Advice on female pleasure

[Park Lib Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Park Lib]

Don't avoid women because of your penis size. Your inexperience and lack of confidence is what's holding you back (this is coming from a virgin btw). Just try to initiate contact, go to socials, speak to girls and generally flirt with them in a social setting. Anyway how do you know they all want big cocks? I bet a lot of them are virgins or not very experienced if they speak that way, at the very least they sound immature. Just find out for yourself first because creating demons doesn't help you.

[Durandal Member Find all posts View Profile Close Durandal]

Anyway how do you know they all want big cocks? I bet a lot of them are virgins or not very experienced

If you're asking me, Well, I know them gals want Big Dicks because every time I hear them talk about another guy they like I tend to hear the following; "Oh I hear he's got a Big Cock, I would love to sit on it", "I want my first to be big, I want him to make me scream" and "I want him to Fuck Me with his Big Dick" and "Hey my friend told me He had a Big one so I will totally ask him out" another one would be "So he's big huh, oh Im so going to sleep with him"... and these are coming from girls all over my campus. This is what convinced me to search for a solution to my length issue, find this website and do PE.

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The thing is I'm in a dorm on campus and I don't have the privacy or time to do PE so hopefully in the summer I can do more. I do kegals to get my EQUIPMENT to back to where it was. But now I'm trying to stay away from porn and masturbation. I'm just can't get my size out of mind and I think some of these guys on college doesn't understand that these girls in college want and desire a bigger size.

I usually wake up very early in the morning to overcome this problem, like at around 5 in the morning, 6a.m. if im very tired and I try to do my PE routine taking my time because I know everyone else is still sleeping and I have at least an hour to do my routine. Classes for me start at 8a.m. some weeks I only have classes 2 days a week others I have 3 days a week. I usually do them in the morning depending on my schedule. Thats just my setup. I try to be as flexible as I can with my schedule. Also I would say but not advice that if you have a vehicle, drive off to a place were you will have total privacy and do PE there or in your vehicle, whichever suits you best.

[akaTrex Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close akaTrex]

If you're asking me, Well, I know them gals want Big Dicks because every time I hear them talk about another guy they like I tend to hear the following; "Oh I hear he's got a Big Cock, I would love to sit on it", "I want my first to be big, I want him to make me scream" and "I want him to Fuck Me with his Big Dick" and "Hey my friend told me He had a Big one so I will totally ask him out" another one would be "So he's big huh, oh Im so going to sleep with him"... and these are coming from girls all over my campus.

I remember in College the gals ALL said if your were not Slamming their Cervix and making them Bleed you were a worthless pile of Pee Wee Herman meat!

Hence that is why there are so many single "Average" men in the USA and around the World. NOT!

Just saying!

[Qandisa Senior Member Member of the Month March 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Qandisa]

If you're asking me, Well, I know them gals want Big Dicks because every time I hear them talk about another guy they like I tend to hear the following; "Oh I hear he's got a Big Cock, I would love to sit on it", "I want my first to be big, I want him to make me scream" and "I want him to Fuck Me with his Big Dick" and "Hey my friend told me He had a Big one so I will totally ask him out" another one would be "So he's big huh, oh Im so going to sleep with him"... and these are coming from girls all over my campus. This is what convinced me to search for a solution to my length issue, find this website and do PE.

So my question is - if these women are so shallow that that's all they're interested in then why are you interested in them?

Any guy who's interested in me *just* for the size of my breasts is not a guy I want anything to do with. And I've been hit on by plenty of those. Even for casual hookups, I know that if the guy is focused solely on one area then it's not going to be a good time because he doesn't have the right mindset to be a good lover. And why would I waste my time on something that's not going to be an enjoyable experience? Any man who doesn't appreciate *everything* I have to offer, even for just a one-time thing, is not a man I want to be with.

I just don't understand why some guys want to make it *all* about their dick. Just like I don't want to be wanted *just* for my breasts, I can't imagine a guy saying yep I want a woman who doesn't care about anything other than the size of my penis - oh yeah that's the kind of gal for me!

Now I have been with guys who think that the only thing, or the most important thing, they bring to the table is their dick - and it's never a good thing. When the attitude is basically just "here it is baby, go at it!" then... that's really all there is to them. They don't make an effort to be anything other than that. They seem to think that the only thing that's going to have an impact on the sexual experience is their dick. Those guys are what I like to call... wrong. And boring. Soooo boring.

[Saoirse Member Find all posts View Profile Close Saoirse]

worthless pile of Pee Wee Herman meat!

Saoirse )O(

[Durandal Member Find all posts View Profile Close Durandal]

So my question is - if these women are so shallow that that's all they're interested in then why are you interested in them?

Athletic Bodies, beautiful faces, they are pretty much healthy attractive females. Their pheromone release I suppose is another reason that attracts me to them. Im a virgin, what did you expect.

I haven't had a girl in like, well, never, and believe it or not, for me, it sucks to be a virgin when most of my generation has already lost their virginity before or during Highschool.whenever they ask me if im a virgin and I say the truth that automatically places me at a lower level of existence in their eyes, if I lie and say Im not, they expect me to tell them a story about my first time and with who.

