Just do what feels good for you and her. Ask her to tell you what feels good and what doesn't feel so good. In 'the movies', the approach often seems to be: "Strike Force Tongue: ATTAAACKKKK!!! Strike Force Fingers: ATTTAAAACCKK!!!". Doesn't usually get the best results. You'll be surprised what you can achieve with the lightest touch.
To be honest with you, I gained ALOT of my pussy eating skills from watching porn...........not advocating you follow this learning method but it taught me ALOT over the years and now I've got a gf who goes absolutely CRAZY when I eat her pussy out..........I mean, so crazy that she ends up smashing my face into her pussy with her leg because she's having one orgasm after another.......it also helps that she has a very sensitive clit too.......
Well I've noticed that the lesbian pornos are better for gaining pussy eating skills. The lesbians really take their time with it, ya know?
Don't do any research at all just go down and experiment it's really something you need to learn through experience its not like the girl is going to stop you and ask if you're experienced or kick you off after 5 secs if she's not having an orgasm. you can always do things like have them put their hand on your head and guide you some if you want though you can also directly ask a girl to tell you how she likes it or rather to just give you alot of feedback, this doesn't make you look like you are clueless it just makes it look like you want to figure out what she specifically likes which makes sense because there is alot of variation from one girl to the next (which is why most sex advice is bs)
I think that I'll do this. This is a great idea! I'll just have her put her hands on my head and guide my tongue. I'm only asking this question because the one time I actually did try it, I failed miserably. The pussy looks like it's so easy to pleasure, but it's almost like hacking a fucking computer it's no complicated. I just don't want to fuck it up again.
Just do what feels good for you and her. Ask her to tell you what feels good and what doesn't feel so good. In 'the movies', the approach often seems to be: "Strike Force Tongue: ATTAAACKKKK!!! Strike Force Fingers: ATTTAAAACCKK!!!". Doesn't usually get the best results. You'll be surprised what you can achieve with the lightest touch.
Yeah women have told me to lick pussy really slowly. They seem to like that.
Yeah women have told me to lick pussy really slowly. They seem to like that.
Very light, quick flicks with the tip of your tongue can be good too. The key thing is variety. Bear in mind that the clitoris is made of basically the same tissue as the head of your cock. Now I dunno about you but I find blowjobs are best when my GF spends a minute licking along the underside, a minute taking the whole head in her mouth, a minute stroking the head with her hand, and so on..basically, the most important thing is variety. I think it's much the same with women. Suck her clit into your mouth for a bit, then flick it lightly with your tongue, then lap at it like a cat drinking, then lick up and down her slit, then come up for air (kiss her as well if she's into that, women IME *love* to taste themselves on you) while stroking her pussy inside...it's all about mixing it up.
Well I've noticed that the lesbian pornos are better for gaining pussy eating skills. The lesbians really take their time with it, ya know?
Those girls aren't lesbians, they're actresses who make a living pretending to have orgasms. Seriously, trying to improve your sex techniques by watching porn is like trying to learn a martial art by watching Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon.
If you want to be good at any kind of sex, don't watch videos - listen to your partner and feel how she responds. That's the only way.
Very light, quick flicks with the tip of your tongue can be good too. The key thing is variety. Bear in mind that the clitoris is made of basically the same tissue as the head of your cock. Now I dunno about you but I find blowjobs are best when my GF spends a minute licking along the underside, a minute taking the whole head in her mouth, a minute stroking the head with her hand, and so on..basically, the most important thing is variety. I think it's much the same with women. Suck her clit into your mouth for a bit, then flick it lightly with your tongue, then lap at it like a cat drinking, then lick up and down her slit, then come up for air (kiss her as well if she's into that, women IME *love* to taste themselves on you) while stroking her pussy inside...it's all about mixing it up.
Yeah, this seems like pretty good advice here. Also, I would like to ask how hard should I suck the clit? I've heard a couple of girls tell me that sucking their clits hard really hurts and that I should do it gently. Also, is it a good idea to suck the clit and lick it at the same time?
lol, I couldn't really relate to your reference when you told me to basically think of my dick, and how good it feels when a girl sucks it. After all, I have yet to ever have a woman give me good head. The one time I did get head, the woman had no clue what she was doing and the woman treated my cock like she was eating a corn on the cob. Her teeth scraped my cock and it just hurt. lol, I hope to get good head in the future though.
Those girls aren't lesbians, they're actresses who make a living pretending to have orgasms. Seriously, trying to improve your sex techniques by watching porn is like trying to learn a martial art by watching Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon.
If you want to be good at any kind of sex, don't watch videos - listen to your partner and feel how she responds. That's the only way.
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