dating advice for the inexperienced

[tigerman20 Member Find all posts View Profile Close tigerman20]

2nd time i dated anyone outside of meeting them through school, friends, etc. The first date we went to a fun place with video games and laser tag. She said she had a blast. Second date we went to the movies. It was a pretty funny movie. I bought tickets, she offered to pitch in half this time since i payed for first date. We laughed, held hands, my arm was around her. I drove her home, and asked her if she wanted me to walk her to her door. I wanted to kiss her but i didn't say it. She smiled, touched my hand, and said, "next time!" She Got out fast and walked pretty fast almost like a jog to her door. Does this mean she's not interested? I'm a pretty confident and great guy, not ugly, and i'm where i want to be in life atm. she's beautiful, 7 years older, very sweet , very easy going and always has me pick what we do because she likes everything.
I'm 20. Last time i had a gf was when i was 15. :/
Age have anything to do with it?
Idfk. So confused.

[popol5169 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close popol5169]

She probably ran to her door in excitment, giggled on her bed and called her best friend to tell her about that new great guy she met.

But what do I know

[kickinthemebs Senior Member Member of the Month Feb 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close kickinthemebs]

Just ask her out again and you will know her feelings

[sexmaster Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close sexmaster]

yeah, just ask her out again. If she comes, it is on, kiss her, don't ask, just do it.

[Phoenix7672 Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Phoenix7672]

yeah, just ask her out again. If she comes, it is on, kiss her, don't ask, just do it.

That's probably what I would do. You don't know why she moved so quickly, but if she wants to do something again that's obviously a good sign. If she dodges and doesn't offer up an alternate date/time, then it is likely time to start looking for someone else.

[tigerman20 Member Find all posts View Profile Close tigerman20]

Awesome! Thanks, guys!

[Toadstool Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Toadstool]

2nd time i dated anyone outside of meeting them through school, friends, etc. The first date we went to a fun place with video games and laser tag. She said she had a blast. Second date we went to the movies. It was a pretty funny movie. I bought tickets, she offered to pitch in half this time since i payed for first date. We laughed, held hands, my arm was around her. I drove her home, and asked her if she wanted me to walk her to her door. I wanted to kiss her but i didn't say it. She smiled, touched my hand, and said, "next time!" She Got out fast and walked pretty fast almost like a jog to her door. Does this mean she's not interested? I'm a pretty confident and great guy, not ugly, and i'm where i want to be in life atm. she's beautiful, 7 years older, very sweet , very easy going and always has me pick what we do because she likes everything.
I'm 20. Last time i had a gf was when i was 15. :/
Age have anything to do with it?
Idfk. So confused.

Sounds like she thinks you're great, man. I think you're doing well. Keep doing what it is that you're doing

[phoenix09 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close phoenix09]

It could be that rather than your chivalric offer of an escort and a hope for a kiss was interpreted by her as an attempt to be invited inside. If that's the case, she was just trying to spare both of you the awkwardness that might come if she didn't want to have sex that particular night. Rather than be disheartened by that, be encouraged by her use of "next time"!

[tigerman20 Member Find all posts View Profile Close tigerman20]

Tou are all very helpful! What should the first kiss be like?

[sexmaster Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close sexmaster]

there is no perfect situation. Look her in the eyes, and go for it. Don't overthink

[tigerman20 Member Find all posts View Profile Close tigerman20]

Well i mean what would be more appropriate? A small peck, or make out, or in between?

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Just call her , go out , have fun, and see what happens. What's so hard about being young and enjoying yourself? You young guys are gonna kill me!

[Qandisa Senior Member Member of the Month March 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Qandisa]

Well i mean what would be more appropriate? A small peck, or make out, or in between?

The situation will tell you! You start out with a small kiss and if you're both feeling it and want more then you both lean in for more! That's about it!

[tigerman20 Member Find all posts View Profile Close tigerman20]

Okay, just go with the flow. Also i have another question.:P so i only went on two dates with her. Would it be appropriate to invite her to watch the superbowl with my family this sunday? It's not like anything serious, i just think it would be cool in general just to bring someone with me since they'll be having food and stuff.

[tigerman20 Member Find all posts View Profile Close tigerman20]

Sorry lol, i don't know anything about etiquette when it comes to dating. I appreciate the advice very much!