Vibrators

[old reliabel Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close old reliabel]

Would like to ask some of the girls. Thinking about getting a Vibrator or Dildo for my wife. She never used one and is kinda straight laced. If I do, can somebody suggest one for me?. Man she is going too think I really Lost my mind.Just trying too spruce up the love life. Ps. {not too big}. Thanks.

[second lensman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close second lensman]

Lelo.

[someone_like_u Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close someone_like_u]

I'd go with a vibrator. My favorite is a small g spot vibrator. I've mentioned it on a thread but for the life of me, can't find it, argh! It's a jelly/silicone sleeved vibe with a small bend on the end(hence g spot). It has a dial on the end to turn up or down the speed. It's not but a few inches long and girth, I'd say a little bigger than my hubby's thumb. I think it was around $20-$25 at a local shop. I'll try to find my old post where it shows a picture and I think gives dimensions.

Are you purchasing online or going into a shop? If you are going the shop route, it might be a good idea to ask what sells the best. That's why I bought my g spot vibe. I would have never considered it had she not recommended it and it's now my favorite.

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

I love vibes! Both G-spot ones (which are larger and more complicated) and smaller ones meant for clitoral use. Both are great fun.
I suggest going to a reputable online sex toy sales site (like Adam and Eve or Eden Fantasies) and looking at various options. These sites have user reviews that are very helpful.

Many vibrators today come in wild colors, attractive shapes, and do not at all look like penises. I think that for a beginner (especially a woman who might feel shy about it) getting one of these non-threatening toys is probably a good first step.

Good luck!

[epoch Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close epoch]

My wife was (and still is, somewhat) inexperienced with toys... our first experience was cock ring that had a small bullet vibrator on it that came in a pack of condoms. It was a LOT easier for her to accept this as a "starter" because it went on my unit and didn't put any pressure on her to "use a toy". After she found out that it felt good and could be fun, she was much more open to trying other things. BTW, the vibrating cock ring is still a favorite for her.

FWIW, starting with a toy for "you" may make her feel more open and less pressured as well. Just a suggestion...

[Sttunnner Member Find all posts View Profile Close Sttunnner]

I was going to say bullet vibe too. Or if she's shy to try it with you get a waterproof sponge type for the shower

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Hitachi magic wand; she won't need you anymore!!! Gives great back massages as well. TRUST ME!

[imac Retired Moderator Member of the Month Nov 12PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close imac]

Hitachi magic wand; she won't need you anymore!!! Gives great back massages as well. TRUST ME!

Yep, Magic wands can be used for so much more than just casting magic spells.

[CaptainJohnson Retired ModeratorSenior MemberPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CaptainJohnson]

^Seconded.

Also, disposable trojan multi-speed cock-ring vibrators are great for co-op fun.

EDIT: Ah imac you ninja poster! I meant to "second" CUSP, but you raise an excellent argument too

[old reliabel Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close old reliabel]

Thank you all very much think I will go to online store Adam and Eve. But I think I will stay away from the wand if you no what I mean. I will get the cock ring and g spot vibrator. Thanks again.