My first question to the men of PE

[Sttunnner Member Find all posts View Profile Close Sttunnner]

When your women is giving u a bj. Do you prefer that she look at you? I have seen and read that this turns some men on. I don't look at my hubby when I'm down town because it makes ME uncomfortable to be stared at ( I'm actually super shy, like social disorder shy, in person) and I always assumed that it might make HIM uncomfortable to be stared at. So I'm wondering. Is it a turn on?

[turkeysandwich Member Find all posts View Profile Close turkeysandwich]

I personally thing it's a HUGE turn on when a girl is looking at me while she's giving me a be. Idk what it is about it but I love it. Actually I always find myself telling her to look at me

[Led_Dikkin Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Led_Dikkin]

Eye contact is so hot!! Even during regular sex, I love to look in to her eyes. But eye contact during a bj can get me raging!! I'm getting bothered just thinking about it. My wife used to stop if she caught me watching and always positioned herself so she couldn't be seen. She also likes the lights off, so we compromise every now and then.

[delts Member Find all posts View Profile Close delts]

its got to be confident eye contact though, dirty, fuck me eyes. Then its HOT.

not awkward rabbit in the headlight eyes :/

[NCC707 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close NCC707]

Eye contact is a big plus. It doesn't have to be a long gaze, if the giver is uncomfortable. A glance every now and again at the least.

[Padawan787 Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Padawan787]

Yes, eye contact is important.

[CaptainJohnson Retired ModeratorSenior MemberPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CaptainJohnson]

Huge turn on. It makes it incredibly intimate. That might sound odd, to say about a bj, but a bj with no eye contact is like sex with no passion: it can be technically flawless, but without that connection it lacks a certain spark.

[9TeXaS0BaD3BoY Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 9TeXaS0BaD3BoY]

don't even care. I can see how looking in her eyes would give you that xtra feelin but as long as she knows what shes doing I don't really care. But when ur gaggin, you shouldn't have time to look up, lol....

[Nachos87 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Nachos87]

A turn on, definitely.

[streetbob Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close streetbob]

Eyes are the window to the soul so yes, it's a very important part of being close.

[Nihilanth Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Nihilanth]

Been in this situation only a few times.... I can't really look at her because if upper side of glans is licked or otherwise stimulated, it's.... overwhelming. And because it's a blowjob, I can't relax enough, because.... Young boys have sometimes fear from vagina because they think it has teeth. Mouth DO have teeth, so... Good enough reason.

[Pirate Retired AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Pirate]

I enjoy the eye contact.
She doesn't need to stare at me but checking in from time to time is very hot!

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

For me it never really matters that much, I like a glance up to me once in a while but what gets me hotter than eye contact is when she makes noises while shes down on me as if it turns her on, that beats eye contact for me.

[Toadstool Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Toadstool]

I like her looking up at me... in a certain kind of way. I don't want her staring at me either, but I do want her making doe eyes to me. She's getting me off either her mouth and I want to look at her beautiful face. So make a beautiful face. Tell him things like you're his sex kitten and you want to get him off, but say it only using your eyes.
That's what I find hot.

Otherwise, whatever

[ninja_42 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ninja_42]

Yes, definitely a huge turn on... especially when getting a blowjob.
If your shy just try to work up to it.
Also just ask him how he feels about it.
(Maybe ask him after you give him a blowjob with eye-contact... that way he can remember how incredibly hot it is...)