Perfect size

[TotalChange Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TotalChange]

I think this is the right sub-forum to post this (it's the women i'm doing this for anyway).

So as i'm going to increase my penis size i have to set the goal.

I'm doing some research about what most women prefer, and it is difficult to find a reliable sample.
Mine will be - most popular dildos. Vibrators excluded, as i myself am not able nor sadly will i be able to vibrate.

I reviewed the top websites as per google, and made a spreadsheet. I took in mind the reviewers comments, and for my purposes included only the best rated ones. The websites mostly published diameter so i just converted it to circumference.

The size actually varies. On the higher end i found comments such as "Not for beginners", "Work up to this one".
On the lower end the opposite "For newbies", "I am focused on my career so not much experience in sex" - this one made me smile - or just "thinnish".
I disregarded bi/homosexual comments as irrelevant.

The average length of a dildo: 6.9 inches.
The average circumference of a dildo: 5.42 inches.
The most popular (subjective, it's the one that had most reviews) dildo i found had the stats of length 7 inches, circumference 5.97.

[thenewdude Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close thenewdude]

In all actuality, there is no perfect size because it depends on the female and her vaginal depth, muscles and membrane. Its there a such thing as too big or too small? Of course. 7x5.5-6 is nice size penis and not enough to smack into the cervix on full penetration and not too thick to make her feel she is getting ripped open.

[Influence Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Influence]

A few months back I came across this:

Penis Size Preference Chart: SEE WHAT WOMEN WANT HERE!

And I accepted it as my standard.

But... logically speaking it can't be accurate because every woman is different.

[AlphaHanger Member Find all posts View Profile Close AlphaHanger]

Truthfully I believe there is no perfect size, because all women are gonna have a different opinion. Some women loves length, some love girth and some love both. So basically you shouldn't decide what size you want off of women statistic, you should decide base upon what you want. You have to satisfy yourself before you can satisfy anyone else.

[NCGUY1972 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close NCGUY1972]

I think its cool you did some research and created a spreadsheet! I thought this was gonna ba a " how big should i go" or "click the pic tell me where i can improve" threads, good luck pe'ing

[Thrill Drill Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Thrill Drill]

A few months back I came across this:

Penis Size Preference Chart: SEE WHAT WOMEN WANT HERE!

And I accepted it as my standard.

But... logically speaking it can't be accurate because every woman is different.

I saw that chart before starting PE. Convinced myself that it was real and set a goal of 8.5 NBPEL X 7.0 MEG. Boy was I stupid lol.

[TotalChange Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TotalChange]

In all actuality, there is no perfect size because it depends on the female and her vaginal depth, muscles and membrane. Its there a such thing as too big or too small? Of course. 7x5.5-6 is nice size penis and not enough to smack into the cervix on full penetration and not too thick to make her feel she is getting ripped open.

Valid point.
The point of this is however to find what is pleasing for most. That's what i meant by perfect. If i have a penis that 80% of women would get as a dildo (10% would prefer smaller, 10% larger) i'd be content in this area.

I see you have somewhat impressive stats yourself, thenewdude. Close to "perfect". Mind telling about your experiences with women size-wise?
And why do you plan to go larger?

A few months back I came across this:

Penis Size Preference Chart: SEE WHAT WOMEN WANT HERE!

And I accepted it as my standard.

But... logically speaking it can't be accurate because every woman is different.

It could be accurate, but
1. They provide no source from which they made the chart.
2. The site it is originally from advertises "monster-cock porn", penis enlargement.(penissizedebate.com)
3. Estimation is inaccurate. Right now if id ask 100 women to estimate my penis size it would be all over the place.
So for the your link - i call bunk.
If women actually buy and use a dildo that's a certain length and circumference, that's what i'd go for.

Truthfully I believe there is no perfect size, because all women are gonna have a different opinion. Some women loves length, some love girth and some love both. So basically you shouldn't decide what size you want off of women statistic, you should decide base upon what you want. You have to satisfy yourself before you can satisfy anyone else.

