A lot of women say size doesnt matter...

[lclutchl Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close lclutchl]

Cant return a human lmao once you start its going down

[INS Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close INS]

I was thinking of posting this in its own thread but it fits pretty well here. I recently attended a marketing talk from a guy who works for Lovehoney. They're a sex toy company based in the UK.

They have a policy where you can return a product, for any reason and even if it's been used, up to 365 days after you've bought it. I pity the poor person who works in their returns department. What do you think the most common reason for returns is? It's that people bought too big.

Never buy with your eyes. Seriously, it'd end up being too big.

[bigbutlimp Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bigbutlimp]

Something tells me this thread may be about the same old size chestnut at heart......

Still,this is a legitimate question.....and one that I have devoted my not inconsiderable intellectual skills to(pity I cant do the same with things that are actually important)

I have,of late waged a one man campaign the object of which is to point out that many sex toys for sale are considerably larger than is a realistic size(ok I like flirting a bit with the female shop assistants)......now,this doesnt mean women BUY this size of course-the example above contradicts this,though was only one e.g.

One shop did say women often but big ones...in the UK at least,there are few smaller than 6"-many are 8",and therre is even 9",10",11"12"and larger!.Some are simply impossibly large:about elephant size!.

One shop girl in Anne Summers did say that the dildos were too large to be realistic-even though the biggest there about my size-she had never seen a areal one that big!.

I did want to get a 5"one-there are more this size on-line,even 4".5"I think(should say,I am talking about realistic ones).We have a 5.75"long one by about 5",and a 6.5"one about 5.25"or 5.5".

My lady wife uses the 6.5"one a lot(it vibrates).Its true to say that she often only inserts the tip......(the "clitoral"v"vaginal orgasm"thing-now THERES a chestnut)

However,when really excited,she does insert it all the way...have been embarassed to discover she enjoys it as much as with me(ok,I admit it more than with me(blushes).

Have recently got her one of those really realistic US ones,with that ultra-realistic material,modeled from a real cock.Its 6'.75"by about 5'.75",or a bit more,and black(wider from side than mine,but not from top-cocks all different in section I now realise,they are not all cylindrical!).

This must be considered por-star size,as special guy employed.and does look very big-but she hasnt seen it yet(keeping it as surprise!)

[15rando Member Find all posts View Profile Close 15rando]

I didnt bother reading the thread but

"realistic" size dildos are more sold than large

Half the girls i know own some form of tiny vibrator or dildo

when a dildo says "8inches* it is only about 6.5 inches insertable, which is like 7BPEL

Girls are F*king stupid, just last week some chick tells me she has slept with 20 guys, she likes 10 inch C*CKS, and than she sucked my 6.75x4.5 in my car and she said i was "huge" and i was too big for her LMAO.

One more thing, Guys also prefer "tighter" vaginas, correct? well guess what, if You sleep with 10 girls, 8 vaginas will be the exact same average, 1 will be tiny, and 1 will be a loose canyon. It is the same with penis. 10 guys 1 guy will be a tiny asian, 1 guy will be 8 inches, and the rest 8 of us will have a 5.5-6.5 dick that is identical.

[DickerSchwanz Senior Member Member of the Month Sept 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close DickerSchwanz]

It doesnt matter cause there arent enough really big cocks to make it matter. The absolute majority is within the average range.

Of course the moment she gets treated right by a huge dick it matters.

[Phoenix7672 Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Phoenix7672]

Like others have said, at least 2-3" will not be insertable, so subtract that number from the advertised length. I also recall reading most are all between 6-8"x5-5.5", which would align more with reality (would mean 4-6" likely insertable).

I also wouldn't believe the size any woman says they have taken, unless they have actually measured it themselves properly. There's one girl I know who claims to have been with a guy who was legitimately 9" NBPEL (apparently though it was way too much for her/hurt her). Part of me wants to sleep with her just to see if she thinks I'm the same size or bigger. lol

[15rando Member Find all posts View Profile Close 15rando]

I would like to make a point, as long as you hit "average", than your size does not matter. Sexual attraction is decided almost immediately between a male and female, it does not wait until the pants are off. The only time it would matter is if it is LITERALLY TINY.

-Actually, size does matter. It matters because it makes you either insecure, or confident. That is the only time it matters.

[bigbutlimp Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bigbutlimp]

Like others have said, at least 2-3" will not be insertable, so subtract that number from the advertised length. I also recall reading most are all between 6-8"x5-5.5", which would align more with reality (would mean 4-6" likely insertable).

I also wouldn't believe the size any woman says they have taken, unless they have actually measured it themselves properly. There's one girl I know who claims to have been with a guy who was legitimately 9" NBPEL (apparently though it was way too much for her/hurt her). Part of me wants to sleep with her just to see if she thinks I'm the same size or bigger. lol

why is 2"-3"not insertable?-do you mean the bit where the balls are and the suction cup?This not included in lengths given for ones I have

[dmizzle Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close dmizzle]

Go on Amazon and check out the 6.5" dildos. Best rated dildo. Why, because it fits the majority of women. Some like them big, usually because they have big pussys. But most like average to just above.

[seanyboy Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close seanyboy]

Whenever I read comments (and trust me, I've read literally hundreds due to my once obsession with the subject) next to a particular dildo being sold at an online sex shop, a dildo that has 6-7" insertable (meaning it's about 8-9" if it has balls and suction) and about 5.5-6" girth was typically described as "was too big for me" "not for beginners" "this thing is huge" "for size queens only" "when I took it out of the package, I was shocked at the size" "you're going to need lots of warming up"...

[custombabe Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close custombabe]

But if thats the case why are so many women buying 8,9, 10 inch dildos on amazon?


Please respond.

i'm not a dildo fun but i do love it bigger. To me small is a complete turn off so u see, size do matter a lot. It all depends on the woman tho, how she likes it

[DickerSchwanz Senior Member Member of the Month Sept 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close DickerSchwanz]

Most woman are awfull with dildos. I use her dildo better on her then herself. Drives her crazy.
Womans perspective for her own vagina sucks when it comes to dildos. They cant reach the spots, angles and tire fast . If you get one with strong arms you know whats going on.

[bigbutlimp Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bigbutlimp]

Go on Amazon and check out the 6.5" dildos. Best rated dildo. Why, because it fits the majority of women. Some like them big, usually because they have big pussys. But most like average to just above.

interesting.Ive long suspected 6.5"is the ideal penis size,if such a thing exists

[Phoenix7672 Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Phoenix7672]

Keep in mind too, most dildos list their total length, which includes the balls and the suction cup at the base. I know when I looked to compare at one point, I noticed lots might have said 8", but if you read the specs they are only about 6-6.5" insertable.

I think this also adds to why some women get sizes wrong, since whatever size dildo they've taken you need to subtract 2-3" from it, even if they said they got it all in (unless they swallowed it whole to the point of it disappearing. lol)

[bigbutlimp Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bigbutlimp]

I find they vary.The first one we got(Anne Summers)was described as 6",but yes,without the cup it was about 4 and- three -quarters.then there is a vibrating one -A.S.again-that was supposed to be the same,but was 6.5"without the cup.

Then there is a really big Doc Johnson or whatever its called from the states,that uses that special ultra- realistic material.Its modeled on a real guys penis,so is really pornstar size.....nearly 6"wide.That says its 6"long however,but is nearer 7".

Another problem is that "realistic"dildos like this are really the wrong shape:cocks are longer at the bottom than the top if you think about it.

When I compared the last one with my dick,it actaually looked a fair bit bigger,but I realised that it was wider from the top,but not looking from the side.Penises are not all the same in section-but thats another issue