cuckold?

[draggin Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close draggin]

While cuckolding certainly falls into the fetish category (specifically, masochism) of sex and may be an abhorrent sexual practice to many people; I do not agree that it is a mental health issue. As I have said before, the erotic mind wants what it wants and it is seldom "politically correct". What turns one person on may do nothing for another and vice versa so who are we to assess and judge another's sexual proclivities and preferences?

If there is one area that two or more consenting and sound-minded adults should be allowed to be explore freely; it is their personal sexual pleasure and eroticism.

OMG!! I can't believe it!! TWP it finally happened ... I disagree with you.

I am not familiar with the term "cuckold". I had to google it. It is, hands down, a mental sexual sickness. Here's why:

The bond between a husband and wife is sacred. Sex between a loving and loyal couple is what makes it special. Priceless really. Cuckolding destroy's this sanctity of union between a man and woman. Cuckolding is about a sexually sick mind trying to get off. Call it fantasy or not, I don't care. Nothing good, long-term, will come out of some dude fucking another man's wife so he can jerk off to it. It will 100% of the time eventually lead to regret, feelings of insecurity, and pain.

I understand that "consenting" adults could agree to be sick together. But sick is sick, regardless of how many "consenting" people there are. This is exactly the kind of shit that is deteriorating family values in the world today. I am especially scared that someone as smart and awesome as you, TPW, are "open" and "accepting" of this stuff. I am worried the world is a tipping point right now. You see, blatant acceptance of sick behavior, as adults, means we are raising an entire generation of misguided and unhealthy children. And our children IS our future. If unnatural behavior that contributes to the destruction of global humanity isn't considered a disease or sickness, then I don't know what is.

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Well at my age as long as somebody is getting something somewhere I'm a happy guy. By the way who thinks up these threads?

[TPW Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close TPW]

OMG!! I can't believe it!! TWP it finally happened ... I disagree with you.

I am not familiar with the term "cuckold". I had to google it. It is, hands down, a mental sexual sickness. Here's why:

The bond between a husband and wife is sacred. Sex between a loving and loyal couple is what makes it special. Priceless really. Cuckolding destroy's this sanctity of union between a man and woman. Cuckolding is about a sexually sick mind trying to get off. Call it fantasy or not, I don't care. Nothing good, long-term, will come out of some dude fucking another man's wife so he can jerk off to it. It will 100% of the time eventually lead to regret, feelings of insecurity, and pain.

I understand that "consenting" adults could agree to be sick together. But sick is sick, regardless of how many "consenting" people there are. This is exactly the kind of shit that is deteriorating family values in the world today. I am especially scared that someone as smart and awesome as you, TPW, are "open" and "accepting" of this stuff. I am worried the world is a tipping point right now. You see, blatant acceptance of sick behavior, as adults, means we are raising an entire generation of misguided and unhealthy children. And our children IS our future. If unnatural behavior that contributes to the destruction of global humanity isn't considered a disease or sickness, then I don't know what is.

Draggin,

1) At no time did I state that I was personally "open" to this particular sexual fetish.

2) While you may believe that cuckolding is sexually sick; the professional field of mental health does not.

3) Yes, you are absolutely correct; I do not cast any judgments on the sexual preferences and practices of consenting and able-minded adults; whether it is cuckolding, BDSM or oral sex fantasies.

4) BTW...Cuckolding is not a new sexual practice; in fact it has been around for centuries. Considering that the institution of marriage and effective child-rearing is still around today, it seems this "sick" sexual practice did not destroy society after all.

You have made your thoughts clear about this particular sexual fetish and I certainly respect your opinion. I simply ask you do the same. So in the future, should we once again disagree, I respectfully ask that you stick to debating the issue(s) rather than attacking me personally.

Thanks.

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Draggin,


2) While you may believe that cuckolding is sexually sick; the professional field of mental health does not.

Thanks.

I'd like to add that the so called professional field of mental health in the US of A considered homosexuality until 1973 amongst "emotional and mental disorders". No new breathroughs made them change the previous diagnosis but the influence of certain "philantropic" fundations with a lot of clout.
Just saying you shouldn't bet on "experts'" opinion, that's all. Cucolding isn't healthy, nor is smoking yet both are permited. This is a well documented fact, anyone can look it up for themselves

[INS Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close INS]

Some of you guys have been the studs, but cannot even think of being the cuckold.

The cuckold has it the worst in this scenario. Like the wife gets hers and the stud gets his (with a huge ego boost as well). The cuckold is simply left helpless. It stems from huge insecurity, where men deal with emotional trauma by turning it into pleasure. Like small penis humiliation (SPH) as well.
I feel it's like mind break for the man here.
I mean, it's okay with the whole consenting adults thing, but the man has severe esteem issues because he feels he just doesn't deserve to be with the woman, or she deserves way better. Maybe before she cheats, out of fear he gives her the okay to go do it with some hung guy, so it's not technically cheating (although, this point may be incorrect)
Cuckolding, SPH, and SPS/esteem issues go hand in hand.
As a small guy myself I get a sinking feeling everytime I think of it non-objectively.

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I'd like to add that the so called professional field of mental health in the US of A considered homosexuality until 1973 amongst "emotional and mental disorders". No new breathroughs made them change the previous diagnosis but the influence of certain "philantropic" fundations with a lot of clout.
Just saying you shouldn't bet on "experts'" opinion, that's all. Cucolding isn't healthy, nor is smoking yet both are permited. This is a well documented fact, anyone can look it up for themselves

They thought female arousal was an illness and labelled it as Hysteria. They gave out vibrators for treating it.

