how could i use my penis ?!!

[amr Member Find all posts View Profile Close amr]

if most people says its not the matter of size it how you use it , and its the motion of the sea , can any one tell me how to use your penis in a good way to please your girl ?! specially i have an average penis ''5.3 inches'' .

[someone_like_u Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close someone_like_u]

amr, as long as you can get your dick hard and you've got a girl that's into you, your length should never be an issue.

But, here's a link to some pretty great threads.

https://www.pegym.com/forums/womans-...women-sex.html

[second lensman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close second lensman]

Read the kama sutra.

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

Yes, read the threads on the link that someone_like_u noted above. There is tons of information there.

[Gspot Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Gspot]

Learning about sex and how to be better at it is great. But sex, especially intercourse and your cock are really all about unleashing your animal instincts and hormonal drive to procreate. For most of us, this drive has been supressed culturally and needs to be reawakened. Rationalist that we are, we do this through research and asking questions as you have done here. This is good but can only go so far and can even be an impedement to great sex. If during the act you are stoping to think about it too much and mechanically trying to use your love weapon, you are failing.

Whether you are in love or in lust, channeling the power to be a good intercourse lover is really simple: in that long series of passionate moments, let go and do what feels right. You should find that your hips are moving without thinking about it and you are pushing your cock into her deep, trying to reach far inside her, and pulling most of the way out before pushing back in. Typically, start slow and pay close attention to the way your cock feels inside her as she feels everything you feel (only from her physical perspective) and increase in speed and change speeds--from slow to fast, fast to slow, being somewhat unpredictable--as you get into it more.

The more attacted or passionate you are about the woman you are with, the easier this is. It took me a long time figure this out about myself, but it is true for everyone. When a woman really turns me on (again from lust, love, or even some forms of compassion) my brain shuts down everything but my desire to make love to this woman. This is danergous of course if it happens in the wrong time with someone disinterested, but when engaging in sex, allowing the lust-driven animal to overwhelm you and take over the many mating thrusts, then you can throw all the books away--so to speak. This makes it difficult to gather information about sex, intercourse, and using your dick well that you can confidently take and implement. Once you are even a little experienced in sex, knowing what it really feels like to be inside a woman and sharing each others passion, learning to be a good lover becomes much easier.

Sex should never be forced (by this I mean trying to have sex with someone who you really do not have a drive to have sex with) as this can be especially disastrous for early encounters. I was a bit old lossing my virginity but it was with a woman who drove me crazy and once our clothes started to come off, there was little thinking about it, just letting each other have it for a couple of very passionate and uncontrolled hours. All of us were nervous and uncertain our first time and even many sexual encounters after, but if you are with a woman who really turns you on then relax and let nature take control of your hips and you will both love it!

[NCGUY1972 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close NCGUY1972]

As long as your dick is hard and you've got a girl that's into you

I agree 100%

[9TeXaS0BaD3BoY Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 9TeXaS0BaD3BoY]

Your big enough to please a most women, and if she loves you, then your size wont matter anyway. There are other ways of making a woman happy in bed, it's not all about the penis. Like the other guys say, if you can get your dick hard, and keep it hard then you really don't have much to worry about. Given that she is into you. Good Luck Bro!