Guys in my campus are always saying they have Bigt dicks, especially the Football players. I just dont want a Big Dick only for the girls, but also for the sole purpose of increasing my confidence. There tends to be many assholes in college, I don't know if you have noticed. I would like to have a huge dick because, no matter what mean and hurtful things they say to me, I will at least know I have a bigger penis than they will ever have.

[CanIgrowPlease Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close CanIgrowPlease]

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So my question is - if these women are so shallow that that's all they're interested in then why are you interested in them?[=QUOTE]

Athletic Bodies, beautiful faces, they are pretty much healthy attractive females. Their pheromone release I suppose is another reason that attracts me to them. Im a virgin, what did you expect.

I haven't had a girl in like, well, never, and believe it or not, for me, it sucks to be a virgin when most of my generation has already lost their virginity before or during Highschool.whenever they ask me if im a virgin and I say the truth that automatically places me at a lower level of existence in their eyes, if I lie and say Im not, they expect me to tell them a story about my first time and with who.

Guys in my campus are always saying they have Bigt dicks, especially the Football players. I just dont want a Big Dick only for the girls, but also for the sole purpose of increasing my confidence. There tends to be many assholes in college, I don't know if you have noticed. I would like to have a huge dick because, no matter what mean and hurtful things they say to me, I will at least know I have a bigger penis than they will ever have.

I feel your pain man and im curious what college do you go to if it isn't too personal.

[this-moment Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close this-moment]

If you're asking me, Well, I know them gals want Big Dicks because every time I hear them talk about another guy they like I tend to hear the following; "Oh I hear he's got a Big Cock, I would love to sit on it", "I want my first to be big, I want him to make me scream" and "I want him to Fuck Me with his Big Dick" and "Hey my friend told me He had a Big one so I will totally ask him out" another one would be "So he's big huh, oh Im so going to sleep with him"... and these are coming from girls all over my campus. This is what convinced me to search for a solution to my length issue, find this website and do PE.

I've heard girls say things like this before. In fact the girl I lost my virginity to, when I was 15 and my dick was 4.5inches, was exactly like this. She would often tell me about how she slept with a guy and he was so big that he couldnt fit it all the way in and she loved it. Or constantly say things like "I wonder if he has a big dick" whenever she saw a guy she thought was attractive. And everytime i heard her say something like this it was like i was being stabbed from the inside. Despite the fact that she was a size queen and knew that I had a small dick she still slept with me on multiple occasions. Before I ever had sex with this girl (I was a virgin) we would hang out and she would say things to me like "oh i bet you have a big dick" and that would always make me not want to sleep with her because i didnt want to disappoint her. But I went for it anyways and yeah she wasnt "impressed" but she wasn't disappointed. Girls like these, believe it or not, are actually the minority. Shes the only girl out of 12 that ive slept with that place such an importance on dick size. And even if you do hooking up with a girl whos a size queen your first time its really not as bad as you'll make it out to be in your head.

[Saoirse Member Find all posts View Profile Close Saoirse]

Athletic Bodies, beautiful faces, they are pretty much healthy attractive females. Their pheromone release I suppose is another reason that attracts me to them. Im a virgin, what did you expect.

I haven't had a girl in like, well, never, and believe it or not, for me, it sucks to be a virgin when most of my generation has already lost their virginity before or during Highschool.whenever they ask me if im a virgin and I say the truth that automatically places me at a lower level of existence in their eyes, if I lie and say Im not, they expect me to tell them a story about my first time and with who.

Guys in my campus are always saying they have Bigt dicks, especially the Football players. I just dont want a Big Dick only for the girls, but also for the sole purpose of increasing my confidence. There tends to be many assholes in college, I don't know if you have noticed. I would like to have a huge dick because, no matter what mean and hurtful things they say to me, I will at least know I have a bigger penis than they will ever have.

You are a virgin.. OK? That does not make you any less of a man and actually if a woman is worth your time, she will respect that! At least you haven't been sleeping around and getting who knows what kind of diseases out there! If you want to increase your size for your own personal reasons then that is fantastic and I fully support you in that decision but don't do it because there are size queens out there who feel you are less than what you really are.. When you find the right girl, you will know and she will not care about your size!

SirKhufu and I were talking about this last night.. Not only does porn have a lot of impact on our perspective of what sex "SHOULD" be but commercials, TV shows and movies do too! Women are supposed to be screamers, muti-orgasmic and always wet at the drop of a hat... Men are supposed to be hung like a horse, hard as a rock and able to go for hours on end! Next time you watch a movie, look at the main male character's crotch.. I bet he's got a "bulge" but walk down the street and you'll notice 95% of REAL men don't! Sex has become so main stream and while it's not entirely a bad thing because we've learned to be more open about sexuality, it is not without negative impacts because we try to be what society says we should..

NEVER lie to your partner.. Be honest and upfront about your lack of experience and be proud of it.. Work on your confidence as a man, not just your cock and that will shine through to the right one..

Saoirse )O(

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NEVER lie to your partner.. Be honest and upfront about your lack of experience and be proud of it.. Work on your confidence as a man, not just your cock and that will shine through to the right one..

