Lenght vs girth

[Jeremy5 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Jeremy5]

You sometimes hear women talk about having sex with a guy and not be able to feel him inside..

I was just wondering is this due to his length or girth? Any further information on the topic is appreciated.

[JT71 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JT71]

for me it would be girth

[TeamMagnum Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TeamMagnum]

From girls I've talked to (friends, ex-gfs, current gf, their friends) it's about feeling "full"...so girth.
But all women are different

[Joint-Expansion Senior Member Member of the Month August 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close Joint-Expansion]

Usually girth related, up to a degree. For instance, there are folks out there who may be well under 5" in girth, but may still be 7 + in length, and I can guarantee no gal is going to say they cant feel that guy hitting their cervix.

But usually this statement is a combo of a gal being "roomy" inside and probably well lubricated, and the guy being on the smaller side. Anything near average will never even be mentioned if the guy knows how to use it. Even smaller sized can easily get the job done with the right moves and rhythm.

[draggin Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close draggin]

I'd say it has more to do with how wet she is than anything.

[averagedick Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close averagedick]

I honestly dont believe a girl cant feel most if not all guys inside her, this to me would be a womans way to put a man down and feel bad about himself. I havent been with hundreds of women ive been with a a good few but I do know one thing that two fingers can get every woman ive been with off, so I cant imagine that a penis of four inches or over by the girth of two fingers wouldn't get her off too.

[MrB8 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close MrB8]

The outer third of the vagina is the most sensitive, and even if girth is a bit on the not so big side, angling it would give the lady a fuller sensation as the penis would be adding pressure to the posterior and anterior vaginal walls at the same time.

I also tend to think that it has a lot to do with the lady's arousal, the vagina tents upon arousal (good sign) and it also gets wet/slippery (good sign also) and that may be the cause, IMHO, technique matters here more than size, I suggest reading a lot about the female's anatomy and sexuality, this forum has a very good head start, in addition to The Passionate Wife's Independent Blog!

In other words, hearing those words doesn't necessarily mean a bad sign, sometimes it means that you got a lady in a special state and you need to know how to deal with it, switch position, change angels, thrust differently, or even alternate activities, the possibilities are endless and you can turn it to a wonderful experience even IF it wasn't meant as a good thing in the first place, and here confidence plays a big role, don't let a negative thought get to you, and use your mind to use your penis as well as the rest of you not the other way around.

[Mr. TeenieWeenie Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Mr. TeenieWeenie]

The outer third of the vagina is the most sensitive, and even if girth is a bit on the not so big side, angling it would give the lady a fuller sensation as the penis would be adding pressure to the posterior and anterior vaginal walls at the same time.

I also tend to think that it has a lot to do with the lady's arousal, the vagina tents upon arousal (good sign) and it also gets wet/slippery (good sign also) and that may be the cause, IMHO, technique matters here more than size, I suggest reading a lot about the female's anatomy and sexuality, this forum has a very good head start, in addition to The Passionate Wife's Independent Blog!

In other words, hearing those words doesn't necessarily mean a bad sign, sometimes it means that you got a lady in a special state and you need to know how to deal with it, switch position, change angels, thrust differently, or even alternate activities, the possibilities are endless and you can turn it to a wonderful experience even IF it wasn't meant as a good thing in the first place, and here confidence plays a big role, don't let a negative thought get to you, and use your mind to use your penis as well as the rest of you not the other way around.

My Theory:
In addition to what Mr.B8 said, there is low level excitement sex, medium level excitement sex, and high level excitement sex. I think when she says she can't feel anything she may genuinely not feel anything. I have never experienced a girl tell me she doesn't feel anything but I have seen my girlfriend looking at me with a blank expression(basically letting me know she is not feeling anything). I also don't feel very aroused myself, my EQ being a 6 possibly. I do notice the more aroused I get the more aroused she gets and that is when the moaning starts, and you feel her vagina get tight. You build up to this though, in fact I've learnt to not penetrate until she's at least medium level, that's when she starts getting wet and you have a pretty solid boner. WAIT TO PENETRATE!

[bumble Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bumble]

Yeah, it's all about EQ man... Honestly. I know that I've had erections where if I squeezed my glands, it felt hard, full of blood, and ones where it's squishy as f.... and soft. If you can obtain and keep erections where your glands are bulging and throbbing and full of blood, that's what causes her to feel it more.

I'd say my EQ is at a 6...6.5 maybe as well. And from others advice here, I'm working on that more than I am girth or length gains, although that would be nice. I think the potential for my dick is to be much bigger erect than I've measured, just never get a bulging hardon.

But when I do.... and when any of you do, dick size or not, you'll be a bang machine.

Everyone here should know women are not like us, they need verbal, emotional, mental and physical stimulus. I kid you not, I've been with women where all I have to do, when they are highly aroused obviously, is tell them to cum for me. Like, I'll be on top, going super slow but my entire body rock hard in a flex, so she can feel how tense I am grazing over her body, her breasts, her thighs, I tense all my muscles and go really slow, and I whisper in her ear that I want her to cum for me RIGHT NOW. And she did.

Sex is not a "feel good" activity. It's an "admire" activity. When you start admiring women, their parts, their minds, their emotions, that's when you'll be turned into a good lover.

The reason why I know all this is because I was different than other guys, I couldn't maintain erections or get them unless I was mentally and emotionally stimulated, kinda like a woman. I couldn't fuck random women, I couldn't fuck a dead slug who just layed there, I had to have verbal and emotional stimulation. And by me knowing I needed that, encouraging it and doing it to them myself, I found out that it is what every woman needs.

Now don't get me wrong, you don't need to be all romantic, sensual, talk sexy all the time to achieve this. You can achieve it in many ways. I had a girlfriend who really got off on public sex. And whenever we were out and I saw the opportunity to allow her to partake in her utmost fantasy, I'd grab her hand and squeeze hard and then I'd pull her to where I saw an opening to allow for it.

Sex would last maybe 3 minutes, or a little more, I wasn't counting, but it was fast. And it was a "stick it in quick" kinda deal. But because I grabbed her hand and squeezed it every time before doing it, it initiated a mental response in her from that physical touch, she knew what was coming. She would get wet as soon as I squeezed her hand. So I could just sorta shove it in when she pulled her pants down over her ass and pressed on the wall. And she would also cum in those 3 minutes because she would be so aroused by me covering her mouth and holding her neck tight and the thrill of it. Not to mention me telling her I wanted her to helped .

So always be vocal, always make sure your woman knows you want her to cum and you don't want to stop until she does, always tell her she's beautiful, sexy, soft, tight, makes your cock feel good, makes you want to cum, makes you hold back from cumming. One thing I always like to say, true or not, is when I first go inside a woman I whisper in her ear I already have to hold back from cumming at how good you feel. This instantly gets them going.

And if she gets really wet, pull out, stick it in her mouth and use your fingers to make her cum, she'll tighten and tense up, then go back in..... I mean if all else fails.

[PanBird Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close PanBird]

I've never seen this discussion before. Are you talking about penis lenght and girth, or just something else?

[Jeremy5 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Jeremy5]

Something else..

[PanBird Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close PanBird]

Something else..

Seriously? You've got 8 really good replies, and all you say is that?
That is why you don't get "Something else...". Because you're not partisipating and showing that you care about your own topic. Learn how to act on a forum.