I Hate Being Short!

[DeepConcentration Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close DeepConcentration]

I'm 5'4"

I didn't ask to be this way! Why do I have to be alone and not have anyone.

I was with my friend recently. He is 5'9" tall. So I was feeling rather confident and walked up to this girl and proceeded to talk to her for about 5 minutes. I asked for her number and she says she was taken. I thanked her for the great conversation and said bye. My friend wasn't around. So I told him to go and try when I met up with him.

So 2 minutes later he comes back with the number. He tells me laughing that she told him some short guy just hit on her, and she said if he was taller it would of been so on.

So my buddy calls her right there and she answers. He proceeds to tell her the guy you just turned down that was too short is my best friend. And thanks for confirming how shallow you are. She apologizes. So I tell her to fuck off. She tries telling me that I was hot and the conversation was great, and you have a great personality, but I'm attracted to taller guys.

So I score a 2/4 so far and that isn't good enough.

Height
Personality
Looks
Sex

Even if I do achieve my goal of a 8" x 6" member. It will mean absolutely nothing if I can't even get a chance.

I hate being placated by so many taller people who say that if they had my looks they'd had slept with 8x the amount of women in their lives. I ask if they could do it with my height.

So one of my coworkers sends a picture of me to his wife and asked if I looked better than him. She said yes and that if you looked like him I'd be all over you every night. He then tells her my height and she gives a long drawn out ehhhhhhhh. He smiles and tells her thanks for the honesty. I laughed on the outside but was devastated on the inside.

Now I'm ranting... No matter how much self improvement I make, even in my confidence it is a worthless endeavor.

[riceboy287 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close riceboy287]

AMEN dude. I'm tall, dark, and handsome. Except for the tall part. I know exactly how you feel, at 5'4 you gotta work a ton harder just to get respect. I can't believe a mere few inches can drastically alter how people live and how they are perceived. Pisses me off honestly.

[jonnycash Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jonnycash]

I'm in the same boat you are man. I'm 5'3, vietnamese. When you this short you don't get a lot of options. I try to pick up girls about my height or shorter. But yes, people tend to underestimate me which only make me work harder. I also score 2/4 personality and looks. I'm always try to self-improve. I know I can't do anything about my height anymore, and if there is a small chance PE would make my dick bigger, I'm going to take that chance. Good luck man.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

A man's heart is what makes him as big or as small as he is. Think about it!

[rollingthunder Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close rollingthunder]

Well, as a fairly tall guy, I'm not going to bullshit you. I think your height probably is a huge challenge. Many women just want to be made to feel small and dainty by a man that towers over them. Not nearly every woman feels like that. I also don't have your looks.
We all have our challanges. I've seen short guys manage to avoid having a complex about it, and do quite well.

[Koh Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Koh]

I know this feeling all too well OP; I'm hardly 5'6".

It hurts to be disregarded simply because you don't happen to fit their stupid height requirements; but you need to remember there are ladies at there that dig short guys. Just keep cultivating and playing up your other strengths, and forget the shallow chicks. We have the odds stacked against us, but that just makes us even stronger.

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

So your short, so fuckin what. I dont give a damn and neither do lots of women. My brother in law is 5'5" and has pulled THEEE hottest ass since I have known him of any guy I have ever known on a consistent bases. AT parties, at clubs, exchange students, dancers, waitresses. he is good looking, I will give him that and he is also one of the most confident SOBs I have ever known, almost cocky.

He is that way because he believes he is that way, nothing more and he would not and could not be any other way. He is short, he is confident and he is always getting laid or starting a new relationship with a hottie.

[Danster579 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Danster579]

haha, thats my man cusp cusp up there ^^^

He's right, you know.

[frisson Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close frisson]

Height is relevant, yes, but persona and confidence can outweigh it. Don't let disappointment bring you down, use it as motivation. Now you've got something to prove to yourself.

[Frog Senior Member Member of the Month March 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close Frog]

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OP, I'm sorry for your pain. I completely understand your situation, but please understand it has very little to do with you and your height. We women and our low self esteem plays a major role in this. Society, television, porn and print ads tell us what we should be and who we should be with. Women are supposed to look like anorexic tits on a stick standing next to 6' + boy wonder.....Fuck that.....I'm not "tits on a stick" and 6' tall pretty boys are far and few between. I have an idea...... I was recently at the local pre marathon expo in my home town. I'm only 5'6" , but I felt like a amazon woman compared to the others. Screw the bar scene. Go to events and actives you enjoy to find Mrs.Wonderful. "You cant be all things to everyone, but you can be everything to the right one!" Cherish and embrace yourself and the right woman will do the same! xoxo, Frog

[greymouser Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close greymouser]

tall men don't have a choice, women for them are all small and short,
but you my friend you have "choice" you could get yourself an amazon if you get lucky, and still find petite women that are way shorter than you..

why targeting hot women ??
they have been stated by magazines as hot looking and you have been conditioned to masturbate and get aroused on these specific traits,
it's simple change you porn lol
for my case i am attracted to less attractive girls and i hate skinny women, because i associate it with sickness,
i even find less than less attractive women very sexy,
forget about beauty and seemingly gentle facial traits and concentrate on sexiness,
it's just a preference and it's changing throughout life it's not static...

for me real women are the sexually aggressive women,
weakness and feminine traits are often just an act ...

all is subject to interpretation,
and that tall woman refused you not because you are short but because you are not attractive,
height is just a parameter that induced that reaction,
would you feel sorry for yourself if you were overall unattractive without having any specific aspect about you to blame ??
i think that you will just go for less than attractive women because they are the ones who would smile back at you,
and you will learn eventually to see them as more attractive than any model...

[Boosie Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Boosie]

I'm not trying to be a douche or a anything but this post made me feel alot better about myself. I'm myself 173 cm, And im insecure about my height aswell but this made me feel alittle better :/, I know its a struggle man.

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Greymouser, are you saying to settle, you just confused the hell out of me.

[kidajske Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close kidajske]

If it makes you feel any better, I'm 6'2'' and ugly.

[greymouser Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close greymouser]

i invited the OP to explore things not to settle,

because i assumed that that woman was both tall and hot,
he should identify what he is being attracted to in the first place...
is it her scent, is it her condescending look, is it her long legs, or is it just a challenge ..

hot women tend to be oblivious of so many basic concepts and insensitive...they are less game and less inclined to making compromises...