gettin her to blow

[Jazon2000 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Jazon2000]

hey im back again,

ive noticed for a while but my girlfriend rarely gives me head. Rarely..i can count on one hand maybe but one finger counts as in the car ...I also noticed that when she has givin me head i don't come and i have a bit of a pre e problem... y i dont cum i dont no but its always at the tip but never tips over. anyways how can i get her into it without making her uncofortable then to confront her

[Going411x7 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Going411x7]

Some women just don't like to give head. My wife is one of them. She said and still insists that she feels like I am choking her when I stick my large penis in her small mouth. So long ago I gave up on her giving me a b.j. as much as I enjoyed them. However, she has compensated for this slight shortcoming in so many other ways, sexually I mean, that no blowjobs has faded into insignificance. I think you should approach your sexual relationship with your girlfriend in the same way--and maybe future relationships as well.

Not all women enjoy giving men blowjobs. Some women try and are just not successful at it. I think it is a learned thing, and we are not all good at all skills, right?

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

Maybe try and talk about sex and what you both like and bring it up how you enjoyed it when she used to do it to you? And see if she liked it also.

[ColtAR-15 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ColtAR-15]

My wife rarely does it also, but when she does it seems to get her going though. I dont think I have ever had an O from a BJ. She only puts the glans in and has never done it long enough for me to have an O. She says her jaw gets to sore but I am far from big though. She was a virgin when I met her and says she never even seen an adult penis much less messed around with one, so she was pretty naive when it came to sex. Things have changed though!

[tatti87 Member Find all posts View Profile Close tatti87]

How do you rate yourself at personal hygiene? Boy that makes a lot of difference. I do take shower two times a day. Sometimes i will spread whipped cream on her and lick it. Then I will do the same on me & ask her to lick. Then on my penis.

Might do a trick.

[tatti87 Member Find all posts View Profile Close tatti87]

Another thing I forget to mention; none of my girlfriends ever enjoyed giving me head. They never mention it, but u can simply realize the way they do it. Why they do it?- Its a give for take theory, I give them tounge and occasionally they feel they owe me something.
You can also make her feel that "What sex mean to you is how she feels about everything. Tell her that you just want her to feel sexy. She will definitely return you a favor. Girls are heavenly creatures

[KungFuJoe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close KungFuJoe]

Aren't you having issues with not having much sex, period, with your gf? Asking how to get her to blow you is like asking why it's hard to shift into first when you have a blown tranny.

[Jazon2000 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Jazon2000]

Maybe try and talk about sex and what you both like and bring it up how you enjoyed it when she used to do it to you? And see if she liked it also.

i know she doesn't like to much especially that i dont cum on it..but i eat her out often enough for her to return the favor but she doesnt so i stopped eating her out...

[beginning Member Find all posts View Profile Close beginning]

i know she doesn't like to much especially that i dont cum on it..but i eat her out often enough for her to return the favor but she doesnt so i stopped eating her out...

As others have said, not all girls do like to do it, but there may be other underlying causes, as you said in your other thread, she has been less sexually active lately, which could lead to this.

Do you enjoy performing oral sex on her? If you do, you should still keep doing it. It is nice to have it returned, but you shouldn't think of it so much as a favour. I would hate for my girlfriend to give me oral thinking she was doing me a favour, or that she was doing it for me. Yes, I do love getting oral, but I want her to do it because SHE likes to do it, not just because I want it.

I'm not trying to say anything bad about you or anything like that by the way, this is just my opinion on it. If you are still in the same situation as before (not being sexually active), then maybe getting that sorted out will lead to it happening more.

[phil88 Banned Find all posts View Profile Close phil88]

hey im back again,

ive noticed for a while but my girlfriend rarely gives me head. Rarely..i can count on one hand maybe but one finger counts as in the car ...I also noticed that when she has givin me head i don't come and i have a bit of a pre e problem... y i dont cum i dont no but its always at the tip but never tips over. anyways how can i get her into it without making her uncofortable then to confront her

wash your dick

[phil88 Banned Find all posts View Profile Close phil88]

lol im sorry i just read the ops post and couldnt resist

[blulite Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close blulite]

@jazon, you gotta give out some good head too, plus some women just int that into giving head.... that aside,, dont worry about not cuming from a blowjob. im 29 and have never ever cum from getting head or a hand job... ever... one day maybe ill find a woman who can do both....

[frasane Member Find all posts View Profile Close frasane]

i must be one of the lucky ones,my wife loves giving me head.i've never had to put it to use yet but she says all i have to do is ask when ever i want one

[hawkua Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close hawkua]

My wife when young used to give me good blows but when married she stopped she rather came up on top saddle me for the ride

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

I love oral sex..... I find the whole experience of taking him into my mouth to be enjoyable and highly erotic. However, I learned a long time ago that both of us enjoy it more if it isn't goal oriented. If he thinks he has to try to cum every time, or I think that I need to make him cum every time, then that takes a lot of the fun out of it. Pressure is never good in sex!

What I love about blow jobs is the intimacy, the feeling of his excitement, the smooth feel of his glans against my tongue..... the warmth, the way he pulses in my mouth.... feeling his shaft with my lips.... the sounds he makes sometimes, the feeling of his hands in my hair..... the way he smells, and tastes.... it is all just really sexy and exciting. No, I was NOT talking about orgasm in any of that last sentence! I think that if people focuses more on enjoying the sensations and the process -- and not trying for an orgasm all the time -- then oral sex would be much more enjoyable. Talk with your lady about it, tell her that you love how it feels to be in her mouth, and want her to enjoy it too.... but that there is no need for an orgasm that way, and she shouldn't feel the need to give you one that way all the time.

The truth is that it is more work to make a guy cum orally than it is to just give him pleasure and enjoy the feel of him in my mouth. Do I want him to cum in my mouth sometimes? You bet! And those are the times that I'll do the extra work to get him there..... and we both love it. But other times that simply isn't the goal. Oral sex can be an awesome erotic warm-up for other things, or a great interlude between other activities. If both partners see it that way, I think oral sex happens a lot more often!