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Hey everyone,
So I've been dating this amazing girl for almost 4 years and we have great sex but I've been having trouble getting her to orgasm. Ive gotten her EXTREMELY close but she always makes me stop because the following scenarios always happen
1. the feeling is too intense-she makes me stop because she says she just cant take it anymore and it feels like its never going to end. She says shes tried to hold on and take it too see what will happen but it never comes she just stays at a 9 in her words.
2. It hits a certain point and then its gone- Or it feels really good hits a 9 and then the feeling just goes away. She says that sometimes where It feels good moves and so I should just feel around and when I do that it goes back to scenario number one where i am hitting or licking(depending on what were doing) all the right spots she gets to a 9 and that's where it stays and then she has to push me off her because it's too much.
3. When she's on top in cowgirl it's the fastest way for her to get close and she's in control to do what works for her but this gives the same result. She goes until she's at the verge(hip bucking, moaning and everything) and then she says she can't and she collapses to the bed.
So ladies if you could give me some insight to what I could possibly do to get her over the hump, because i really want to make her lose control and give her her first orgasm. I love her and what sex to be as good as it possibly can be for her. We never stress over the orgasm or make it the main goal, but I would just like to surprise her one day,you know? Ladies if you've had this situation and you have any insight and Guys if you've been in this position before some tips would be appreciated as well. I know it was long so thanks for reading.
So I've been dating this amazing girl for almost 4 years and we have great sex but I've been having trouble getting her to orgasm. Ive gotten her EXTREMELY close but she always makes me stop because the following scenarios always happen
1. the feeling is too intense-she makes me stop because she says she just cant take it anymore and it feels like its never going to end. She says shes tried to hold on and take it too see what will happen but it never comes she just stays at a 9 in her words.
2. It hits a certain point and then its gone- Or it feels really good hits a 9 and then the feeling just goes away. She says that sometimes where It feels good moves and so I should just feel around and when I do that it goes back to scenario number one where i am hitting or licking(depending on what were doing) all the right spots she gets to a 9 and that's where it stays and then she has to push me off her because it's too much.
3. When she's on top in cowgirl it's the fastest way for her to get close and she's in control to do what works for her but this gives the same result. She goes until she's at the verge(hip bucking, moaning and everything) and then she says she can't and she collapses to the bed.
So ladies if you could give me some insight to what I could possibly do to get her over the hump, because i really want to make her lose control and give her her first orgasm. I love her and what sex to be as good as it possibly can be for her. We never stress over the orgasm or make it the main goal, but I would just like to surprise her one day,you know? Ladies if you've had this situation and you have any insight and Guys if you've been in this position before some tips would be appreciated as well. I know it was long so thanks for reading.
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