Does a mans penis matter with social relationships

[tmacdaddy Banned Find all posts View Profile Close tmacdaddy]

You have a very low opinion of women don't you tmacdaddy

no good sir, go read post #39 on this thread it was responding to that...lol

[PurpleOnes Senior Member Member of the Month June 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close PurpleOnes]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0iyeUcFKRv4
gold digging women...this is just one example...but there is another prank where the women agree to go on a date as the man stands next to the ferrari, and then all bail on him as he walks over to his common ford or something

That is partly true but this guy is quite popular on youtube and it can be always staged not saying that it isn't reality.

[akaTrex Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close akaTrex]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0iyeUcFKRv4
gold digging women...this is just one example...

STOP the PRESSES. Yep that seals it . . . . . I will get all my reliable information from YouTube!

[TrisShort Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TrisShort]

Hi there everyone, I have a bit of an odd question. I am wondering if my penis would ever prevent me from having friends or would lead people to make fun of me. Right now I am recovering from sitting a certain way with an erection plus once I jelqued wrong and i think it made my penis look a little bit different but not terrible. I am wondering if that would ever get in the way of me living life normally because of anyone making fun of me or anything like that. Right now my penis is not hung very well while flaccid but seems an ok length when i measure it. If this does not get better that would not lead to people thinking badly of me or anything like that would it?

Thank you everyone. This is something I have been very worried about. I would really appreciate any input. Thank you. Sorry if this is a random question.

I can completely relate to this question & have certainly allowed my low-average peen to affect my social life. People (usually, in my personal experience, women & those with above average penises) see small cock insecurity as a person being a child who should just get the fuck over it. But the actual response of people who see a small cock is to laugh, snigger, finger point & basically act like Neanderthals who've just seen a spaceship land outside their cave.

I've had enough situations to know that a small cock (and we're talking flaccid, although I'm a believer in flaccid length being a good indicator of erect length) certainly affects social standing & in some places you can become the small cock attached to a guy, rather than the other way round (in other words, that's how people primarily identify you). In school, college & military, where guys shower/change naked, I've always been the smallest, save for a guy at school with a true micropeen. The teasing made me aware enough to avoid public urinals etc. Even my best friend from the military couldn't resist telling his non-military friends, resulting in several small cock references being thrown my away, along with copious amounts of sniggering.

When I got a job outside the military, I volunteered for the work soccer team & of course colleagues got to see me naked in the shower. It was by far the stupidest thing I could ever have done. You'd say I should have learnt my lesson by then. The resulting humiliation - word rapidly spreading to the women I work with - led to my first real true anxiety & social angst. I noticed that everytime I wore light trousers, the girls would stare at my lack of a bulge, looking for evidence of this circus freak they'd heard about. A day wouldn't go by without male & female colleagues making a sniggering reference to small cocks, within my earshot or directly to me. You get to see the true vindictive nature of people in situations like that, and it's made me a better person in that I'm now much more careful what I say about people who are different in any way from the 'norm'. I'm a confident, outgoing person but found that I was allowing myself to be completely beaten down & was developing an unhealthy persecution complex.

My true saviour is my partner, a rare & wonderful woman. She was upfront with me when she met me - her previous partner had been huge & given her the best sex of her life based on size. I could never do that because she needs to be filled/stretched etc to get those big vaginal orgasms. But she assured me that it made no difference - she would blissfully give those up in order to have the guy of her dreams. She made my insecurity seem stupid & pointless, which in turn made me realise it was.

There's no doubt I'll always have small cock anxiety. When I saw clips on You Tube of Lily Allen ridiculing small dick men at all her concerts, saying they were disappointing & not fit for long-term relationships, I cringed - not so much at her but at the hundreds (thousands?) of female fans screaming their approval. But if the only person who is going to be using my small cock - namely, my partner - is satisfied, then fuck the rest of them.

[WIItard Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close WIItard]

BTW, you know the thing about redheads is they're basically white sistahs. The outward appearance is different but the attitude is all the same. We have enough of em in our family and they are some STRONG emotionally unstable women.

Oh that's part of the fun. If she can't give you a blow job then turn on a dime and give you an ass beating, what's the point???? LOL.

[WIItard Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close WIItard]

Almost got lost in the shuffle and this may even require it's own thread but that's a very interesting quote. "You financial situation" ... what bearing should this have on the attractiveness of a man (or woman)? Not looking to get into the whole "gold digger" conversation but what does the size of a person's bank account have to do with how attractive they are? And how would you know at first glance without getting to really know them?

Yes it does matter and some times it's meaningless.

Husband hunters are looking for signs of wealth, on the other hand I have hit wealthy women who think I'm a beach bum and that's what they were looking for. Trust me the pretty women head for money or you could say a more secure future.

[Hopica Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hopica]

@Trisshort
Thank you for sharing your outlook , I feel you on this one !

Although I am slightly above average right now, 2 years ago I had a really deep complex about my size, and hearing celebrities shouting all over the world that they "need" (lol this word) a big dick, hearing girls in a catholic school (who were virgins on top of that) speaking about "black dicks" , reading on the internet stories about girls who were proudly cheating on their husband by having sex with a well-endowed man etc ... used to kill me off, and same goes for comments about guys height, body, wealth ... (Not cool when you're a small fat poor guy haha)

But now I have a pleasant feeling hearing that kind of stuff. The main thing I've discovered during my short existence is that frustration is my best source of motivation I'm even more willing to succeed if I know that I suffer from a disadvantage (whether it is tied to my genetics or my situation).
And according to me , finding a careful and comprehensive woman when you suffer from "the small cock anxiety" is the best victory you could accomplish over such a society, gratz man !

@OP
I can't see how penis size can affect relations with friends, I mean, except for collective activities such as sport (cloakroom) in the MOST EXTREM CASES, nobody will ever know what your size is .

Ps : Sorry for the possible grammar faults

[ForeignObject Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ForeignObject]

Not all women get turned on by big dicks. My wife tells me that they look like they hurt and sex isn't about pain, but pleasure.

[akaTrex Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close akaTrex]

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[TheGreatDivider Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close TheGreatDivider]

Oh that's part of the fun. If she can't give you a blow job then turn on a dime and give you an ass beating, what's the point???? LOL.

You call that fun!? If that's your idea of a good time.... then you need therapy.
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[WIItard Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close WIItard]

You call that fun!? If that's your idea of a good time.... then you need therapy.
https://shrink4men.wordpress.com/

Humor is lost on you and I'm not clicking whatever is in that link.

[MrsLooking4more Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2013PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrsLooking4more]

Oh that's part of the fun. If she can't give you a blow job then turn on a dime and give you an ass beating, what's the point???? LOL.

I know this was sarcastic but it sounds like fun to me, as long as my hubby is doing the oral and spanking. Yum!

[SergTheBurg Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SergTheBurg]

This woman apparently likes the lil peters lol

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[benschmidt Senior Member Member of the Month July 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close benschmidt]

I know that link was removed, but I'm guessing it was something like this:
https://youtu.be/FZluzt3H6tk

[Cavalier Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Cavalier]

The link was removed because it was to a pornography website.