fingering compared to cunnilingus

[small25 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close small25]

hi,

i just want to know which is better for the female, overall. sometimes i hear only fingering is better. sometimes i hear only cunnilingus is better. and sometimes i hear a combination is better. overall, (besides the combination) which is better- only fingering or only cunnilingus?

thank you.

[Jaw Breaker Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Jaw Breaker]

The tongue. You don't even need to insert anything to make a woman orgasm repeatedly. The tongue is mightier than the sword.

[MrB8 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close MrB8]

Every lady is different, some ladies prefer oral, some ladies prefer manual, some prefer a combination of both, or have reservations or aversion to either method. It is a rather personal and individualistic thing, communicate with your partner and ask her.

You can learn a lot of techniques and sex tips by reading the Most Popular Women's Perspective Forum FAQs!

[Jaw Breaker Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Jaw Breaker]

I was with a girl once that didn't like receiving oral at all ... she only liked giving it. That was sort of a turn off for me because I really enjoy going down on a girl. But it was less work for me, anyway. >_>

Every lady is different, some ladies prefer oral, some ladies prefer manual, some prefer a combination of both, or have reservations or aversion to either method. It is a rather personal and individualistic thing, communicate with your partner and ask her.

Yes, this is true. Listening and paying attention are very important.

[Qandisa Senior Member Member of the Month March 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Qandisa]

Every lady is different, some ladies prefer oral, some ladies prefer manual, some prefer a combination of both, or have reservations or aversion to either method. It is a rather personal and individualistic thing, communicate with your partner and ask her.

Absolutely! Personally I find fingering annoying most of the time and would take oral over it any time. But every woman is different. Just like guys are different with what they like with blowjobs - what works with one doesn't necessarily work with another, and some have some very specific preferences.

[TPW Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close TPW]

Every lady is different, some ladies prefer oral, some ladies prefer manual, some prefer a combination of both, or have reservations or aversion to either method. It is a rather personal and individualistic thing, communicate with your partner and ask her.

You can learn a lot of techniques and sex tips by reading the Most Popular Women's Perspective Forum FAQs!

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[INS Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close INS]

Women vary a lot. You'd actually have to find different techniques to see what works.

[darinsixpack Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close darinsixpack]

I've found that women who can experience vaginal orgasms, in multiple form, usually prefer you get them ready a bit and then get right down to deep intense penetration. Women who are not this way, generally prefer oral on their clit. Some women who have deep vaginal orgasms, prefer fingering over oral.

It still always amazes me how it varies in want and need from woman to woman. If you see the above, it can also be a basic guide for what type of woman is most compatible for you, as a man. If you're not a real intense, hard banging kinda man and prefer a more sensual slow approach, a woman who experiences multiple-deep vaginal orgasms might not be a match for you. If you're more a guy who prefers going at it fast and furious and have the stamina for that, then she would likely be a match. My two cents.

[mulkey Banned Find all posts View Profile Close mulkey]

Mine likes both at once sometimes. I try to hit that G spot in the front of her vag with my finger while going at it with my tongue and lips on her clitoris. She likes a little sucking action there too. They are all different.

[resqguy Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close resqguy]

For me, as a man, the fun is in the discovery. I try everything and note the reaction. It sometimes varies on mood too.

[islander Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close islander]

I. Can get a clit O with a vibe. I like fingering. Before and after you have o'd. It's a work out so get that arm and shoulder and wrist healthy. Ambidextrous is top notch lol. Winner lol. Until I pass out type thing. Change the sheets eh.

[Toadstool Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Toadstool]

*fans self* it's getting hot in here

[someone_like_u Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close someone_like_u]

Both are great by themselves or in combination together. I can't say I prefer one over the other and of course....all women are different.

I can only attest to my preferences and the whys.

*Fingers - My husband does this cupping thing with his hand that is just wonderful/possessive. He's a working man with semi rough hands and geessshhhhh, feels amazing. (Not knocking any man with soft non callused hands. I just enjoy what I have and am familiar with.)

*Tongue - The tongue is an amazing body part. It can be soft and then hard(oh wait....yeah, I'm still talking about the tongue), the heat from it, the breathing from the nose tickling. Heck, forgot about his lips....and then there's the facial hair....oh my!

And if you combine all that, it's flipping 4th of July fireworks down below!

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

I agree with SLU -- both are great! I cum more easily with his fingers, though.... not sure why that is.

[akaTrex Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close akaTrex]

I like both but prefer giving oral. I love massaging my brides perineum or G spot while performing oral.