my GF orgasms really fast

[eric2012 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close eric2012]

My girl friend can orgasm/cum within a minute of just nipple stimulation with my tongue and fingers..Is this normal? ive never met a girl that can go this quickly

[Padawan787 Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Padawan787]

With nipple stimulation? Are you sure she's orgasming? Maybe she's just very vocal and enjoys the stimulation.

[someone_like_u Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close someone_like_u]

Hey Eric. Have a look at this thread, and welcome to the gym

https://www.pegym.com/forums/womans-perspective/17972-boob-orgasms.html

[eric2012 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close eric2012]

Its a full blown orgasms.She told me they happen so fast its like bam bam bam and thats only the foreplay stage.She is normally exhasuted by then haha

[imac Retired Moderator Member of the Month Nov 12PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close imac]

Yes it's totaly normal, I do it with girls I see all the time. Orgasm are entirely mental, you can bring a woman to orgasm by stimulating pretty much any body part as long as you stimulate her mentaly as well.
Actually if you know how to properly stimulate her mentaly then you don't even need the physical stimulation.

[Samurai Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Samurai]

Yes it's totaly normal, I do it with girls I see all the time. Orgasm are entirely mental, you can bring a woman to orgasm by stimulating pretty much any body part as long as you stimulate her mentaly as well.
Actually if you know how to properly stimulate her mentaly then you don't even need the physical stimulation.

Any tips, imac? How to make a woman orgasm through mental stimulation. Cheers.

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

Some women have premature ejaculation too.
Just like males some get aroused faster than others, it's nothing unusual.

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

Wow. I wish I was like that!
The truth is that all women are different..... some cum easily, some don't. Yes, mental stimulation is ALWAYS important with women (at least I believe that to be true) but many of us need a fair bit of physical stimulation too. The key to successes is to learn your partner's mind and body, communicate well, and be patient.

There is nothing wrong with a woman who doesn't cum quickly (just as there is nothing wrong with a women who does cum quickly). Go into sexual encounters with an open mind and try not to judge your partner (or yourself) based on how fast she cums. Take pleasure in the process!

And for the record: I don't believe for a second that anyone could make me cum by mental stimulation alone. I am quite experienced, know my body extremely well, and I can tell you that at least some physical stimulation is always necessary.

[imac Retired Moderator Member of the Month Nov 12PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close imac]

Any tips, imac? How to make a woman orgasm through mental stimulation. Cheers.

It’s really all about your voice and your confidence in using it. You need a partner that trusts and respects you, the higher her self esteem the better and you need to be able to lead.
You lead the mind and let the body follow.

There’s mental linking. Basically you're telling her to feel one thing while you're stimulating her in some other way.
For example. lightly stimulating her nipple while instructing her to feel you stroking her clit or stroking her clit while telling her to feel the pleasure spread throughout her whole body.

There’s double binds. Which is basically where you ask a question and give two possible answers but both answers are positive so it doesn’t matter what she chooses you get the outcome you want, which is to make her feel good.
For example. When going down on her you can say something to the effects of “Does the pleasure you feel get more intense for you if I suck your clit or if I gently blow on it” and it doesn’t matter what her answer is because the result is her pleasure becomes more intense. So you continue it, you can say “ As you breath in and out does the pleasure spread through your whole body or does it gather and intensify in one place” you get the idea.

The yes ladder. Which is a sales technique but it’s equally handy in the bedroom.
Basically what you’re doing is asking a series of questions that you already know the answer to be yes in order to escalate her sexual arousal.
For example.
“Does this feel good baby?” - “yes”
“You love being fucked by me don’t you?” - “yes”
“Being a naughty girl make you really fucking horny doesn’t it baby?” - “yess”
And so on and so forth, leading her up the ladder.

Phone sex. I think this is underused and underappreciated, probably because people associate phone sex with getting the man off. You see it all the time in the TV a man calls his girl up and says “what you wearing baby”.
The point is to make it all about her. Her arousal, Her fantasies, getting Her off.
The good thing is that you can get away with a lot more over the phone than you can in person because it all OK it’s only fantasy.
Start of slow and gradually raise the temperature till it’s down right explicit.
Narrate a fantasy to her using a lot of layer sensory rich detailed language or if you know one of her fantasies all the better.
When you get really good at that then you can you can tell her to hold the phone to her ear with one hand and put the other behind her head so she can’t touch herself and go through the same process as if she could touch herself and you may just give her a surprise she wasn’t expecting.

If you’re going to use any of these tips then you have to do it with absolute confidence and conviction, you’ve got to be believable. If you’re not then she won't take you seriously and if she doesn’t take you seriously then she won’t let you lead her any where.

It’s a lot like dancing in a way. The man leads and the woman follows but the man only leads because the woman lets him because she trusts and respects him.

[imac Retired Moderator Member of the Month Nov 12PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close imac]

Wow. I wish I was like that!
The truth is that all women are different..... some cum easily, some don't. Yes, mental stimulation is ALWAYS important with women (at least I believe that to be true) but many of us need a fair bit of physical stimulation too. The key to successes is to learn your partner's mind and body, communicate well, and be patient.

There is nothing wrong with a woman who doesn't cum quickly (just as there is nothing wrong with a women who does cum quickly). Go into sexual encounters with an open mind and try not to judge your partner (or yourself) based on how fast she cums. Take pleasure in the process!

And for the record: I don't believe for a second that anyone could make me cum by mental stimulation alone. I am quite experienced, know my body extremely well, and I can tell you that at least some physical stimulation is always necessary.

I understand the way you feel. I don’t think I’ve ever met a woman that would believe she could have an orgasm from mental stimulation alone if I just came out and told her it was possible.

I guess it all come down to belief. Our beliefs define us, they shape our decisions, our actions but sometimes they can also limit us.

Some women have never had an orgasm, and believe they never will.

Some women can cum through clit stimulation but have never had a vaginal orgasm, and believe that they just can’t have one.

Most women have never ejaculated and believe you have to be born one of the lucky ones in order to do so.

The above are just a couple examples of self limiting beliefs. But the fact is that as long as a woman is physically and mentally healthy she can experience all of those. A purely mental orgasm is just another one to add to the list.

If I’m going to get a girl to orgasm with mental stimulation alone the very last thing I’ll do is tell her what I’m going to do, for the very simple reason that like you she won’t believe me. I’ll only create resistance to it and it won’t happen.
That’s why if I’m going to do it I always make it a pleasant surprise, because afterward she has no choice but to believe it’s possible. The mind is the most powerful erogenous zone.

Here's a couple of articles on the subject and a short video.

How women think there way to orgasm

Scientists study mental orgasms through MRI

Drs Mental orgasm (video)