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Well I just got out of 10 year relationship about 3 months ago. And now I find myself dating two woman. I never expect myself to be in this scenario or planned it this way. I find myself a little lost, because it's also not a situation I want to be in.
Anyhow, girl 1 I met in September, freshly out of my relationship. This girl is really unique, she is very caring and very sexually open. We have a great time together, and share a similar passion for being active, cooking and having sex. Two weeks ago we decided that since she felt unsatisfied with our conversations it would be best that we become just friends without any sexual intimacy.
Girl 2, I met last week. We went on one coffee date, and had a good time. Right away we planned for a second date. We have continue to text everyday, in fact we do xoxo, and say goodnight every night. She is also active, and enjoys running and taking care of her body which is a big thing for me.
I'm looking for someone to share some experiences with me and physical activity is definitely one of them.
Anyhow on Friday Girl 1, came over to watch a movie since we both decided to be friends. After a little while, I found her coming on to me, and she whispered in me ear, I can't believe I would ever give up sex with you.
The next morning I talked to her and let her know about my date, I told girl 1 that I really liked her and that I felt we could have something amazing together. I told her I need her to reiterate that for me as well. I told her that I understood she doesn't want to do any commitment, and that I totally completely understood. I told her though I need for her to at least agree with me with what I saw, she unfortunately can't. She has this massive need for super intensive deep conversations. I told her that I know that it isn't something I can't do day in and day out. That I can do it from time to time, and that when she ever asks me about how I feel that I will elaborate completely and not limit it to one word answers. I also told her that I need to know that I'm in relationship for something more than sex, since my last relationship of 10 years ended up just being that and that if that was not something she could do, that I would date other girls without going to the sack. I'm not sure if I can keep other dates from going to the sack, specifically since part of relationship is to ensure your physically compatible.
So to summarize girl 1, I know really well. She keeps planning things for her and I to do in the future. She says that she feels a little unsatisfied in the relationship because of our conversations. She loves hitting the sack with me, she like the way I treat her. I enjoy the sack, and I love how special she makes me feel.
Girl 2, brand new. I know only surface stuff about her at this time. When I started dating her, I was going in with the intention of getting to know her and see where things would go. Don't know about the sack. She does seem pretty attractive, and really relaxed. Genuinely seems interested in me.
So I feel weird about being in this situation. Any suggestions or comments would be welcome.
Well I just got out of 10 year relationship about 3 months ago. And now I find myself dating two woman. I never expect myself to be in this scenario or planned it this way. I find myself a little lost, because it's also not a situation I want to be in.
Anyhow, girl 1 I met in September, freshly out of my relationship. This girl is really unique, she is very caring and very sexually open. We have a great time together, and share a similar passion for being active, cooking and having sex. Two weeks ago we decided that since she felt unsatisfied with our conversations it would be best that we become just friends without any sexual intimacy.
Girl 2, I met last week. We went on one coffee date, and had a good time. Right away we planned for a second date. We have continue to text everyday, in fact we do xoxo, and say goodnight every night. She is also active, and enjoys running and taking care of her body which is a big thing for me.
I'm looking for someone to share some experiences with me and physical activity is definitely one of them.
Anyhow on Friday Girl 1, came over to watch a movie since we both decided to be friends. After a little while, I found her coming on to me, and she whispered in me ear, I can't believe I would ever give up sex with you.
The next morning I talked to her and let her know about my date, I told girl 1 that I really liked her and that I felt we could have something amazing together. I told her I need her to reiterate that for me as well. I told her that I understood she doesn't want to do any commitment, and that I totally completely understood. I told her though I need for her to at least agree with me with what I saw, she unfortunately can't. She has this massive need for super intensive deep conversations. I told her that I know that it isn't something I can't do day in and day out. That I can do it from time to time, and that when she ever asks me about how I feel that I will elaborate completely and not limit it to one word answers. I also told her that I need to know that I'm in relationship for something more than sex, since my last relationship of 10 years ended up just being that and that if that was not something she could do, that I would date other girls without going to the sack. I'm not sure if I can keep other dates from going to the sack, specifically since part of relationship is to ensure your physically compatible.
So to summarize girl 1, I know really well. She keeps planning things for her and I to do in the future. She says that she feels a little unsatisfied in the relationship because of our conversations. She loves hitting the sack with me, she like the way I treat her. I enjoy the sack, and I love how special she makes me feel.
Girl 2, brand new. I know only surface stuff about her at this time. When I started dating her, I was going in with the intention of getting to know her and see where things would go. Don't know about the sack. She does seem pretty attractive, and really relaxed. Genuinely seems interested in me.
So I feel weird about being in this situation. Any suggestions or comments would be welcome.
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