Women- Will this turn you on?

[camaro Senior Member Member of the month June 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close camaro]

Hello,

If someone said or did something inappropriate to you, and i verbally or physically chastised him for it, would i be more attractive to you? Also do you secretly desire assertive men, who don't take the piss and tune up people who get in their way?

Thanks.

[islander Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close islander]

Depends on age. When I was 25 or less yes let my guy handle it. Over that no, let me handle it

[islander Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close islander]

Ps. No it's not a turn in

[imac Retired Moderator Member of the Month Nov 12PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close imac]

It's no secret that women like assertive men. Not sure what you mean when you say "tune someone up" but if it's what I think then I would suggest you not confuse assertiveness with aggressiveness.

[camaro Senior Member Member of the month June 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close camaro]

You know throw a punch or two.Islander- why isn't it a turn on?

Thanks

[islander Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close islander]

There is nothing sexier than a man that can stand up, look at a another guy getting out of control and the other guy turning around and walking away.
I don't know you or anything about you but I can attest to having had the bad asses of men on my side and never having to see an arm raised.
It what the man exudes that fends off aggressive weak characters. It's not a turn on if a guy has to fight to solve a disturbance.

[Abomb123 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Abomb123]

I understand the none fighting thing. I always see alcohol, weak vocabularies and slow minds cause fights when just plain speaking can resolve an issue. But a guy merely standing up and looking at another guy and him walking away is VERY rare and usually happens only in movies. I have seen it happen but it is about as rare as someone spitting in another's face and him just walking away.

[kelthuzad1986 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close kelthuzad1986]

I agree with islander. Fists shouldn't be used. Civilized people solve their disagreements by talking.

[camaro Senior Member Member of the month June 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close camaro]

Yes but there are certain times when they go waaay over the line and say rather nasty things about parents etc when i have had to throw one to the jaw and send them to the ground.

No one will mess with you after one or two incidents like this, in my experience.

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Punching someone over being called a name or an insult makes one a weak minded inmature punk who desperately needs a good ass kicking and will get it sooner or later.

[CaptainJohnson Retired ModeratorSenior MemberPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CaptainJohnson]

Insults are meaningless. The only time a man should get physical is to protect someone or yourself. I have been in both situations many times. Walking in the middle of the street in my city, I have seen domestic violence get pretty bad. Every time this happens, I find the nearest person and make them call the cops. I walk up and ask what is going on and try and solve it without a fight. Usually, when I walk up, another guy or two will man up and do the same. This rarely leads to a fight, and the guy wanders off only to meet a cop car in about a block. One time it did lead to a fight. It was three on one and ended very quickly. The cops came and sorted the rest out.

Never be the man to throw the first punch unless it is a 100% fact a fight is about to start. Use your words, and learn to take control of a situation, diffusing it: not escalating it with violence.

[camaro Senior Member Member of the month June 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close camaro]

In my country, there are no cops around.You either deal with it yourself or get dealt with.People go overboard when they try something physical.I have never cared for uttered words.However, when they try something physical you better end it on your terms fast.Otherwise.....things get bad very fast for you.

For instance, when i was out on a date when i was younger, i was walking behind her in a crowded bus station.One man coming from the opposite direction thought about doing something, i could see it in the eyes ( She was very beautiful ).As he readied himself to grope her as she walked by, i sprung into action.Two steps forward, and i threw a punch with all my might even as he put his hands out.I aimed for the nose, but he moved and my fist pushed his eye in.I grabbed her and got out of there, but i doubt anyone who didn't see what i did could understand why i acted to prevent it.

If he did grope her and i said " Why did you..." i would have been socked and no one would have cared.Just the way it works.

[pterodactyl Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close pterodactyl]

Insults are meaningless. The only time a man should get physical is to protect someone or yourself. I have been in both situations many times. Walking in the middle of the street in my city, I have seen domestic violence get pretty bad. Every time this happens, I find the nearest person and make them call the cops. I walk up and ask what is going on and try and solve it without a fight. Usually, when I walk up, another guy or two will man up and do the same. This rarely leads to a fight, and the guy wanders off only to meet a cop car in about a block. One time it did lead to a fight. It was three on one and ended very quickly. The cops came and sorted the rest out.

Never be the man to throw the first punch unless it is a 100% fact a fight is about to start. Use your words, and learn to take control of a situation, diffusing it: not escalating it with violence.

Not to mention the man who throws the first punch can be charged with assault. Evn if the cop agrees that the punchee deserved it. No fun...

[Toadstool Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Toadstool]

Once in awhile, girls get groped at the bar I work at. It doesn't happen too often, probably because guys jump on getting physical when it happens.

When I see a girl getting sexually harassed, I don't put on my professional face. I'm right into aggressive mode. I don't ask the guy to leave, I make him do it. I have zero tolerance for that shit. And I'm not the only one. Just the other week, some guy grabbed a girl's ass and her friend punched the guy out. The guy who did the punching was allowed to stay, even though he committed an assault while the ass-grabber was forced to leave with a bleeding nose.

I'm not sure how much of a turn on it is to girls, but I think violence is rarely a positive to women. It has implications of how you handle conflict ...with her. If you're the kind of guy who jumps at the opportunity to throw a punch, then maybe that's how you'd treat her, too.

[islander Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close islander]

OP
I'm sorry for the conditions where you are at. Seems hard to get away from huh. Just try your best to avoid the areas where things can go wrong as best you can. Good luck.