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I am only sharing a very personal experience with regards to women perspective and my PE adventure.
This is more of a success story, but I am putting it from the perspective of my most special woman in my life, my wife.
When I hooked up with my current wife in February this year, I was told that my penis is the perfect size for her. I believed because I could see that I was giving her pleasure and the sex life was good. She would tell me that she does not even wish that it was bigger.
I began my PE without telling her I am up to trying to make it bigger. After my newbie gains, which included some length and EQ gains, my lady began to really enjoy sex with me she would roll under me like she has lost control over her self. Then she began crying, from pleasure not pain of-coarse!! and she would say, "What is going on, I don't understand why it has gotten sweeter, I never felt that way all my life....." I knew the truth.
Then what I really desired to get, I got...additional girth, not too big to be easily noticed but my wife was feeling the difference down there. (I don't measure with rulers, but her pleasure is all I care most, rulers can wait for me....)
Then suddenly, she began squirting, real hot gush that would hit my pubis like some jet-stream of liquid. At first she felt embarrassed about it and did not wish for it to happen. I told her its ok. Despite her resisting to squirt, orgasms were getting just too much for her she would find herself doing it almost every-time we had sex. She would really shed tears that rolled to even getting into the sheets, then later tell me, "It was just too sweet I could not help but cry, and "Pee"....why is sex so sweet nowdays??"
The turning Point:
I decided to break the news that I was doing PE which included making it bigger, healthier and harder. The first comment I got, "No wonder its gotten too sweet..."At that instance I was given such a powerful hug even my ribs felt like they are nearly caving in. I got all manners of praises, hugs, kisses, ....you would think I I was some sex god. She looked at my dick so closely and said, "I would have not known what is going on haven't you told me, but whatever you did, you did the right thing." Then she got really hot with desire her love juices flowed freely like water. The imagination of a bigger dick getting in her just seemed to drive her crazy. She even told me, "It has been a long time since I got this aroused, so you went into all that trouble to increase our pleasure?" At that instance, she pulled me on top of her and we made sweet slow love.
Well she even told me the reason why she has been getting tired too quickly of giving me blow jobs, and hitting me with her teeth often was, "It has gotten fatter!!" that statement melted my heart. It is a success for sure.
I asked, "Were I to tell you I want to make it bigger, would you have agreed with me?" She told me point blank, "No".
So I asked,"Then why do you find it sweeter now that it is bigger?", She smiled and told me, "If you are doing something that you know will make both of us happy, it does not necessarily need my approval, just do it. Moreover, I know you love me and you can never do something that would end up hurting me".
"So Can I make it bigger or harder?". I got an answer with mixed feelings, "If you wish to make it bigger, do it as long as it will be for our own pleasure otherwise don't." But was later told some more girth would not do harm but no more length. This is because since I began PE, I have accidentally hit her cervix several times just hard enough to be pushed away, and that marking the end of the love making session.
But then again, I have been told like countless times to retain my current size since the pleasure I am giving her, she says, is just like the much she would ever wish to get.
So to summarize my story:
Well, in my PE journey to try and make it bigger, healthier and harder, there are some things which just seems to be getting left out, that is I can no longer enjoy them as previously.
For me the most positive achievement is just this:
Previously with my dick, she would never seem to have enough of it. She would feel like when I insert and even do for about 1 hour it is like I am giving her more stimulation and thus heightening her desire . That meant doing just too much for me to ever satisfy her. But now with my bigger penis, just 4 months of PE, one sex session is just enough to give her a mind blowing orgasm that leaves her totally satisfied and contented. If it happens to be in the evening and we are about to sleep, she will go to deep sleep within 5 minutes of having an orgasm. She even complements me, "Your dick now gives me more satisfaction quicker than previously, I just love your current size, it is the perfect size for me."
This is more of a success story, but I am putting it from the perspective of my most special woman in my life, my wife.
When I hooked up with my current wife in February this year, I was told that my penis is the perfect size for her. I believed because I could see that I was giving her pleasure and the sex life was good. She would tell me that she does not even wish that it was bigger.
I began my PE without telling her I am up to trying to make it bigger. After my newbie gains, which included some length and EQ gains, my lady began to really enjoy sex with me she would roll under me like she has lost control over her self. Then she began crying, from pleasure not pain of-coarse!! and she would say, "What is going on, I don't understand why it has gotten sweeter, I never felt that way all my life....." I knew the truth.
Then what I really desired to get, I got...additional girth, not too big to be easily noticed but my wife was feeling the difference down there. (I don't measure with rulers, but her pleasure is all I care most, rulers can wait for me....)
