Do Women Truly Like The Look Of a Penis/balls?

[SeemsLegit Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SeemsLegit]

Perhaps one of those super obvious you're an idiot posts, but I honestly wonder sometimes if women get turned on by seeing a penis the same way that a man would get turned on by seeing a vagina or boobs, or if they just pretend it's important or that they care for the sake of their man. Also, if size is a huge factor in the attractiveness of a penis, or if it's more of a general look sort of thing and women prefer a nice smooth looking smaller one.

It's tough not to contradict myself just writing this, but I see my dick/junk and just don't understand what it is a woman finds attractive about it, if it's the look, or the thought of the pleasure it can bring inside you, or if it's wanting to suck on it for fun, etc. Granted if I see boobs it would be hard to explain why they're so amazing, but yea...just wondering.

Too bad there isn't a female version of PEgym for questions like this (that I know of), but I'll take whatever responses I can get. Thanks in advance.

[CLOSEDDennyA Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close CLOSEDDennyA]

In my life I have known 4 women, none I dated and one was a Lesbian, who said they were fascinated/infatuated with penises. One was an artist and did penis sculptures, some were huge! Anyway, all the women I've been with seem to accept it for what it is and like what it can do for them but wouldn't want a pic of it in their wallet. My wife loves my dick because it's attached to me, named it but I think she thinks it's scary looking...I think it's handsome as far as dicks go but I'm biased...

Oh yeah, and forget about the balls!

[SeemsLegit Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SeemsLegit]

I wouldn't want a girlfriends boobs in my wallet either lol, but I do love to see them/touch them. Thanks for the quick response.

[Aston Martini Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Aston Martini]

If a woman is turned off by male sexual anatomy I believe that's a result of either a lack of healthy sexual development or she's been damaged in some way. The former is, in fact, a form of the latter. This would be particularly true if she's turned off by her partner's body.

As for fantasizing specifically about cocks, that's more personal. Some women like porn and some don't.

On the whole, women are substantially more aroused by sex and sexuality that they connect with emotionally. That's why women rarely stand on street corners with signs around their necks that read: "Will Work For Sex!". It's also why many women enjoy watching porn with their guy, but watch it alone less frequently, rarely, or not at all.

Your identity as a man is directly tied into your relationship with your penis, including issues related to paternity. You do not want insecurities about your identity or how you define yourself as a man. If you're involved with a woman who does not openly love that part of your body, I suggest you leave her.

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if they just pretend it's important or that they care for the sake of their man. Also, if size is a huge factor in the attractiveness of a penis, or if it's more of a general look sort of thing and women prefer a nice smooth looking smaller one.

In the end it comes down to reproduction her son that has a larger penis will be able to get laid more often You need to be sexually confident for that and having a larger penis gives that, he will have children of his own and so on.

[Frog Senior Member Member of the Month March 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close Frog]

If a woman is turned off by male sexual anatomy I believe that's a result of either a lack of healthy sexual development or she's been damaged in some way. The former is, in fact, a form of the latter. This would be particularly true if she's turned off by her partner's body.

As for fantasizing specifically about cocks, that's more personal. Some women like porn and some don't.

On the whole, women are substantially more aroused by sex and sexuality that they connect with emotionally. That's why women rarely stand on street corners with signs around their necks that read: "Will Work For Sex!". It's also why many women enjoy watching porn with their guy, but watch it alone less frequently, rarely, or not at all.

Your identity as a man is directly tied into your relationship with your penis, including issues related to paternity. You do not want insecurities about your identity or how you define yourself as a man. If you're involved with a woman who does not openly love that part of your body, I suggest you leave her.

Interesting concepts I am not familiar with, but I find most of you your statements valid. I agree a woman should find her mate mentally and physically arousing for a healthy relationship. A woman should also recognize and respect the importance sex and physical interaction plays in a mans mind. No different that a man should find his mate mentally and physically attractive.

IMO, the difference comes down to one thing, what sex and worship of the penis is to man, mental intimacy is to a woman. If a woman is with with a man who does not openly respect and nurture her need of mental intimacy she should leave him. Obviously this is a extreme statement used just to get my point across of the differences.

The thread question:
I am personally fascinated by the male body. Every aspect of it! There is not a lesbian bone in my body. I find just the act of having my head on my partners stomach, looking towards his feet and watching him grow with arousal a VERY tantalizing and erotic thing. To this day the concept of looking at a friendly flaccid penis turn into rock hard, vein covered tool of pleasure is almost foreplay enough for me.

So the answer to your question YES, I truly LOVE the look of penis and balls.

[CLOSEDDennyA Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close CLOSEDDennyA]

Interesting concepts I am not familiar with, but I find most of you your statements valid. I agree a woman should find her mate mentally and physically arousing for a healthy relationship. A woman should also recognize and respect the importance sex and physical interaction plays in a mans mind. No different that a man should find his mate mentally and physically attractive.

