problems. Maybe that sheds some light on her liking of that "rough stuff" in the bedroom.......

[Pirate Retired AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Pirate]

I am reminded of A Fish Called Wanda and I think that I just found a way to inspire my sons to pursue learning another language.

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Personally, whispering "Inky dinky Parley vous..." has always worked pretty well for me.

[ThinJohnny Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ThinJohnny]

I'm like the others who mentiond that they like dirty talk, but not demeaning talk.

That's why I don't like most porn. If anyone knows of any porn series that are not demeaning, but are still hot, I'd be interested in hearing about them. I'm thinking about porn I could watch with my wife.

Back to dirty talk. My wife and I do a little bit of it, but I'm not entirely comfortable with it with her, for some reason. I had a girlfried who liked it though. It was mostly dirty phone talk when we weren't together. It kept things interesting while we were apart.

It was really fun with her, because she was kind of shy and unsure of herself, but when she said "I can't wait to suck your cock" she sounded very sure of herself, and anything but shy. It was a huge turn on. I'd go from totally soft to rock hard in seconds.

[mistydawn Banned Find all posts View Profile Close mistydawn]

I have liked dirty talk. If it isn't what turns you on, it can kill it. Everyone has the level they can take. I brought up dirty talk with my FWB and he said he was going to go by my talk. We gave each other permission but have not done it. I never felt it was really 'in the air'. We refer to each others bits as cock, dick and pussy.

[ThinJohnny Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ThinJohnny]

I have liked dirty talk. If it isn't what turns you on, it can kill it. Everyone has the level they can take. I brought up dirty talk with my FWB and he said he was going to go by my talk. We gave each other permission but have not done it. I never felt it was really 'in the air'. We refer to each others bits as cock, dick and pussy.

I agree that it sometimes just doesn't feel like "it's in the air". I only did it with one girl, and she started it, and started it early. I think that's what made the difference - that it was part of our relationship very early on. It feels a little weird(dirty), I think, when it's introduced later.

With the girl I did it with, it was light stuff, nothing crazy. And it just felt like a playful, harmless part of our relationship - not really a big deal. It was lots of fun though.

[spanky Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close spanky]

Depends what sort of sex you're having too. Sometimes it feels like the most natural thing in the world, others, I feel like even saying the 'f' word would bring us both crashing out of the zone.

Sorry, bit of a captain obvious comment..

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

Oh yes..... different kinds of talk for different kinds of sex, absolutely!
Every time is different (even with the same partner).
Some people never figure this out, I fear.

[darinsixpack Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close darinsixpack]

My new girlfriend seems to be hinting it, but being a bit naive I'm not sure, maybe one of you ladies can fill me in whether she's asking me to or not?

At first during deep kissing and foreplay she would tell me "talk to me" Whisper in my ear what you want" etc, etc, I would always respond with things like "I want you, I can't wait to be inside you, you're so hot, so wet, you feel so good, your sounds are making me hot. Mild stuff like that.

The other night during intercourse, she started saying "I want your cock, your cock feels to fucking good, fuck me harder"

Based on this, should I assume the door is open for more intense dirty talk? I don't want to freak her out?

[spanky Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close spanky]

Oh yes..... different kinds of talk for different kinds of sex, absolutely!
Every time is different (even with the same partner).
Some people never figure this out, I fear.

Variety is the spice of life as they say.. never was this more true than in the sack

The other night during intercourse, she started saying "I want your cock, your cock feels to fucking good, fuck me harder"

I think you know the answer to this

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

Do guys like to hear women tell them exactly what they want to do with them and to them? That rather turns the tables in terms of control..... but sometimes that can be fun, I think.....

[darinsixpack Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close darinsixpack]

Do guys like to hear women tell them exactly what they want to do with them and to them? That rather turns the tables in terms of control..... but sometimes that can be fun, I think.....

I know I do! Although sometimes it can be confusing. The last time I had intercourse with me girl she asked me to slow down a few times, so I did and she came.....then the other night I was recalling that and was working at a medium to intense pace and she yelled out "fuck me harder" so I did to a point I thought I was going pretty hard and she yelled our again "harder baby, harder" and then I went crazy on her and she came really super hard.

I love it when a woman tells me in her "bedroom" voice what she wants. I don't think the control is lost, but mutual at that point. I like no questions as to if I'm doing things right or wrong either. Just tell me and I'll be more then happy to accomodate. For me it's a huge turn on.