How to Become Sexually Attractive to Women

[BTBrian Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close BTBrian]

All women I know are not attracted to "buff" guys. Most say they like a little muscle but not too much. A lot also say they like the "i don't care what I look like". I assume that's a 5 oclock shadow and jeans and a t shirt or something along those lines.
That being said, I know a few guys that are quite feminine looking and get tons of girls and buff guys who get none lol.

Like everyone else is saying, confidence and being comfortable and sure of yourself is probably the most attractive thing to women.

I agree, there are two kind of good looks out there: pretty-boy good looks and rugged good lucks. Obviously not everyone fits into one category or the other but it's dumb to classify things as saying you have to be masculine to be attractive.

[vulcan Retired ModeratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close vulcan]

I agree, there are two kind of good looks out there: pretty-boy good looks and rugged good lucks. Obviously not everyone fits into one category or the other but it's dumb to classify things as saying you have to be masculine to be attractive.

Yup & a woman will be attracted to the different types at different stages of their cycle. Mental.

[buffalobill Member Find all posts View Profile Close buffalobill]

I agree, there are two kind of good looks out there: pretty-boy good looks and rugged good lucks. Obviously not everyone fits into one category or the other but it's dumb to classify things as saying you have to be masculine to be attractive.

Exactly. I don't think women even know what they like lol. But you dont have to be this "macho-testosterone fueled dude to be attractive.

[Koh Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Koh]

I think, as long as I think I'm sexually attractive, and continue working on my confidence/ interpersonal/ intrapersonal skills; I should be fine.

[Hopeful&dedicated Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hopeful&dedicated]

All women I know are not attracted to "buff" guys. Most say they like a little muscle but not too much. A lot also say they like the "i don't care what I look like". I assume that's a 5 oclock shadow and jeans and a t shirt or something along those lines.
That being said, I know a few guys that are quite feminine looking and get tons of girls and buff guys who get none lol.

Like everyone else is saying, confidence and being comfortable and sure of yourself is probably the most attractive thing to women.

Who said anything about being buff? I said strong. There is no hard and fast rule because every woman has different tastes. I think it's safe to assume that a majority are attracted to men who are more strong than weak however. I agree though, the overly muscular guy tends to only do it for a select few women.

[buffalobill Member Find all posts View Profile Close buffalobill]

Who said anything about being buff? I said strong. There is no hard and fast rule because every woman has different tastes. I think it's safe to assume that a majority are attracted to men who are more strong than weak however. I agree though, the overly muscular guy tends to only do it for a select few women.

I apologize. I just assumed that is what you meant by lift weights.
But i agree with you. Be a nice guy but stand your ground and be confident.
Another short story on how every woman is different: I went to high school with this gorgeous girl. She was a 9.5 out of 10. And she liked guys who had a little extra weight. She could have literally any guy she wanted on her looks alone but she liked chubbier guys.

[BTBrian Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close BTBrian]

I apologize. I just assumed that is what you meant by lift weights.
But i agree with you. Be a nice guy but stand your ground and be confident.
Another short story on how every woman is different: I went to high school with this gorgeous girl. She was a 9.5 out of 10. And she liked guys who had a little extra weight. She could have literally any guy she wanted on her looks alone but she liked chubbier guys.

I went to High School with a kid who was an all state athlete, great looking, ripped out of this world and a great personality to boot. And he only went after fat girls (not chunky, fat) it was the funniest thing! Thank god he did too cuz otherwise none of the hot girls would've been left for anyone else.

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I went to High School with a kid who was an all state athlete, great looking, ripped out of this world and a great personality to boot. And he only went after fat girls (not chunky, fat) it was the funniest thing! Thank god he did too cuz otherwise none of the hot girls would've been left for anyone else.

Eye of the beholder in a nutshell.

[Dance Sucka Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Dance Sucka]

I think being macho is a childish version of being masculine. Your masculinity does grow up doesn't it.

[bahamaboner71 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bahamaboner71]

Clean underwear, shave, haircut, nose hair. Clean clothes. Your shoes. Just some things I noticed women tend to focus on, maybe overlooked.

[CaptainUnderpants Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close CaptainUnderpants]

being attractive that's your lifes goal? theres gotta be more important things than that!

testosterone has to be pretty vital to masculinity though

I disagree, that is a HUGE undertaking. Just envision Bill Murry in Ground Hog Day. He had to become a great person to become attractive to Andi McDowell (SP?). Because being attractive encompassed every aspect of his life.

I say GO FOR IT !!! It is a very worthwhile and worthy goal. If fact maybe I will even adopt it as my own.

[bigmoe5067 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bigmoe5067]

i think a big big player is the relationship between alpha dominance and sensuality. your body language must be both. personally you must have a soft face. eyes that melt hearts and a warming smile, along with body language that screams " THIS IS MY FUCKING HOUSE". both of these dynamics appeal to womens naturally submissive nature. they want to be controlled, but with tenderness.

also physique. buff doesnt mean anything. you need the body of a man who looks like he can fuck for 40 minutes straight. all women are attracted to that

[hotlips4077 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close hotlips4077]

Self confidence, not over confidence and not oh poor me, but self confidence. . . no matter if you are buff or average ht/wt. . .if you have self confidence that's what will attract a woman. Obviously, physical attraction and chemistry play a role.

[Brandon85 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Brandon85]

Self confidence, not over confidence and not oh poor me, but self confidence. . . no matter if you are buff or average ht/wt. . .if you have self confidence that's what will attract a woman. Obviously, physical attraction and chemistry play a role.

I love the ladies here and the wisdom they impart.

Physical attraction and chemistry are indeed mysterious.

[Gravik Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Gravik]

if you have a giant dick, then I'd say most women would find that sexy.