First Time

[The Unit Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close The Unit]

Hey guys and girls, this is my first time posting so I'm not sure if this is in the right section. I joined here a while back just to read all the tips people have given in relation to sex. I was a virgin up until a few days ago and feel that some of the stuff I read on here really helped me overcome my insecurities.

I just wanted to share my experience and ask a few questions. The girl I'm seeing has been with 8 guys before me so as you can guess I felt like I had a lot to prove, especially it being my first time and I hadn't told her this because I felt embarrassed. I'm only just at between 5.8 to 6 inches non-bone pressed and like 6.4/6.5 bone pressed length and my girth is like 5.3, although I didn't measure that I couldn't get it in a toilet tube so just guessing it's around that. I think my penis is kinda small (that's why I'm here) but when I was with this girl she made out it was the biggest out of the previous 8 guys. During our sex she had three orgasms and then asked to stop cause she was worn out or it was hurting. I never got to cum but I thought I'd cum straight away. I noticed she also stopped rubbing her clit during penetration which is a good sign, right? So apparently she had three orgasms and I was her biggest (even though I feel I'm below average). Am I right to assume she's just being nice. She was tight and hadn't had sex since her ex over a year ago. But I just find it hard to believe out of 8 guys she claims I'm the biggest and gave her better sex than her previous lovers. Baring in mind I was a virgin so I'm kinda thinking this girl is just not trying to hurt my feelings. She's also complained of a sore stomach and her vagina burning a little bit since we did it and she wouldn't let me have sex again with her in the morning cause it hurt. We went for like over an hour but that's including foreplay.

So, do the ladies here thing the girl I'm seeing is just trying to make me feel good? It doesn't really make sense to me since I always considered myself average or small. I also feel like she might be insulted because I didn't cum and I'm not sure why I couldn't.

Thanks for reading my experience and please share your thoughts. Go easy on me as I'm new to this forum!! So if I've said anything stupid I do apologise.

[Eazygeezer Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Eazygeezer]

Welcome

Me, I would Take it as a compliment I'm guessing you're still planning on seeing her again?
if a girl says her fanny is sore and you made her come 3 times you were definitely doing something right!
who gives a crap how big her exes were? After a year she will be tight, nothing wrong with either your length or girth buddy, just make sure you don't lose sight of what's in it for you as well, it's a 2 person sport you know!

Sadly we take compliments poorly and insults to heart, it's the way we are wired I think. Do PE for your penis health and size increases if that's what you want, but I think my first time took about 5 seconds lol

Dont sweat it and good luck n your PE journey!

[AlpineNewt Senior Member Member of the Month Sept 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close AlpineNewt]

Hello and welcome,
You're above average man, How Long is My Schlong? and if you can't fit in a toilet roll you're probably over 5.5" in girth.
If she really is only telling you this to make you feel good then she must like you, isn't that flattering? Seems like you both had a great time, I envy you!

[The Unit Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close The Unit]

Welcome

Me, I would Take it as a compliment I'm guessing you're still planning on seeing her again?
if a girl says her fanny is sore and you made her come 3 times you were definitely doing something right!
who gives a crap how big her exes were? After a year she will be tight, nothing wrong with either your length or girth buddy, just make sure you don't lose sight of what's in it for you as well, it's a 2 person sport you know!

Sadly we take compliments poorly and insults to heart, it's the way we are wired I think. Do PE for your penis health and size increases if that's what you want, but I think my first time took about 5 seconds lol

Dont sweat it and good luck n your PE journey!

Hey! Thanks for the quick reply. Yeah I do plan on seeing her again although I initially thought this would just be the start of one of many. I do actually really like her. It's just turning 22 and only having been with one girl is kinda embarrassing for me. But if I like her then I guess that shouldn't matter. She thinks she's the 4th lol.

Maybe it was cause of nerves or something that I didn't cum or maybe cause of too much porn? I did keep producing pre-cum prior to penetrating her so would that have affected it?

[MrB8 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close MrB8]

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First of all, you have nothing to prove, its not a competition, regardless of how many EX partners she has had before you, she is now with you, and not for your penis, which we will be getting to in a moment, don't base your confidence on your size, and don't be ashamed of your lack of experience, now you started, and she enjoyed it, that was not a lie, an the toilet paper test is nothing but that, toilet paper, it proves that the roll is larger in diameter than your penis, that is all.

As mentioned before, your size is above average, and you have big girth, now learn how to put it to good use, believe your lady and believe in her, as well as help her enjoy the experience.

https://www.pegym.com/forums/womans-...women-sex.html


Don't miss this thread!!

https://www.pegym.com/forums/penis-e...t-mindset.html

And if you haven't already done so, please https://www.pegym.com/forums/beginne...cess-here.html and focus on safety.

Then pick one of the manual beginner routines to follow for at least 90 days to condition your penis, most members here choose JP90.



Pay attention to your PIs, your penis is trying to tell you if you are over working, or you are in the growth zone, aim for positive PIs, and steer away from the negative ones.

Physiologic Indicators (PIs) to Help Penis Growth!

What to Expect....A Beginner's Guide


Good Luck!

[The Unit Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close The Unit]

Hello and welcome,
You're above average man, How Long is My Schlong? and if you can't fit in a toilet roll you're probably over 5.5" in girth.
If she really is only telling you this to make you feel good then she must like you, isn't that flattering? Seems like you both had a great time, I envy you!

It's a UK toilet roll tube so I think they're smaller aren't they? 5.5 might be right, I don't know but she seemed to think it was big. I guess porn ruins a guy's perception. I guess I need to learn to take a compliment when I get one, and no I never discussed any of this insecurity with her in case people think I asked her 'are you lying?' haha.

Thanks for the reply!

[AlpineNewt Senior Member Member of the Month Sept 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close AlpineNewt]

Maybe it was cause of nerves or something that I didn't cum or maybe cause of too much porn? I did keep producing pre-cum prior to penetrating her so would that have affected it?

It might be nerves or you might have been gripping too tight during masturbation or you're just not used to coming inside a vagina yet.

[MrB8 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close MrB8]

It's a UK toilet roll tube so I think they're smaller aren't they? 5.5 might be right, I don't know but she seemed to think it was big. I guess porn ruins a guy's perception. I guess I need to learn to take a compliment when I get one, and no I never discussed any of this insecurity with her in case people think I asked her 'are you lying?' haha.

Thanks for the reply!

Yes.

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[Eazygeezer Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Eazygeezer]

Get off the porn! Pronto, I've taken the step of stopping it after 30+ years of it. Especially the free and more than readily available access, you will become desensitised to normal sex the more you carry on.

I am currently retraining my brain to allow me to learn how to use my brain to picture/fantasize instead of it being numbed with zillions of different videos and pictures etc.

I think I'm currently on day 10 of no porn, I still need a little stimulus during PE and edging but I'm getting there. It is slow after such a long time but it is coming back slowly and surely!

All you should have to do is picture your last session with your girl and it should be up up and away lol

Just my 2p worth, good luck!