IMO, the difference comes down to one thing, what sex and worship of the penis is to man, mental intimacy is to a woman. If a woman is with with a man who does not openly respect and nurture her need of mental intimacy she should leave him. Obviously this is a extreme statement used just to get my point across of the differences.

The thread question:
I am personally fascinated my the male body. Every aspect of it! There is not a lesbian bone in my body. I find just the act of having my head on my partners stomach, looking towards his feet and watching him grow with arousal a VERY tantalizing and erotic thing. To this day the concept of looking at a friendly flaccid penis turn into rock hard, vein covered tool of pleasure is almost foreplay enough for me.

So the answer to your question YES, I truly LOVE the look of penis and balls. FYI.....A woman must be secure in her own sexuality to say this!

I actually got hard reading your response...

[Boosie Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Boosie]

I don't know but i know that my gf like to play with my balls while we watch movies in the couch and stuff haha, Good shit.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Interesting concepts I am not familiar with, but I find most of you your statements valid. I agree a woman should find her mate mentally and physically arousing for a healthy relationship. A woman should also recognize and respect the importance sex and physical interaction plays in a mans mind. No different that a man should find his mate mentally and physically attractive.

IMO, the difference comes down to one thing, what sex and worship of the penis is to man, mental intimacy is to a woman. If a woman is with with a man who does not openly respect and nurture her need of mental intimacy she should leave him. Obviously this is a extreme statement used just to get my point across of the differences.

The thread question:
I am personally fascinated my the male body. Every aspect of it! There is not a lesbian bone in my body. I find just the act of having my head on my partners stomach, looking towards his feet and watching him grow with arousal a VERY tantalizing and erotic thing. To this day the concept of looking at a friendly flaccid penis turn into rock hard, vein covered tool of pleasure is almost foreplay enough for me.

So the answer to your question YES, I truly LOVE the look of penis and balls. FYI.....A woman must be secure in her own sexuality to say this!

Okay I'll go get some coffee; way too early for this. Oh my!

[DaddyDick Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close DaddyDick]

Interesting concepts I am not familiar with, but I find most of you your statements valid. I agree a woman should find her mate mentally and physically arousing for a healthy relationship. A woman should also recognize and respect the importance sex and physical interaction plays in a mans mind. No different that a man should find his mate mentally and physically attractive.

IMO, the difference comes down to one thing, what sex and worship of the penis is to man, mental intimacy is to a woman. If a woman is with with a man who does not openly respect and nurture her need of mental intimacy she should leave him. Obviously this is a extreme statement used just to get my point across of the differences.

The thread question:
I am personally fascinated my the male body. Every aspect of it! There is not a lesbian bone in my body. I find just the act of having my head on my partners stomach, looking towards his feet and watching him grow with arousal a VERY tantalizing and erotic thing. To this day the concept of looking at a friendly flaccid penis turn into rock hard, vein covered tool of pleasure is almost foreplay enough for me.

So the answer to your question YES, I truly LOVE the look of penis and balls. FYI.....A woman must be secure in her own sexuality to say this!

Wow frog72! That is a hot story. Did you mean for it to be hot?

[draggin Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close draggin]

I am not a women, but from what I have heard from women ... the general consensus is ... They don't get turned on by just looking at a penis and balls. And No! Size really doesn't matter.

Ofcourse there are exceptions, but women mostly get turned on by confidence.

[ino Senior Member Member of the Month June 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close ino]

This is a fun question. With women I have never had an erotic experience with, (a few friends from school and sisters and female relatives who obviously I never had such a thing with) this topic has in fact been brought up in different occassions; typically they are uniformed saying that when they are naturally horny (like hormonal), they get turned on by the view of a penis. But if not being in a horny mood, they find that from an esthetic point of view the male genitals are not a pleasant sight to the eye.

I have heard this so many times before, so ironically it seems that men are those who perceive the penis as some kind of art.

Yes, chances are that your girlfriend tells you that your penis looks great, even if she doesn't think so. She does it as not to break your ego. Just like you tell her that she looks great with that totally wrong hair colour from a bottle, or when she wears pants that absolutely don't fit her.

[draggin Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close draggin]

Wow frog72! That is a hot story. Did you mean for it to be hot?

WOW! I now consider Frog72's husband the luckiest man on earth.

[Ziege Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Ziege]

IMO, the difference comes down to one thing, what sex and worship of the penis is to man, mental intimacy is to a woman. If a woman is with with a man who does not openly respect and nurture her need of mental intimacy she should leave him. Obviously this is a extreme statement used just to get my point across of the differences.

Would you mind explaining exactly what you mean by "mental intimacy"? Your statement caught my eye for personal reasons.

[SeemsLegit Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SeemsLegit]

All great input. Thanks a lot for the responses, I guess larger size matters in a sense of me getting confidence which a woman will find attractive, and as long as they find a penis attractive or fun to play with when in the mood I'm happy. Don't expect them to just see one and admire it. That was a very hot story too about the watching it go from flaccid to hard