My girlfriend wants to help! :D

[McLoven Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close McLoven]

I've already posted this question in the beginner forum but was advised to post it here. I will quote what I posted before and add some details which have been touched upon in the last forum.

So I just started the 90 day routine and I'm going on my forth week. I live with my girlfriend so I wasn't able to keep it from her for long. So, after i told her what was going on, she asked if there was anything she could do to help! I did my best to think if something but I couldn't. Is there anything she can do to help? I've spent a fair amount of time on the site and haven't seen anything so far.

--- Her helping jelq is honestly almost out of the question for now. It's difficult keeping my EL below 70% on my own. If she were there it'd be very difficult, and if she were the one actually doing it sheMight get 2 reps in before having to stop and wait.

--- edging during sex has been mentioned and I'm looking into how to incorporate it.

--- She is kinda new to all the sexual stuff and it's taken a while to get to the point where we can talk about it openly by ourselves. So joining the gym will be brought up, but we might not see her here for a while...

--- Any more suggestions on any of these topics are welcome.

--- Is there anything she can do outside of my actual PE?

[MrB8 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close MrB8]

I've already posted this question in the beginner forum but was advised to post it here. I will quote what I posted before and add some details which have been touched upon in the last forum.


--- Her helping jelq is honestly almost out of the question for now. It's difficult keeping my EL below 70% on my own. If she were there it'd be very difficult, and if she were the one actually doing it sheMight get 2 reps in before having to stop and wait.

--- edging during sex has been mentioned and I'm looking into how to incorporate it.

--- She is kinda new to all the sexual stuff and it's taken a while to get to the point where we can talk about it openly by ourselves. So joining the gym will be brought up, but we might not see her here for a while...

--- Any more suggestions on any of these topics are welcome.

--- Is there anything she can do outside of my actual PE?

She can read and help you better understand the exercises.

She can motivate you, and help you stay focused and not go overboard so you don't hurt yourself.

Good luck!

[McLoven Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close McLoven]

She can read and help you better understand the exercises.

She can motivate you, and help you stay focused and not go overboard so you don't hurt yourself.

Good luck!

That's a good idea. Will probably get her comfortable with the site too.

[Mrs. workin_4_it Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Mrs. workin_4_it]

We are a support system for both males and females. You can just have her read over your shoulder or show her how the site works and let her browse. =)