Saoirse )O(

Straight from the woman's mouth!

Here is my advice to you my friend:

1. Become a master of the female genitalia, stimulation zones and g-spots! Learn everything you can about how to pleasure a woman and how to take them to amazing levels of pleasure without ever using your cock! When you can do this, you will become a secret sexual god among average men. I know. I am!

2. Realize that while there are the size queens out there who have a distorted perception of what a MAN is based on his cock size, there are other REAL women out there who would much prefer a lover who is into THEM and giving THEM pleasure more than being the hung stud. Most (NOT ALL) men who are naturally hung tend to be arrogant and not the best lovers because they think cock size is all it takes. Prove them wrong and be the best lover you can by developing SKILL and TECHNIQUES that rocks every woman you cross paths with!

3. Keep in mind that just like all men love to be "the one" that takes a woman's virginity... there are women that are the same way! Until you find one, work on the 2 things I mention above. When she does come along, not only will she get to take your virginity, YOU will be able to blow her mind sexually. THAT will spread around campus faster than the hugest cock will

[Durandal Member Find all posts View Profile Close Durandal]

I Have Come Up With An Interesting Breakthrough...

You know what guys? After analyzing your last 3 posts(and all the other posts around here of course), I have meditated and discovered an interesting breakthrough... I think its a pretty sweet gig....
+ Saoirse, you said in previous posts if all girls in my campus only focus is on Big Dick, "why would I want them?..." and all those other kind and neat things you said...
+ This-moment, your experience with a girl before during and after sexual activity...
+ and SirKhufu, all that advice you gave me, and what you said about women trying to be "the one" to take my virginity....

All these things have forged an interesting breakthrough and I have come to a conclusion.
"I shouldn't just let any hot girl take my virginity." Whats the point of letting them take my virginity? to be another one of their collected virgins they keep in a bottle in a virginity storage room they get to show off?
No... what I will do, and it may sound stupid to some, or most, what I will do is look for another attractive virgin that way she takes my virginity and I take hers... She gets her Cherry Popped, and I earn my Red Wings That way no virginity is lost, its just traded! That way, no matter how many guys have sex with her after our encounter, and no matter how many girls get laid with me afterwards, we will both have pure virginity no matter what! And that's it!

[Qandisa Senior Member Member of the Month March 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Qandisa]

No... what I will do, and it may sound stupid to some, or most, what I will do is look for another attractive virgin that way she takes my virginity and I take hers... She gets her Cherry Popped, and I earn my Red Wings That way no virginity is lost, its just traded! That way, no matter how many guys have sex with her after our encounter, and no matter how many girls get laid with me afterwards, we will both have pure virginity no matter what! And that's it!

I..... uhm..... that makes my head hurt just trying to figure out how on earth you got to that


Okay I can't think of a lovely and polite way of saying this right now so..... sorry but that's kind of fucked up thinking. First of all, what does it matter if she's "attractive"? All that matters is that YOU are attracted to her. Secondly, for fucks sake stop thinking of this as a numbers game! I mean, what the hell? Earning this, trading that - it's not a fucking video game. Even when I was in my teens/20's I would have been appalled at that attitude. There's no scorecard, there's no one keeping track, there's no winner or loser. If you don't have an appreciation of the other person as a PERSON, even in a casual or one-night stand kind of encounter, then all you're doing is basically using a person as a masturbation tool. I'm not going to give you the line about how love makes everything better, but I will tell you that actually having some kind of personal connection and RESPECT for the person that you're fucking DOES. I have been in the position of having sex with someone just because I needed sex and didn't really care too much who it was and you know what? It's a shallow experience. When you're just using someone like that, it's like the difference between having a gourmet, fully loaded burger and plain, frozen, microwave burger. Sure they're both burgers but one is a much more enjoyable experience. And yes, sex with someone you actually have a deep connection with is more like having a thick, juicy steak. That whole warped and convoluted thinking about trading virginity and pure virginity and.... just stop.

Honestly I just want to bash something against a wall from reading that post.

[Saoirse Member Find all posts View Profile Close Saoirse]

No... what I will do, and it may sound stupid to some, or most, what I will do is look for another attractive virgin that way she takes my virginity and I take hers... She gets her Cherry Popped, and I earn my Red Wings That way no virginity is lost, its just traded! That way, no matter how many guys have sex with her after our encounter, and no matter how many girls get laid with me afterwards, we will both have pure virginity no matter what! And that's it!

LOL... I love the change in your attitude.. It shows a lot of positivity! On that note, don't "search" for any ONE in particular.. Just be yourself and you will find her... It won't matter if she is hot as a firecracker or ugly as sin, virgin or 30+ years of experience... You will find each other because it's right and not because you were looking...

Saoirse )O(

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LOL... I love the change in your attitude.. It shows a lot of positivity! On that note, don't "search" for any ONE in particular.. Just be yourself and you will find her... It won't matter if she is hot as a firecracker or ugly as sin, virgin or 30+ years of experience... You will find each other because it's right and not because you were looking...

Saoirse )O(

Not only will it happen, but it will be part of my plan.