Balls deep vs not balls deep

[SuperDD Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SuperDD]

Since a woman can only hold so much without hitting the cervix & all guys want a wiener that hangs to our knees, I was wondering something.

Is there a difference between a guy with a six incher thrusting and bouncing his balls off of your ass verses a guy with a long cock thrusting but leaving a couple inches of his shaft out and not going balls deep so he doesn't hit the cervix.


Does it feel different or is there any type of turn on from holding all of a guy or is it basically the same?

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

Hmm, can't say -- never had anyone that huge.
I can say, however, that I love the feel of his balls slapping against me when he goes deep. I especially love it when he's behind me and they slap against my clit -- that's a great feeling, very erotic!

[MrB8 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close MrB8]

I do not think it is the same, even from a male perspective, a too long penis would mean it is less probable to enjoy certain positions or activities, like rubbing the pubic mounds or a certain thrusting technique, care has to be taken to avoid hitting the cervix as well.

You will find the selection of threads in the Most Popular Women's Perspective Forum FAQs very informative.

[SXEUXT Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SXEUXT]

If you are too big, you'd have to hold back.. I can imagine for rough sex (without hurting) it'd be difficult to go as deep as possible quick and rough without the risk of hitting the cervix.

I think it can be quite simple: Too big is less enjoyable. Too big means being extra careful, which is energy and focus wasted on something that could instead have been used for extra pleasure-giving. Being able to go 'all out' instead of holding back, if you catch my drift.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Well that's a tough one for a guy to answer so I won't. You know you have probably the only post I have ever made with no answer, no sarcasm, no nothing. Maybe I'm coming down with something!

[kickinthemebs Senior Member Member of the Month Feb 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close kickinthemebs]

My girlfriend is also quite vocal about this too

I especially love it when he's behind me and they slap against my clit -- that's a great feeling, very erotic!

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

Being on the small size I can't help but go balls deep. However I think ifs better for any woman, since so few reach vaginal orgasm. I position my pelvic bone as as close as I can on her clitorous, which requires balls deep in the missionary position. So not am I only hitting her G Spot but grinding on her clit. Works every time, and ever time, and again and again...... Etc

[Phoenix7672 Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Phoenix7672]

To me, as a guy, I'd think longer is better, since length is controllable and I'd rather be able to max a girl out in any position, if that's what she wanted. Again though...this is male logic. lol

[Zman007 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Zman007]

Being too long can cause your favorite appendage to be sore the next day, especially girls that love the A and Deep spot and don't feel it as pain. Basically makes pubic mound grinding a no go though. But, if you can push on the A spot and hit the clit with your thumb at the same time, most women have not experience that dual sensation before and I call it the Easy Button.

But, any longer than 8" is leaving some out in the cold in some position on some women.

[Qandisa Senior Member Member of the Month March 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Qandisa]

There is definitely a difference! Given the choice I will absolutely always prefer a cock that can go in balls-deep - every time, hands down, no doubt about it.

Like Batwoman said, especially when being taken from behind there's just nothing like it. And when you've got a guy that's willing to go at it full-force, his hips smacking against your ass and his balls slapping against your clit over and over and over again... knowing that he's being totally unrestrained and giving himself over to it 110%... absolute heaven.

A guy with a bigger cock just can't do that. You just can't be a completely unrestrained beast and have the restraint to keep yourself from going too far in at the same time.

[lilbigman Senior Member Member of the Month June 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close lilbigman]

My take on this is that as long as your long enough to hit that spot it don't matter. That depth can vary quite a bit. Take my woman for example. Ive measured her using a dildo. This was after she was warmed up mind you. ;-) I asked her to tell me when she felt that it was hitting the back of her and she stopped me at 5.5" So I wanted to see how much she could actually take and she stopped me and started pulling away at 7". So therefore anywhere from 5.5 to 7 is perfect for this particular girl. They are all different. (However I think that is pretty average) I know that for me personally I love being able to go balls deep. I want a woman that can take all of me. I have been with some that can't and to be honest with you, I really didn't like it.

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

Wow Q. That made me feel good but at 6.2 BPEL and 4.5 EG , I could pound for hours and doubt my nuts would be the only thing she could feel

[master-gauge Senior Member Member of the Month May 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close master-gauge]

I always said I would re-evaluate my efforts once I reached 7.25 BPEL to concentrate on girth after that..

[Phoenix7672 Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Phoenix7672]

I still want at least 8 BPEL, but if I can hit that I'm switching almost completely to girth.

[Jaw Breaker Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Jaw Breaker]

I don't have balls that can slap. They don't hang at all when erect, so it's quite irrelevant to me. I'm sure it's a great feeling, but it's something I may never experience with a female. I will be trying out testicular jelqing as part of my routine here soon ... and see if that helps. If it does ... great, but I'm not expecting much.