Then suddenly, she began squirting, real hot gush that would hit my pubis like some jet-stream of liquid. At first she felt embarrassed about it and did not wish for it to happen. I told her its ok. Despite her resisting to squirt, orgasms were getting just too much for her she would find herself doing it almost every-time we had sex. She would really shed tears that rolled to even getting into the sheets, then later tell me, "It was just too sweet I could not help but cry, and "Pee"....why is sex so sweet nowdays??"
The turning Point:
I decided to break the news that I was doing PE which included making it bigger, healthier and harder. The first comment I got, "No wonder its gotten too sweet..."At that instance I was given such a powerful hug even my ribs felt like they are nearly caving in. I got all manners of praises, hugs, kisses, ....you would think I I was some sex god. She looked at my dick so closely and said, "I would have not known what is going on haven't you told me, but whatever you did, you did the right thing." Then she got really hot with desire her love juices flowed freely like water. The imagination of a bigger dick getting in her just seemed to drive her crazy. She even told me, "It has been a long time since I got this aroused, so you went into all that trouble to increase our pleasure?" At that instance, she pulled me on top of her and we made sweet slow love.
Well she even told me the reason why she has been getting tired too quickly of giving me blow jobs, and hitting me with her teeth often was, "It has gotten fatter!!" that statement melted my heart. It is a success for sure.
I asked, "Were I to tell you I want to make it bigger, would you have agreed with me?" She told me point blank, "No".
So I asked,"Then why do you find it sweeter now that it is bigger?", She smiled and told me, "If you are doing something that you know will make both of us happy, it does not necessarily need my approval, just do it. Moreover, I know you love me and you can never do something that would end up hurting me".
"So Can I make it bigger or harder?". I got an answer with mixed feelings, "If you wish to make it bigger, do it as long as it will be for our own pleasure otherwise don't." But was later told some more girth would not do harm but no more length. This is because since I began PE, I have accidentally hit her cervix several times just hard enough to be pushed away, and that marking the end of the love making session.
But then again, I have been told like countless times to retain my current size since the pleasure I am giving her, she says, is just like the much she would ever wish to get.
So to summarize my story:
- A woman who really loves you and would never want to hurt your feelings will never tell you that you are not perfect for her.
- A woman is capable of enjoying your current size, as long as she loves you and you know how to make good use of your dick. Making it bigger would be more of a bonus than a necessity. Making it too big is not good either.
- For men in this forum, don't take what a woman says about your "perfect' size and stop there. You will be confining yourself in a comfort zone that can crumble anytime. Do your PE even if she is content with your size....especially if it is right around average.
- A woman's perspective is never wrong, for the sake of love. But a woman's perspective should not be the end of the matter.
- If your partner is a long-term partner, PLEASE and PLEASE consider her joy, feelings, wants and needs in sex as part of your PE. It is even better to let her know what you are doing and she can advice you where necessary. (Example, I was once told that there are times when she enjoys sex when my EQ is 8 to avoid hurting my missy, and when she is highly aroused, she wishes me to have an EQ of 10. At times she wishes to have me penetrate at lower EQ like around 7 and during thrusting I increase it to 9 or 10, that gives her an instant orgasm to feel it literally swelling inside her.... So in my PE I also practice how to regulate and control my EQ levels.)
- Any size is perfect size for a woman only if she loves you. But making it bigger can really count into how much you can enjoy sex.
Well, in my PE journey to try and make it bigger, healthier and harder, there are some things which just seems to be getting left out, that is I can no longer enjoy them as previously.
- Blow jobs are getting difficult for my sweetie and I just love them a lot. Reason is the bigger size can no longer be accommodated in her mouth for a long time like previously. Sometimes she just gets tired and stops sucking it all together. Not that I am too big, but her being petite also somehow makes her mouth small. (Not too small either)
- Quickies seems like getting left out too, I cannot easily penetrate with ease when she is less aroused. I have to really get her aroused to get in.
- Previously we also used to do some dry sex and enjoy it. As of now, dry sex is no longer enjoyable, if we try it for merely 5 minutes, I will either get pushed out or she will get sore/irritation due to thrusting and that will mean no sex the for the next 24 to 48 hours.
- With a bigger penis, too much sex just gets her exhausted. She will even feel weak. (Not that she hates it, since she says it is like a recipe to a good night sleep
)
For me the most positive achievement is just this:
Previously with my dick, she would never seem to have enough of it. She would feel like when I insert and even do for about 1 hour it is like I am giving her more stimulation and thus heightening her desire . That meant doing just too much for me to ever satisfy her. But now with my bigger penis, just 4 months of PE, one sex session is just enough to give her a mind blowing orgasm that leaves her totally satisfied and contented. If it happens to be in the evening and we are about to sleep, she will go to deep sleep within 5 minutes of having an orgasm. She even complements me, "Your dick now gives me more satisfaction quicker than previously, I just love your current size, it is the perfect size for me."
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BTW....your first post was awesome!
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