I can satisfy my penis whatever size it is. If i would live alone on a deserted island size wouldn't matter. Nor my looks or even hygiene.
But i live here, with all of these women.
The point is the extra satisfaction i get from satisfying a woman completely. Furthermore, i also expect women to keep up with my needs.

I think its cool you did some research and created a spreadsheet! I thought this was gonna ba a " how big should i go" or "click the pic tell me where i can improve" threads, good luck pe'ing

Haha, no.
Thanks for the encouragement, i appreciate it.

[IHaveAHugeNick Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close IHaveAHugeNick]

That chart pops up every few months. And each time it does, the wiser posters have to come around and convince all the guys who feel inadequate that it's a made up chart. Those numbers are unrealistic. The chart itself is made up by a company (or consortium of companies) that have enlargement to sell. Either pills, surgery or exercises (it's free here lol!). If you feel inadequate when looking at that chart, it's done it's job. Now you're supposed to go find a pill or doctor and pay a ton of money for the sketchy promise of penis enlargement....

...or you can stick around here, and do it for free, without the side effects of pills or potential (and permanent) damage of surgery.

Cole's notes version:

That Chart isn't Real!

[MrsAlphaHangerGrl Member Find all posts View Profile Close MrsAlphaHangerGrl]

It varies because just like guys penises are different sizes ,women vaginas are constructed differently. Some are wider, narrower, shallow, and deeper. So you might be the perfect size for one and too big for another. So to each their own

[BTBrian Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close BTBrian]

A few months back I came across this:

Penis Size Preference Chart: SEE WHAT WOMEN WANT HERE!

And I accepted it as my standard.

But... logically speaking it can't be accurate because every woman is different.

OP, we have members who have worked in sex shops who say that by far the most popular dildos were around 6x5.

[Padawan787 Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Padawan787]

All of these charts are a load of bullshit, disregard and ignore them, anything average will be fine

Even below average is still fine as you can hit the G-spot and grind the clit regardless of your size

All about the tekkers

[TotalChange Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TotalChange]

OP, we have members who have worked in sex shops who say that by far the most popular dildos were around 6x5.

Interesting to hear.
But, i'd stick with my own research. For two reasons:
1. It could be just cognitive bias (e.g. since their penis is closer to 6x5 it was easier for them to believe that it was the popular one).
2. Women might be inhibited. Online grants certain anonymity (e.g. it might be difficult to come into a sex shop and say "Give me the fat one", whereas online they can order what they want and later give honest feedback).

All of these charts are a load of bullshit, disregard and ignore them, anything average will be fine

Even below average is still fine as you can hit the G-spot and grind the clit regardless of your size

All about the tekkers

I think we here are not because we're satisfied with fine and average.

[TheSperminator Member of the Month Oct 12 Find all posts View Profile Close TheSperminator]

I think it's important to realize average is perfectly fine in the bedroom. It's our ego's that want that huge "she can't handle it"-dick. I'm just glad my dick stays in top shape/health by exercising it. So thanks pegym!

[Learns Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Learns]

I'm still sort of deciding at what measurement I would like to stop, I'm kind of thinking around 7.25-7.5 x 5-5.5. Do you think you would be able to upload your spreadsheet?

[someone_like_u Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close someone_like_u]

Interesting to hear.
But, i'd stick with my own research. For two reasons:
1. It could be just cognitive bias (e.g. since their penis is closer to 6x5 it was easier for them to believe that it was the popular one).
2. Women might be inhibited. Online grants certain anonymity (e.g. it might be difficult to come into a sex shop and say "Give me the fat one", whereas online they can order what they want and later give honest feedback)

Well, as a female, I agree with BTB on the most popular size being 6x5. sure, there will be those on both sides of extreme on that. My first vibrator was that size. Loved that thing, smelled like grapes Anyway, that was almost 10 years ago and every purchase since then, they've been smaller than the average 6x5.

I've never been in a sex shop and purchased an item that I didn't want. I sure hope women don't feel under scrutiny when making a purchase in a shop vs. online, I mean, they did have the courage to walk into the store. So I really don't see them being scared to make the purchase they want. I've often asked the cashier's opinion on certain items, what's the most popular, etc. You'd be surprised, it's normally always on the smaller size.