Girl said i was too big to have sex

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Is there a way to make it not hurt if she said its uncomfortable. First time i ran into this. I barely got half in and my mid girth made her jump. She couldnt take it and wanted to stop. How can you ease more in or make it hurt less

LOL wow you are exactly the same size I was when my partner really started to complain . In her case it was the girth not the length and was regardless of foreplay ,lube yada yada (damn her tight little pussy). In the end I cut down my pe and decided to maintain at 8 by 6. Now if this is not a long term partner you may prefer to look for a girl who can take more .
What has been your experience with oral /anal btw?

[akaTrex Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close akaTrex]

Hmm ok we didnt use lube and she was wet. Ok i got this. I know how i could have made it better. But is lube really one of the only ways i hate using lube

Ok you use Lube for PE but not for Sex?

I do not have your length but do have .50 more girth than you and Lube is a must. I have used Silicone for years but have switched to Coconut oil. Great for Fore Play Massage etc.

What I do now is I bought a generic Visine eye drops in the small bottle. Dump out the Visine and clean the bottle really good. Then load it up with Coconut Oil for intimate use!!!

Works Fantastic!

[INS Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close INS]

Ok you use Lube for PE but not for Sex?

I do not have your length but do have .50 more girth than you and Lube is a must. I have used Silicone for years but have switched to Coconut oil. Great for Fore Play Massage etc.

What I do now is I bought a generic Visine eye drops in the small bottle. Dump out the Visine and clean the bottle really good. Then load it up with Coconut Oil for intimate use!!!

Works Fantastic!

Coconut oil teh besto. Seriously, smells good, tastes good, can be used for cooking, sex, massages, hair etc etc.

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[lclutchl Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close lclutchl]

LOL wow you are exactly the same size I was when my partner really started to complain . In her case it was the girth not the length and was regardless of foreplay ,lube yada yada (damn her tight little pussy). In the end I cut down my pe and decided to maintain at 8 by 6. Now if this is not a long term partner you may prefer to look for a girl who can take more .
What has been your experience with oral /anal btw?

Never really done anal and i dont do oral easy i have to trust that female lol. If u meant oral on me i havent had anyone take it all the way down yet

[lclutchl Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close lclutchl]

Ok you use Lube for PE but not for Sex?

I do not have your length but do have .50 more girth than you and Lube is a must. I have used Silicone for years but have switched to Coconut oil. Great for Fore Play Massage etc.

What I do now is I bought a generic Visine eye drops in the small bottle. Dump out the Visine and clean the bottle really good. Then load it up with Coconut Oil for intimate use!!!

Works Fantastic!

I think ill try it . Ill go get some tommorow

[islander Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close islander]

Where's the pain? At what stage of the sex session? Sorry there shouldn't be pain. Do more investigating why where what stage is it burning tearing wth is it.
Yea you have good girth but not to cause pain to a healthy woman who is properly aroused.

Maybe she drives up quick. If so why. I just saw your pic and your head is same size as shaft from what I can tell. If so you need to go slower. Because a large head opens us up more then more narrow shaft behind it.

Bothers me how a "Use Lube" is always the first answer. Grrrr

[islander Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close islander]

* dries not drives

[Phoenix7672 Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Phoenix7672]

More proof 5.75 is big, bordering on huge (potentially). Hope I can get there some day :P

[closed224 Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2014, Feb 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close closed224]

Sorry Islander, probably the male get a tool to fix the problem mentality. I agree with you we should have asked more questions. OP can you answer Islanders questions please?

[Phoenix7672 Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Phoenix7672]

To play devil's advocate, I don't think it's fair to assume that all girls can take 5.75" or bigger without lube or even at all. Like it has been said before, vaginas come in all shapes and sizes just like penises do, so it would be fair to assume once you get to 5.5" MEG and above some will have issues in the same way how some will have issues with, say, 7" or more in length.

[lclutchl Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close lclutchl]

Where's the pain? At what stage of the sex session? Sorry there shouldn't be pain. Do more investigating why where what stage is it burning tearing wth is it.
Yea you have good girth but not to cause pain to a healthy woman who is properly aroused.

Maybe she drives up quick. If so why. I just saw your pic and your head is same size as shaft from what I can tell. If so you need to go slower. Because a large head opens us up more then more narrow shaft behind it.

Bothers me how a "Use Lube" is always the first answer. Grrrr

Not pain just discomfort also i should say my girth is at 5.9 6.0 when im with a women alone its 5.75. She said she felt lots of friction and she only had half of me in at that point. Yea ive been working on my head and it big now. Not as big as mid girth but bigger than what is right after my head. No burning but i think she might have been getting a few micro tears

[lclutchl Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close lclutchl]

To play devil's advocate, I don't think it's fair to assume that all girls can take 5.75" or bigger without lube or even at all. Like it has been said before, vaginas come in all shapes and sizes just like penises do, so it would be fair to assume once you get to 5.5" MEG and above some will have issues in the same way how some will have issues with, say, 7" or more in length.

My length is at 8.5 this girl here said im the biggest she been with, another recently said im in the top 3 and dont know who was bigger just that we all were. lmao i cant help but ask hahahaha

[closed224 Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2014, Feb 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close closed224]

What has the foreplay been like before penetration?

[lclutchl Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close lclutchl]

What has the foreplay been like before penetration?

Kissing and touching i didnt finger her at all or do oral. Maybe i should finger her. But she says her g spot does not work. What do u do when a female tells you that?