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There are only two things I can't stand in this world:
1) People who are intolerant of other people's creeds, practices and beliefs
B) The dutch

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I'd like to add that the so called professional field of mental health in the US of A considered homosexuality until 1973 amongst "emotional and mental disorders". No new breathroughs made them change the previous diagnosis but the influence of certain "philantropic" fundations with a lot of clout.
Just saying you shouldn't bet on "experts'" opinion, that's all. Cucolding isn't healthy, nor is smoking yet both are permited. This is a well documented fact, anyone can look it up for themselves

They thought female arousal was an illness and labelled it as Hysteria. They gave out vibrators for treating it.

I think we can all (hopefully) acknowledge these as historical failures of mental health experts. Physicians used to use a ton of strange things to "cure illnesses" including opium and all derivatives imaginable for virtually any illness you can think of, mercury for just about anything, arsenic, bloodletting, trepanation (boring a hole in the skull), and much much more. Science learns and grows, it does not start perfect and the things we do now are not perfect.

Same thing is true for mental health. They thought and did some crazy things in the past (hell, the somewhat recent past) but the science/thought in this field is growing and getting better. Point is, I don't think we can hold the mental health profession hostage by it's past to completely discredit them now in the present even if they are not perfect (nothing really is)

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Consenting adults get to do what they want, it is honestly no body else's business as long as no one is made to do something against their will let them do as they wish.

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OMG!! I can't believe it!! TWP it finally happened ... I disagree with you.

I am not familiar with the term "cuckold". I had to google it. It is, hands down, a mental sexual sickness. Here's why:

The bond between a husband and wife is sacred. Sex between a loving and loyal couple is what makes it special. Priceless really. Cuckolding destroy's this sanctity of union between a man and woman. Cuckolding is about a sexually sick mind trying to get off. Call it fantasy or not, I don't care. Nothing good, long-term, will come out of some dude fucking another man's wife so he can jerk off to it. It will 100% of the time eventually lead to regret, feelings of insecurity, and pain.

I understand that "consenting" adults could agree to be sick together. But sick is sick, regardless of how many "consenting" people there are. This is exactly the kind of shit that is deteriorating family values in the world today. I am especially scared that someone as smart and awesome as you, TPW, are "open" and "accepting" of this stuff. I am worried the world is a tipping point right now. You see, blatant acceptance of sick behavior, as adults, means we are raising an entire generation of misguided and unhealthy children. And our children IS our future. If unnatural behavior that contributes to the destruction of global humanity isn't considered a disease or sickness, then I don't know what is.

I am giving you a very strong recommendation to stop referring to people as sick if they think differently than you Draggin.

Take me seriously. You have a trend of this lately and it has run its course as far as I am concerned.

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My ex told me about a woman she knew who got a divorce because her husband encouraged her to sleep with other men. He had even told her to just point at any guy she found attractive and he would talk him into doing it. So it's not always the woman who wants it. Heck, I'm gonna go on a limb here and say that it's never the woman who wants it but the man. I feel sorry for the wives of such men. Every woman deserves a MAN that genuinely loves her and every MAN deserves a woman that genuinely loves him. If I ever get married and my wife even hints at something like that, I'm gonna make sure that's the last thing that ever comes out of her mouth.

Edit: I'm just wondering. Does it ever happen the other way around?

[TPW Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close TPW]

While cuckolding certainly falls into the fetish category (specifically, masochism) of sex and may be an abhorrent sexual practice to many people; I do not agree that it is a mental health issue. As I have said before, the erotic mind wants what it wants and it is seldom "politically correct". What turns one person on may do nothing for another and vice versa so who are we to assess and judge another's sexual proclivities and preferences?

If there is one area that two or more consenting and sound-minded adults should be allowed to be explore freely; it is their personal sexual pleasure and eroticism.

Just so we are clear...at no time was I recommending the sexual practice of "cuckolding" (or "hotwifing" as it is sometimes referred). My original argument was merely to point out that "cuckolding" was not a mental health issue but a sexual preference one and should be addressed accordingly.

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I think we can all (hopefully) acknowledge these as historical failures of mental health experts. Physicians used to use a ton of strange things to "cure illnesses" including opium and all derivatives imaginable for virtually any illness you can think of, mercury for just about anything, arsenic, bloodletting, trepanation (boring a hole in the skull), and much much more. Science learns and grows, it does not start perfect and the things we do now are not perfect.

Same thing is true for mental health. They thought and did some crazy things in the past (hell, the somewhat recent past) but the science/thought in this field is growing and getting better. Point is, I don't think we can hold the mental health profession hostage by it's past to completely discredit them now in the present even if they are not perfect (nothing really is)

Some of those treatments were effective, but they had adverse effects so they're getting discontinued especially the mercury salts. Even now days in pharmacological testing there are Side effects and adverse effects. People are more cautious nowadays. Trepanation and blood letting are still used in very specific illnesses. People used to do them just to 'cure their demons' though. Now things are more scientific.
Psychology will always be a mystery and would be more subjective. It's just more complicatedly involved with the brain, with harder to determine dependency

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Most of the hatred towards cuckold lifestyle comes mainly from fear of ending up in that position, since people don't want that for themselves, or their loved ones. (and also for some other lifestyles)
It hits a nerve, that's why it's a hot topic. Like the "Size Matters" one.